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i need some help o am realy scared...


Question Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:14 pm

well i am 15 and my gf is 24 and we had sex for 1st time and i used a condom but the 1st time we did it it was for maby 60 sec top and then after a bit we tryed agin and it was for a bit (with a comdom) and then we stoped for like 30 sec and she took the condome off and then she wanted 2 go agin but she didn't want me 2 put a condom on and i asker her like 3 times and she sed its fine i won't get pregnat and she sed that there was only 1 day a month a chick can get pragnat and its rite befor they get there pearoid...but i never busted in her wile the comdom was off but i know quite a bit still got in there and now i am kinda scared...


p.s. the reason we didn't do it for like no time at all and then stoped and then did it agin is beacuz it was bolth of out 1t time and i know i popped her cherry beacuz it blead a bit...

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xY0M0MMAx answered Saturday August 8 2009, 4:24 pm:
Your girlfriend isn't too bright. Girls can get pregnant any day of the month.

You never asked a question but I'm assuming you're wondering if she was pregnant. Well, you shouldn't have listened when she said she wouldn't get pregnant even if you didn't have a condom on, cause she's wrong. Tell her to get a pregnancy test.

And in case you didn't catch this from the other 90348509345 answers, your relationship's illegal.

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BahaiMa22 answered Saturday August 8 2009, 11:51 am:
It is Illegal to have a relationship with anyone that is over the age of 18, You are a minor she is an adult. Therefore, She could go to jail for a very very long time. There is NO time of the month where a woman can't get pregnant that is a complete lie. Not being mean here but what is she a complete idiot?! You are a kid, Yes at fifteen you are still a kid a teenager AND in High School. Guess what, Sex with a minor is statutory rape even if you agree with it. Don't let her fool you buy listening to hear say "Well I love you!" trust me, She don't love you. If she did she wouldn't of dated you because not only is she putting herself at risk by rotting in prison but you also will have a reputation that will stick with you. Your best bet, Is to report her and END the relationship right away. From now on stick with people around your own age and this doesn't mean go out and date someone who is 19 either STILL ILLEGAL and WRONG!

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christina answered Saturday August 8 2009, 9:33 am:
No. Absolutely not. NO.

End this relationship. It is ILLEGAL. I don't care how cool you think you are, how much you think she loves you, or how much you think you love her - your relationship is SHIT. DUMP HER IMMEDIATELY.

This is very illegal. I'm not sure what a 24 year old is doing with a 15 year old but that needs to end. It is statutory rape & if anyone finds out, she can go to jail for a very long time - especially for having sex with you.

Also, she lied to you. Girls can get pregnant ANYTIME of the month. I don't care if it's a full moon or if the sky is purple, SHE CAN GET PREGNANT.

So not only is your girlfriend messed up for dating a baby, she's also a liar. :D Dump her. This relationship is illegal and can only get worse. End it before you get yourselves into serious trouble.

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es answered Saturday August 8 2009, 12:02 am:
Ok first of all, do you realize how dangerous being w. someone that age is? I know you think it seems cool, but honestly if you were 24, what would you be doing with a 15 year old? This is illegal, and if someone finds out, it's statutory rape. Congratulations.

Second, "she sed that there was only 1 day a month a chick can get pragnat and its rite befor they get there pearoid" .... she lied to you. A female can get pregnant at ANY TIME NO MATTER WHAT. So she doesn't know what she's talking about.

It doesn't matter how long you were in her, if your sperm went in here there is a chance she can get pregnant.

Stop this relationship before you get yourself in trouble. It's not worth it. You'll either get her in jail or you'll become a daddy at 15.

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KlutzyKim answered Friday August 7 2009, 11:51 pm:
You're fifteen..
And your girlfriend is twenty four?
She's either desperate, or a pedophile.
Either way, your relationship is illegal and if the local police found out about it, your girlfriend would be doing a few years in jail for statutory rape.
Very dangerous situation you're in right now.

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jm93 answered Friday August 7 2009, 10:53 pm:
Bad decision not using a condom after a little while. It doesn't matter if she didn't want one on you..you should've kept it on anyway. But! as long as she doesn't miss her periods or anything..it should all be fine.

It's good you used a condom most of the time though. Are you sure some got in her? I mean, it's possible without the condom on...no sperm got in to her because as you said you didn't "bust in to her"..which may mean you have a pretty good chance that nothing happend.

Just be careful next time you have sex. ALWAYS wear a condom.

Hope I helped. :)

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