okay theres this guy that wants to have sex with me and i want to have sex with him too but im a lil scared cuz it will be my first time and everything will be new to me and im not sure on what to do, but i dont want him to "pop my cherry" and then its like all messy. . .so what do i do if he does and i start bleeding, how do i act calm about it and juss clean up so we can keep on with the sex?. . .and how much blood comes out? can you pop your own cherry by sticking sumthing in ur vagina?
As for him popping your cherry, you may have already done it. Sometimes girls' "cherries" are popped from falling off a bike, riding a horse, or a number of other things.
How do you act calm about bleeding? Well, just like that; act calm. Don't freak out. Maybe make a joke about how he popped your cherry? How do you clean it up? Try to get to a bathroom as quickly as possible, and just clean it up like you would if you started bleeding, I guess.
HotSauce answered Sunday July 19 2009, 6:42 pm: Well if you want him to be your first time that is completely up to you. It doesn't hurt too bad if the guy knows what he's doing, considering you're a virgin. You can actually pop your own cherrie, it's none to be done. With dildos, even riding a bicycle can pop your cherrie depending on what happens. When your cherrie pops, it doesn't bleed to much, it's not like a massive bloody mess, just like if you were spotting during a period.. If you're worried about there being any sort of mess, explain to him about it. If you don't want him to pop it, you'd probable be better to not have sex, but that is my own opinion. [ HotSauce's advice column | Ask HotSauce A Question ]
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