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i wear my hair the same way everyday - down and straightened. it's getting boring & i'd like to wear my hair differently. i like it scrunched but i'm always too tired in the morning to scrunch it. is there anyway i can shower at night and scrunch it before i go to bed without it getting frizzy and all messed up? thanks a bunch! (link)
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ok well some of my friends get waves in their hair if the shower at night and then whear their hair in a bun while they sleep.
or if you put your hair in a bunch of tiny little braids (while your hair is still wet) and sleep like that when you wake up in the morning, just take out your braids and your hair will look really scrunched.
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well you see...
i have a friend and she can be a definite boy stealer, you cant tell her anything about your boyfriend or she'll steal him. Im dating a guy... let's call him Mic well Mic tells her she is hot and he loves her but then he says don't tell Franny (thats my name) since we are friends she tells me and i was really sad, she said "i don't like him i already like someone!" then i said " why didn't you tell him that?" she says it helps her gain self asteem when a boy calls her hot. But Mic does not know that i know he's been flirting and i really like him and my best friend. But she always talks about herself and doensnt care about my fellings at all.
HELPPPPP!!! (link)
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you need to confront mic about this!
you also need to tell your best friend it bugs her when she flirts with your BOYFRIEND!!! if shes really your best friend, she'll stop because it really really hurts, and for once cant she just let you ahve this one guy?
and if shes really your friend, she'll understand. tell her, you dont want her to get pissed, but imagine if her bf said that he loved another girl and that other girl was her best friend and she didnt do anything about it. wouldnt she be upset?
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okay so this is kinda long so bare with me...okay so i broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago because i had to focus on my studies (which is completely true by the way) and let me backtrack for you,when we were together there was this girl in my class (which me and my boyfriend were both in) who was always trying to flirt with me and he kinda flirted back and she would tell him that she was mad at him or not talk to him because i was with him which im guessing she was jealous because she has a major crush on him..but during that time i was with my boyfriend he would get mad at every little thing i did and not talk to me or just ignore me...and i was hardly ever mad at him the only thing that bothered me was because in class when he would flirt with the girl he would word to her "i heart you" and say "i love you" in class to her give her hugs and flirt touch her which really bothered me because your doing that in front of your girlfriend you know? but i always let it go..i guess because he was known as a big "flirt".But since ive broken up with him and actually while i was going out with him at the time the girl talks about me in the halls while im either walking in front or behind her and even when me and my ex started going out she asks me if we do and i said yeah and then she tells me boyfriend that i told her that i didnt go out with him and that got him mad at me because he thought i was embarrassed of him or something and i never said those things that she told him i "said"...and like she says to her friends like "omg i hate her,isnt she so ugly?" "i could last more then 2 weeks with him" and she called me a "slut" and a "whore" which im not at all.And i always let it go because i didnt want to start anything...and for about maybe a week she stopped doing it until yesterday after school i was walking and the girl stares right at me with her friends as she walks past me and i kept looking at her because i knew she was gonna say something to her friends about me and she goes "omg isnt she soo ugly?" and i couldnt take it anymore and i just shouted at her "what did you say_______?" and she just keep walking and then i mocked her really loudly because how she talks is pretty uhh lets say VERY "gangsterish" (no offense too anyone) so she would hear me and i knew she heard me...and of course she never says anything to my face and ive never even talked to the girl before i starting going out with my ex.But today i just ignored him in class because he still flirts with me and i still do the same with him (we still like each other and i told him that if i pull my grades up we coudl go back out with each other again)the reason i ignore him is because it seems like if i talk to him it just gets the girl even more furious and takes more crap about me..and i told him i was mad at him..because i think when i told him what she called me and all the rude comments she said about me while we were going out he couldve stopped her or say something like back off or whatever you know? like stand up for me but no instead he acted nice to her and flirted with her which bugged me.So i sorta think i have a right to be mad at him because he never did anything about it.And just the fact that shes asking him to go and do stuf now because she thinks hell like her.Sorry it was soo long lol but i just want some peoples opinions and advice on all this and like should i be mad at him? by the way i havent yet told him whats bothering me so im not neccasarry "mad" at him just "annoyed" i havent told him because i dont really know what to say? so i would like some suggestions on how to word it to him too thank you :] (link)
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ok you need to tell him why your mad.
if he doesnt no, it could cause problems.
say it exactly like you said it above. just leave out the parts about him.
if you really want to make sure he understands you could always try crying while you say it.
and you need to tak to this other girl (or pass her a note in class) that says something like:
this has gotten out of hand. i never did anything to you before the other day to make you so mean to me. and do you really think that (insert name of ur ex-bf here) is going to like a girl who can be so mean?
can you please stop talking about me behind my bak (dont deny it, you do).
we dont have to be friends, but can we be civil?
and if she ignores the note and keeps being bitchy, you can proove to your boyfriend you tried. you seem nice, and if he likes you, im sure that he wudnt like a b**** like her.
hope i helped!
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Okay, I'm on homeschool, so I don't interact with people much. I DO have friends, all though I don't see them often. Maybe once a week at the most. I'm a very shy person, so it's hard for me to make new friends. My question is, what are some things I can talk about with people? Usually when I talk with someone, via internet OR in person, it'll be like, "Hi how are you? How was your day? What are you up to?" then the conversation will end. I want to be able to hold a conversation! I want to have LOTS more friends. Don't give me corny things like "talk about movies! or music!" 'cause personally, I think that's dumb to talk about that all the time. AND, I rarely watch movies, so that wouldn't work. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP! I'm desprite. And it's driving me insane 'cause I can't hold a conversation with someone. PLEASE help. I'd greatly appriciate it! THANKS! (link)
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ok well the fact that your homeschooled could be a conversation starter.
you can ask like what happens in there school and compare.
it could be funny how much you have in commen and how much you don't.
also (if your a girl, if your a guy tak about girls) tak about cute guys, both celebs and non-celebs.
hope i helped!
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Ok, i really like this guy at school, but my close friends really hate him (he rejected them), and so i went to my other friends, and they were shocked, and not in a good way. I like the guy alot, and he flirts with me. I havent told my close friends, and i really want to, bacuse i always tell them. What should i do? I really need advice! (link)
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it doesnt matter what your friends think, only what you think.
and if they don't support you, there not your true friends.
and maybe you should talk to this guy, and say you've made some enemies with my friends, can you try talking to them?
and maybe he will.
hope i helped
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i work in a candy store & i cannot stop eating the candy! i am trying to loose a little weight & in the morning/during school i tell myself i won't eat any but i wind up getting carried away & eating a ton of candy at work! it's hard because i see the other girls i work with eating it too & even when they are not there i am just as tempted! i even try to have a healthy snack befor i go so i am not as hungry, but i wind up eating just as much once i am there! what can i do to stop this? are there any tricks to give me more will power? (link)
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first off, if you ever want to by the candy, think of all the more important things the money can be used for. guilt sometimes does the trick.
also, bring something, like a rubber band, to keep your hands busy, this could help.
if your store isnt busy,and you sometimes get bored, and thats the problem, then bring a book or some homework.
if none of this works, are there any other jobs availabe you could get?
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what does "d.g.a.f." stand for? (link)
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i really don't think it means anything.
people sometimes use it if they dont no wat to put somewhere or say something, they just type random letters, and i guess because those are near each other they ussualy come out together.
it doesnt stand for anything that i know of though
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I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help.
Hey,
This is what I posted but I need more advice.
"Matt's" not gonna be back for probally a week and I feel like I should talk to him but I have no idea what to say. It was so sweet what he did for me but still don't know him that well. We've talked but only about music and other stuff nothing about eachother. We sit together in art class so were always paired up to work together. I got his phone number from a friend. I'm so nervous. I'v dialled the number and hung up before it rang 3 times. He doesn't have my number at all and how can he love me when we don't really know eachother? Doesn't that sound odd? I don't want to get in the same situation again, and if I go to see him i'm probally gonna cry. I mean he has a black eye because of me and a cut on his forehead. ( My boyfriend was wearing a ring). And what do I do about my boyfriend. He's called like 10 times and I haven't answered any of them. Hes coming to school in 2 weeks! (link)
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ok first of all
deal with one of them at a time.
matt-i think it would be best if you could call him. if you need motivation, just as your dialing say to yourself, he fought for me, he deserves at least a phone call to say thank you. and the thankyou could also be your conversation starter.
if you can't call him however, try to get a mutual friend to call him and ask about you while you listen on the other line.
You should give this guy a chance. He was willing to fight your boyfriend for you, how bad could he be? did you enjoy kissing him? plain and simply, do you like him like that? if so, then you really should give him a chance. wait until after your current boyfriend is taken care of before you do anything though, or it could get messy. After that, just try asking him to do something low-key, like hanging out at someone's house or going to the movies. don't rush into anything. and if he starts becoming abusive, then he should be dealt with the exact way im going to tell you to deal with your current boyfriend.
current boyfriend-
next time he calls (if he doesnt call within two days, you call him) just tell him its over, that is that, and hang up before he can even respond. as soon as you hang up with him, go and tell your parent, an adult friend, or a teacher about what has been going on. i know calling the police may be too big for you, so just try telling one of the above mentionned people first. if you can't bring yourself to say it write a note and give it to them, or have matt or another friend tell them. you just need to brake it off with him and let someone know, but you should probably brake up with him before telling someone. but tell someone VERY quickly after.
i really hope everything works out!
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there is this guy i like and we talk more and more everyday. his name is Greg. i think he is so cute. we talk more and more everyday. he starts so many more conversations with me. i think he likes me too and people are saying that too. he is a great listener too. we walk to some classes together but he is not in anymore of my classes. and when he talks to me its like he wants too. i really would like if he asked me out. what can i do to keep him talking to me? and by any chance is there a way to get him to ask me out?? that would be a dream cometrue!! he also flirts with me.please give me tips. i really like this guy alot!!and what are some signs to show that he likes me? (link)
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guys like these are hard to come by.
write him a note telling him you like him. give it to him just as one of you is walking away, so you won't have the akwardness to stand there while he reads it.
just have it say:
greg-
i like you. as more than a friend. do i have a chance?
-(your name)
good luck!
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I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help. (link)
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aww...
ok on the one hand you are really unlucky that u started dating this jerk. i mean beating up on you when your FOURTEEN? im the same age as you and nothing like that has ever happened.
you need to tell the police, or a parent or someone, you might not be able to handle this guy on your own. if you cant tell someone, let matt do it for you.
and this matt guy sounds completely and utterly adorable, you NEED to give him a chance.
this kind of thing is against the law, and totally unsafe and just wrong
tell someone NOW because when your boyfriend comes back he might be worse
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I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.
I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.
What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks. (link)
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ok you need to dump his ass!
if you don't want it to hurt, say you want to change your status bak 2 just friends, it feels less like a rejection/brakeup
just whatever you do, do it fast, cause that guy is an ASSHOLE!
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okay im in a class called BCIS. which is like computer. and i sit next to one of my best friends, and this other guy whos awesome. well i bring food everytime to that class. bake cookies, bring food jsut for the fun of it cause everyones happy when i bring food :] last time i brought Mike n Ikes. i have BCIS tomorrow. what snack should i bring?? (link)
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bring a big bag of starburst! i love startburst!
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last christmas me and one of my close friends decided to swap gifts. i bought her this really nice sally hansen nail polish set for $10 from CVS and i loved it so i got it for her. we traded gifts the next morning and i opened up a really cheap bracelet from claires with no tag, and an opened nail polish bottle with polish on the cap.
i'm not being selfish, but who would do that?
when i confronted her about the nail polish, she actually told me that she got it from her aunt, used it, and didn't like the color. how pathetic is that??
so after i confronted her and told her it was open, and that doing that is really rude, she turned all red and started saying "it's the thought that counts!" in my head i was saying, yeah but it doesnt mean squat if you don't put any thought into it! and then i told her how the nail polish i got her was expensive and she said it wasnt! how dare she
she asked to swap gifts again this winter, what should i do? (link)
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i think that you can as long as you establish some ground rules. decide that either they have to be used or unused. whether they have to be made or bought. etc. that way there is NO confusion
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Okay I like this guy he dosn't know I like him but he's had a couple girlfriends and one just broke up with him not to long ago. He's real nice and I want to tell him but also I don't because of the last time everyone found out right now my bestfriend knows. Do you think I should tell him? (link)
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yes, because if you wait too long he might get another girlfriend, and then you will really regret not telling him.
Do it over the phone, or on the computer, this may sound cheap, but it's so much harder for both you and him in person, trust me.
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ok. so i bought black leggings to wear with my jean skirt. but i just dont know what to wear with them.
right now i have 2 choices.
choice 1.
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
dark grey long sleeve shirt w/ white and greyish flowers on it
OR
choice 2
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
light purple wife beater tank top
black jacket that has blue and purple on it
which one sounds better? tried them both on and i cant decide (link)
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i like the first one!
good luck on deciding!
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Hey! i have been dating this guy for about 14 months now and i thowt we were perfect for each other, we have a real honest and trust worthy relationship. But the other day i had a sex dream about this guy i dont find him attractive or ne thing i dont know why i had this dream. It makes me sick to my stomach when i think bout me and another guy, so when i told my boyfriend about this he wassent upset at all he was like well i had a sex dream about Stella, the thing is is that she hangs out with all of his friends and him and it makes me so mad that he could have a dream like that bout someone who he actually hangs out with, i never ever hung out with the dude who i had the dream about, I really dont know what to tell my self and i know he wassnet saying that to make me mad he really had that dream so please tell me how i should respond to this i dont know what to do!!! (link)
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Look, you said your dream about this guy meant NOTHING, so why should his dream about this girl mean anything?
never bring up the subject again with him, and move on.
if it doesnt mean anything to you, it means nothing to him.
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Hey everyone! On Tuesday my whole grade is going to a theatre to see a Christmas Carol. We are supposed to dress nice because we are representing our school, except nobody actually told us how nice we are supposed to dress. So my question is, what type of clothes should I wear so I look nice if people dress up but I don't look too weird if people don't dress up. Thanks in advanced &hearts (link)
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if you wear black pants, you wont stand out to much either way.
and just wear a shirt with no logo-s on it but is the type of shirt you wudnt wear to like a wedding.
a solid shirt, or simple sweater would be fine.
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So, to make the long story short.. My teacher did not enter in a grade for an essay I turned in, and told me I never turned it in the first place. So I have a failing grade for the class. I told her I turned it in, so she told me to just bring the paper in the next day to see it. I told her I would, but one problem.. I accidentally threw it away! I just realized it later on. And not thinking it wouldn't be entered in my grade average, and thought it was already entered in. And finding this out, I was pretty pissed about it. I told my dad to e-mail her that he saw the paper, and that he accidentally threw it away. But instead he told her he saw the paper, but said I could turn it in, after I TOLD HIM that it was thrown away accidentally by me. So my teacher told him there would be a sub the next day. He told me that when the teacher comes back, to tell her I already put the paper on her desk even though I didn't, just to pretend I really did turn it in. I told my dad he should of stuck with my idea of him saying he threw it away but my parents are saying just to keep the plan that we are going with now and tell the teacher you put it on her desk the other day.
I REALLY want this grade to be entered in, so I don't fail, but then again I don't wanna lie to a teacher because of the fear of getting caught. I don't wanna go back to it and tell her this whole time it was accidentally thrown away. What should I do? (link)
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my advice?
go with the plan!
u wudnt have had to lie to the teacher if the teacher hadnt been so disorganized in the first place! justify it like that...
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Okay, I just starting going out with my amazing boyfriend, (who just happens to be my best friend's ex, but she knows and she's not mad)and we went to the movies last night, and had an incredible night. We kissed, we told each other we loved each other, and pretty much everything else. He tried to make out with me the whole movie, but after I got my point across that I wasn't going to make-out with him the whole movie, he finally stopped, and we just held hands, cuddled, and flirted. I thought he was going to stop liking me because I didn't want to continue as far as he wanted me to, but he called me after our date, and we only talked for a few minutes. Now, here's the thing: I told my best friend (his ex) about our date, and all she could tell me was that everything he said and did was only a game to try to get in my pants. I believe her, but I really like him. (I would never give in to having sex with him, though) So, is there any advice anyone could give me on how to deal with this whole situation?
Thanks so much!
P.S. And he's definitely not as perverted as he seems, he's actually very nice. (link)
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In my opinion, your friend is just majorly jealous.
your 13! and if hes not that preverted, chances are hes not thinking about sex!
did your friend brake up with him or the other way around?
if he dumped her, trust me she's just jealous.
Ask your new boyfriend how far he's gone and how far he would go. his answer should give you a clue to who he is.
hope i helped!
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hey i am 16 and female...i just recently moved but i have been considered depressed for 3 years but really didnt say anything but now after the move i feel worse...i am never really happy and i feel like i just really dont want to be here... how can i have happiness again..and how can i feel alive?
eissac
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Get involved in something you love.
EXCERCISE! this sounds so stupid but it gets these happy making things in you started and REALLY helps...
TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!!
try to take ur depression out on something like kick-boxing or writing poetry/stories
talk to someone...anyone...it makes you feel so much better
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