Okay I like this guy he dosn't know I like him but he's had a couple girlfriends and one just broke up with him not to long ago. He's real nice and I want to tell him but also I don't because of the last time everyone found out right now my bestfriend knows. Do you think I should tell him?
tinkerbelle92 answered Monday November 20 2006, 9:11 pm: Ok, so I'm going to turn this around a little bit.
Say that you find out this guy likes you.. you aren't quite sure if you like him or not. So then what do you do? You start to notice him more. That brings out the positive things in him. So then you decide you like him more.
Ok now lets try this the other way.
You really like this guy, and you want to tell him you like him, but arent sure if you should or not. So you decide to let him know. (Don't go up and tell him... have it go through a friend, and make it subtle. You dont want to freak him out). He starts to notice you more, and starts to notice all the positive things in you. If he doesn't like you already, then he could start to like you more. And with a little bit of flirting on your part, you could very well have a boyfriend fairly soon.
**Just remember:
-Dont be too forward about anything. That can be a huge turn-off.
-Don't tell a ton of people. Just stick with that one friend knowing. Let her subtlely tell this guy that you like him.
-Keep him wondering. You don't want it to sound like you're obsessed with him. It will just make him like you more if he spends his time trying to figure out if you like him.
Hope everything goes well for you
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dramaditz answered Monday November 20 2006, 9:05 pm: yes, because if you wait too long he might get another girlfriend, and then you will really regret not telling him.
Do it over the phone, or on the computer, this may sound cheap, but it's so much harder for both you and him in person, trust me. [ dramaditz's advice column | Ask dramaditz A Question ]
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