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dont know what to do!
well you see...
i have a friend and she can be a definite boy stealer, you cant tell her anything about your boyfriend or she'll steal him. Im dating a guy... let's call him Mic well Mic tells her she is hot and he loves her but then he says don't tell Franny (thats my name) since we are friends she tells me and i was really sad, she said "i don't like him i already like someone!" then i said " why didn't you tell him that?" she says it helps her gain self asteem when a boy calls her hot. But Mic does not know that i know he's been flirting and i really like him and my best friend. But she always talks about herself and doensnt care about my fellings at all.
HELPPPPP!!!
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Well it's common that women do this just for the sher reason of attention. As if you're not aware of this "Mic" fellow's into her and says he's into her then you should probably dump him. Think of it, would you rather deny this action and wait till he breaks up with you for some crappy reason like " I'm just not ready" or "it's not you, it's me" This just means that Mic's not the guy for you. If he's so easyly destracted by another owmen than staying with you, then he's not interested. This boy stealer obviously has a lust and a jealously for something she probably can't get. Anyway as i said before dump him and save the trouble. I'm sorry this is happening, but you do deserve better. 'love comes when least expected, not planned"
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you need to confront mic about this!
you also need to tell your best friend it bugs her when she flirts with your BOYFRIEND!!! if shes really your best friend, she'll stop because it really really hurts, and for once cant she just let you ahve this one guy?
and if shes really your friend, she'll understand. tell her, you dont want her to get pissed, but imagine if her bf said that he loved another girl and that other girl was her best friend and she didnt do anything about it. wouldnt she be upset?
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you might not like this answer, but maybe she isn't really your friend if she doesn't care about your feelings.
if you guys are friends then pick your house or her house to go to and actually talk to her about how you feel around her. and trust me, if she accepts how you feel, then you know she's your friend. but if she keeps right on doing what she shouldn't, then you have to move on and tell her to leave you alone from now on.
it's the only way knowing if she really is your friend.
i hope i helped. ^_^
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