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Hey! i have been dating this guy for about 14 months now and i thowt we were perfect for each other, we have a real honest and trust worthy relationship. But the other day i had a sex dream about this guy i dont find him attractive or ne thing i dont know why i had this dream. It makes me sick to my stomach when i think bout me and another guy, so when i told my boyfriend about this he wassent upset at all he was like well i had a sex dream about Stella, the thing is is that she hangs out with all of his friends and him and it makes me so mad that he could have a dream like that bout someone who he actually hangs out with, i never ever hung out with the dude who i had the dream about, I really dont know what to tell my self and i know he wassnet saying that to make me mad he really had that dream so please tell me how i should respond to this i dont know what to do!!!
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Dreams are dreams, they have nothing to do with what we do or want, they are completely weird. Science has no clue why dreams are the way they are. Dreams show stuff that's in our head at random, and connect different things in our head at random. If you dream about having sex with someone, it means nothing.
And every guy in the world has a dream about sex with another girl at some point in his life. It just happens wether we want it or not.
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The only reason he told you he had his dream is because you told him about yours. Don’t trap him into sharing with you and then make him suffer when he does. We all have sex dreams that don’t make sense. With people we don’t want to have sex with or even people we will never have sex with in our wildest dreams. There is no way to control them. Leave him alone. He isn’t hiding anything from you. Don’t treat him like he is. He is allowed to dream anything his subconscious mind wants to.
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Look, you said your dream about this guy meant NOTHING, so why should his dream about this girl mean anything?
never bring up the subject again with him, and move on.
if it doesnt mean anything to you, it means nothing to him.
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