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trouble with ex
okay so this is kinda long so bare with me...okay so i broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago because i had to focus on my studies (which is completely true by the way) and let me backtrack for you,when we were together there was this girl in my class (which me and my boyfriend were both in) who was always trying to flirt with me and he kinda flirted back and she would tell him that she was mad at him or not talk to him because i was with him which im guessing she was jealous because she has a major crush on him..but during that time i was with my boyfriend he would get mad at every little thing i did and not talk to me or just ignore me...and i was hardly ever mad at him the only thing that bothered me was because in class when he would flirt with the girl he would word to her "i heart you" and say "i love you" in class to her give her hugs and flirt touch her which really bothered me because your doing that in front of your girlfriend you know? but i always let it go..i guess because he was known as a big "flirt".But since ive broken up with him and actually while i was going out with him at the time the girl talks about me in the halls while im either walking in front or behind her and even when me and my ex started going out she asks me if we do and i said yeah and then she tells me boyfriend that i told her that i didnt go out with him and that got him mad at me because he thought i was embarrassed of him or something and i never said those things that she told him i "said"...and like she says to her friends like "omg i hate her,isnt she so ugly?" "i could last more then 2 weeks with him" and she called me a "slut" and a "whore" which im not at all.And i always let it go because i didnt want to start anything...and for about maybe a week she stopped doing it until yesterday after school i was walking and the girl stares right at me with her friends as she walks past me and i kept looking at her because i knew she was gonna say something to her friends about me and she goes "omg isnt she soo ugly?" and i couldnt take it anymore and i just shouted at her "what did you say_______?" and she just keep walking and then i mocked her really loudly because how she talks is pretty uhh lets say VERY "gangsterish" (no offense too anyone) so she would hear me and i knew she heard me...and of course she never says anything to my face and ive never even talked to the girl before i starting going out with my ex.But today i just ignored him in class because he still flirts with me and i still do the same with him (we still like each other and i told him that if i pull my grades up we coudl go back out with each other again)the reason i ignore him is because it seems like if i talk to him it just gets the girl even more furious and takes more crap about me..and i told him i was mad at him..because i think when i told him what she called me and all the rude comments she said about me while we were going out he couldve stopped her or say something like back off or whatever you know? like stand up for me but no instead he acted nice to her and flirted with her which bugged me.So i sorta think i have a right to be mad at him because he never did anything about it.And just the fact that shes asking him to go and do stuf now because she thinks hell like her.Sorry it was soo long lol but i just want some peoples opinions and advice on all this and like should i be mad at him? by the way i havent yet told him whats bothering me so im not neccasarry "mad" at him just "annoyed" i havent told him because i dont really know what to say? so i would like some suggestions on how to word it to him too thank you :]
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ok you need to tell him why your mad.
if he doesnt no, it could cause problems.
say it exactly like you said it above. just leave out the parts about him.
if you really want to make sure he understands you could always try crying while you say it.
and you need to tak to this other girl (or pass her a note in class) that says something like:
this has gotten out of hand. i never did anything to you before the other day to make you so mean to me. and do you really think that (insert name of ur ex-bf here) is going to like a girl who can be so mean?
can you please stop talking about me behind my bak (dont deny it, you do).
we dont have to be friends, but can we be civil?
and if she ignores the note and keeps being bitchy, you can proove to your boyfriend you tried. you seem nice, and if he likes you, im sure that he wudnt like a b**** like her.
hope i helped!
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