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okay if youre like fifteen and not sexually active would it be like normal to i dunno wanna practice for pleasure with like...i dunno a pillow or something haaha idk random i know
and if you use something like a 'toy' or whatever are you still a virgin (link)
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it's good you care about your virginity. in my opinion, you would be committing adultry, but you'd still be a virgin. and you shouldn't want sex for physicalness, you should want to do it for love. but if doing that feels like what you want to do, go for it. hormones make you want sex, and once you start, you want more and more of it. sex becomes so powerful sometimes, you can't control yourself, that is why it is considered bad.
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Our gym class is biking to an ice cream place and we have a uniform. Where could I put my money? I don't want to bring a purse or something because that will distract me and i'll probably crash.
Many girls stick it in their bras but I'm VERY flat chested; if I sticked a penny I think people would notice.
Would it work if i stick it in my shoes? (link)
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you could get your mom or somebody who knows how to sew and sew a pocket in the inside of your uniform. or get a sports bra from victoria secret, those kind of bras make it easier to hide and hold cash. shoes might not be a good idea if you're carrying change because a penny could be very uncomfortable.
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Help! I'm redoing my room this summer and I have nooo idea what colors I want it to be. Whenever I think of a good color scheme, I change my mind.
I'm 16, female.. I want my room to have a happy, but yet calm and relaxing feeling. I love bright/light colors. I hate dark colors.
Please give me some suggestions, thanks! :) (link)
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the color blue gives a calm and relaxing feeling, so if you like blue, i'd go for it. baby blue and white would look hot.. hah.
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ok. so my one friend is convinced that the world is going to end in 2012. i am one of those people who hears something and wants to be logical but i can't help but believe it. i also worry alot. can someone help set me straight because this whole thing is really starting to scare me. please respond!! (link)
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haha. i heard that before too.
the reason some people believe that is because some indians predicted something[can't remember what it was] using the stars and it came true. then they predicted the year of the resurrection being 2012. it's funny because the bible says nobody will know when the resurrection will come, so obviously it is just a myth. also you don't need to worry because the bible also said the resurrection will come when there are as many people as the grains of sand on the earth. i feel the resurection will be soon, but not that soon. i believe after the resurection, you know how God said next time he'll destroy the earth with fire, well i think that will happen when the ozone layer gets too hot.
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15/f
My family is catholic, but i found out that my brother is "agnostic". This has happened recently, he is a seventh grader and only 13 years old. Will he grow out of this? He goes to church but he never says any of the prayers or anything. A lot of people think catholicism is too "strict" but our church isn't a normal catholic church; we have a youth choir that actually sings songs that aren't boring and we have youth groups and our priests are really nice and actually give good sermons. What can i do to help him? I don't want to shove it down his throat or anything...but what should i do? please help! (link)
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just because he goes to church doesn't tell whether he is a christian. sometimes you have to show people the love of God by doing good deeds or show love. try giving and praying. going to church and being in a religion, doesn't mean you're going to heaven, you have to believe in Jesus and that he died for you. ask your brother to try believing and being open minded. ask him to pray for something, and i'm sure God will make a miracle happen for him. but he has to look for it and believe, and love God. maybe, you should try taking your younger brother to other christian churches, like a baptist church or methodist, he may just need a place that'll help him find faith.
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OK. My mom recently told me that sometimes she see's spirits. She's highly Christian and so am I. She told me that she's never told anyone but me, and she told me that she hated her girft and asked God to take it away from her. Now, every scince I was like 11 i've been VERY interested in the like unknown. So naturally when she told me this I got kinda interested, and I started asking her questions, but she gets upset when I ask her question. My mom is straight up psychic and alot of things lead me to believe that, not only can she see spirits, but she can sense things. Like, she can touch u and know that you're sad or upset even if you don't show it. And like at Mac Donald's, this woman who you could tell had something wrong with her, was mumbling to herself, and started laughing this weird laugh. The woman suddenly stopped laughing and stared at me. My mom goes "Kiara she's possessed, don't look at her". And i'm like, How do u know? And she didn't reply. But anyways! I just wanted to know if i'm gunna get her gift? And no, she's not crazy, I would have never known. She said she didn't get her gift till she was about 16, and i'm only 13. (link)
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well, i don't know if you'll get this gift because God choses different spirtual gifts for everyone, it may not be genetic. but if there is a family history with other family members having this gift, possiably you may get it or your children will. that gift is really interesting, i've never actually heard of anyone having any interesting gifts like this except in the years. that's funny how you say your mom knew that lady was possessed, if i saw some lady talking like that, i would say she was possessed too, lol. i have to say i've never seen spirits before, but i think i've seen demons.
when i was about 5, my brother and i slept on this matress on the floor because we didn't have a bed. well, one night he and i were about to go to sleep. but i kept feeling something under the bed beating on it, i was so scared. my brother must've felt it too because he got off the bed and went and layed in the doorway where the hall light was on. still, i kept feeling something banging from under me, i got so scared, so i went and layed next to my brother and fell asleep. i think it was a few hours later i woke up, and i turned to look at my brother, he was still a sleep, then i looked at my matress, and there was a green man laying on it, i got so scared, so i went back to sleep.
and there was another incident when i was 6, where i was staying in a hotel, again it was at night and my mom and brother were on another bed and my dad was at work, i was laying on the bed about to sleep when i felt a hand grab my shoulder, it scared the hell out of me.
when i tell this story to my friends, they laugh, but i know this was real and sometimes i still feel like theres something under my bed, so never sleep with the lights totally off and i'm 16.
your mom's gift sounds similar to that tv show ghost whisperer, i think she should try using her gift, because the bible says not to waste your gifts, there's a reason you have them to help show the love of God to others. if there is evil in her gift, then i say she should keep doing what she's doing.
i'm not really sure what happens to spirits after death, i think they dwell the earth until the ressurection, or the may go straight to their desinated place.
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Okay so on myspace I put in a code to hide my friends...and I don't want them hidden anymore, but I don't know what the code looks like or where to look for it so I can erase it. Can somebody help with that? (link)
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your myspace layout url begins and ends with layout
so anything after or before that would probably be the code. also next time, instead of having it all bunched together, space it out because it doesn't matter how spaced it is.
plus you can go back to where you got the code and see what it looks like, and then look for it in your myspace html.
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This is somewhat of an embarrassing question to ask. I had sex on the beach, without lying on any sort of towel or blanket (ugh). Obviously sand kind of went all over the place, and now I am REALLY sore. Should I see a gyno? Or is this something that will sort itself out? Anyone who has had a similar experience, help would be much appreciated. (link)
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sex on the beach may sound great, but it isn't. sand can irritate your skin and create microscopic cuts in your genital area, also making it easier for you to pick up stds or other infections. also some beaches have sand fleas that come out at night, and since they bite you could get itchy red spots. i would go see a docter to make sure.
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14/f
im 5"6 and aobut 115 lbs.
before i used to wear pants too tight for me, and now i have like an indent on my hips, so now whenever i where any pants i have huge love handles. i want a smooth curve, not an indented one!
has this happened to anyone before? and do they know how to get rid of it! PLEASE!
and thank you! (link)
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you should get a corset or go to curves.com and i'm sure they have something that'll fix that. also try running a little every day, muscles reshape your body. i don't have this problem, but i have huge hip bones which makes me look indented, lol.
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I'm planning on buying a laptop in about a month or so and before this I have always had dial up internet on my computer. I was wondering if there is any kind of internet I can get for my laptop that dosen't go through the phone line and that I don't need to have a contract thing with in case I have to cancel it. If someone could write me if they know of something, that would be great. Thanks :) (link)
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hey :)
that sounds so familiar!
oh yeah, same thing happened with me. lol.
i had dialup, and i got a new laptop. and it doesn't have dialup!
i got at&t bellsouth internet. i'm not really sure about the contract thing, but i think maybe you could cancel it within the first week if it doesn't work right. i don't know, but they gave us a great deal, it includes internet for both our laptops at a cheap price. let me know what you do.
x/x.krystal
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okay so my sex life is good except one thing
when I'm with my boyfriend having sex i feel so insecure about my body, when he tries to take off my shirt i usually start doing something else so he wont like i feel really fat when im naked im 5'3 and 120 and hes never said anything about my weight but i just feel fat and i never let him take off my shirt and i want to let him to and stuff but i cant get over it.. how do i get over it and just let him? (link)
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well, i don't think you have anything to worry about, he might like your body, and you should too. being fat isn't discusting, and you should look yourself in the mirror and say to yourself ' i have a beautiful, sexy body' and say it like you mean it. you may not believe it at first, but the more you say it, the more you'll believe it. be positive about yourself and your body because you'll be doing a big favor to yourself.
next time when you're with your man, ask him casually what he thinks of your body. his answer may give you more confidence and you'll spend less time feeling awkward about your body and more time enjoying his.
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