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your very pretty

eh, Thank you.

This is all I'll say because I'm learning to take compliments with out saying something negitive about myself. Trust me, I'm resisting the urge to do so right now.

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its the summer holidays and im bored and fed up so please can you think of something for me to do.im actually starting to miss school

Read a book, learn to play a new instrument, go shopping or window shop, go through old magazines then take out random words and paste them on your wall or a poster board to make a cool vocal piece in your room. Research something on the internet and do a paper on it. (always good when you have forgotten a project for school) Start a little garden in a flower pot. Learn to cook something new.

The list can go on! Just try something and see how it works!
AG

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Me and my so called "boyfriend", (i put quotes because I'm not really sure if it's true.) have been "going out" for 2 1/2 months. He has no classes with me or anything, I only see him at his locker, and when I do all I say his "Hi, How ya doin'" Like everyday! When I do this he's busy fumbling with his locker combo, or putting stuff in his bookbag. He almost makes no eye contact. He's preety weird, but I like him alot. I'm too shy to hug him, or anything.Note that I'm thirteen and a half. This dude is the first guy that liked me back, but he's too shy to do anything. Should I end our relationship although I really dont want to? And should I start making little moves like hugging him?

Sincerely, Shybf

So you two like each other, thats a start.

Do you guys have any other contact outside of school? Because maybe at that time when he is at his locker isn't the best to talk to him. Can you catch him in between classes? Like when he is walking there? that might be a better time to greet him.

Also, before you try hugging him or holding hands and such perhaps it would be good to have a actual conversation with him about where the relationship stands and how much he really likes you. Talk to him when he is away from friends and other distractions. Going for a walk would be a good idea. Come right out and be honest. Ask him if he really does like you and are you a couple. (I.E. BF, GF) Tell him you want to know because you are very confused. I don't know what his answer will be but I hope its the 'Good' answer. Just don't be too rushed to end it, talk to him and see what he says. I would suggest ending it if he just doesn't answer and/or ignores the question.

AG

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Hey your site is like way cute! I love the plaid. I was reading your bio or whatever that is called and was wondering what L2 meant. So I would appreciate it if you could let me know what it means! Thanks

L2 means a Level 2 moderator.
I'll just give you the link that explains everything about a mod.
http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=13

That oughta do you. :}
AG

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hey i just wanted to say congrats on making advicenators front page! visit mine, it is calirae010
xx♥cali

Thanks. Though I really didn't want to BE featured.
Your column is cool. :}

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Hi. I like you page. I was wondering to do know any sites like http://quotecraze.vzz.net (its the new Hellz-Angelz) for quotes and ect. I am getting tired of reading the same quotes over and over again. So do you have any ideas?- Thanks!

Eh sorry, no. I'm not big in the quote business. Infact I only have two quotes that I know and repeat often. They are:

"You may regret what you do now but you'll regret what you don't do so much more"

"The greatest thing about the world, IS the world"

Sorry I can't help you more. Just go search the web for quote sites. You can do that, you don't have to have me do it for you.

AG

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Hey!

What do you mean bye if there are any 10 11 12? Because shouldn't you love those even if they are not your type? Well I am not te=rying to be rude, but you should not tell people to ask you a qeustion and their age be limited! I am 15 by the way! Please mail me back! I was going to ask about, well, i am uncomfortable with my chest. It is small and weird. Could you tell me a way besides stuffing to make me look like a girl? Thank you so much!

The reason I have a age limit is because for a while I was getting questions almost every day from 10, 11 or 12 year olds. They were very stupid questions such as "how do I get a guy to like me" and "I want to ask this guy out....blah blah blah". They are KIDS they shouldn't be worrying about dating yet. Plus Advicenators is for 13 and up. I'm a L2 and I don't think I should encourage kids to get advice from me. Especially if they get a account I then have the joy to ban them.

Live with your chest! If it's small, it's small. You can't do anything to change your breast size. Your 15, you should know that. Live with it and hope that you'll get bigger.
You don't want to have huge breasts either. If they are too big than you can get bruises under your arms and have back pain. There are many girls out there that wish they didn't have any breasts. So live and be happy! You can't change it.

AG

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i have asked this to a couple of people, but idk .. your site just stood out so i thought i would ask you to. i really need help so please dont delete this and just go on with another question!! there is this guy and i have liked him for 2 years now. We went out last summer but the day before school started back we broke up. My dad found out some stuff we did and talked to josh and told him not to talk to me ever again. josh has a girlfriend now but i still want him so bad. My dad told me the other day i could talk to josh again. And i really want to but we havent talked in so long and i dont know what to say. I dont even know if he wants to talk to me anymore. Any ideas on what to do? i'll rate high for answers!!!

Okay, why not try to just be friends right now? Don't jump into a relationship so fast.

If your not sure how to talk to him then like, if you pass him in the hall or if your talking in a group of friends with him just start out with "hey". Hey can be a VERY good conversation starter. :P Anyways, you have said hi and he is stopped, start with "long time no see! Whats up with you?" There you go.
Also, tell him that you would like to be friends again if your more of that kind of girl. He has a GF so don't try to be anything more than a friend for now. Let the friendship evolve over time.

Luck
AG

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You're cute. And I'm not just saying that because I know it pisses you off, I'm saying it to draw attention to the not-so-recently changed picture on your column. It's because I'm sure you didn't change it to draw attention. EVERYONE!!! LOOK AT THE CUTE PICTURE OF KAT!!!!!!!!!

Yes, I changed the picture hoping that it wouldn't be noticed. You suck. But since you did use Kat instead of Kathleen I shall not get annoyed. ALTHOUGH you could have spared me the caps for the last sentence. (It even made me look at my own picture)

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Do you think it's right to hate somebody??

I don't really know the answer to that because really it depends on the situation and relationship with the person you are hating.
As a teenager it is very easy for us to say we hate someone because they like the guy we like, Because someone offended us, our parent/s won't let us do something we want or we just hate a person from the moment we meet them. The list can go on.
It's very easy to say we hate someone but to really really mean it and not have a true reason why we hate that person isn't okay. I think we should really ponder on why we hate that person so much before building on that hatrid. Lets say you hate a person because they have a guy that we like, I think we need to review our own attitudes.
In my opinion hating is part of being human, we all have to learn how to control it and not focus on it.
AG

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I have a problem my dog, just recently died and so we got a new puppy Razberry. But as he has gotten older he has become vicious. I just go into the backyard to try to play with him after school and i throw a ball or two. Then I go check if he needs more water in his bowl or not. But then out of the blew he jumps up bites me really hard in the back then I turn around and he bites me in the leg which leaves a scratch and a popping out bruise. Then i try to get away from him and out of the backyard but he keeps biting me. This has been happening for a while now and I dont know what to do to make him stop. I love my puppy and I dont want to give him away. He can be soo sweet to me and i can just tell in his eyes that he loves me too. I think he is just trying to play but doesn't know when to stop. I just would like any suggestions on something I could do to understand that biting me like that is wrong and it hurts. I have tried disciplining him but then he becomes more vicious and bites more. Please help me!
thnx a bunch!

I could go search the web and give you a very detailed answer but I see you have asked Selectopague and she is extremely good at dog answers so I'll leave it to her. Selectopague rules.

AG

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ok i listen to like my chemical romance and then some ska and i hate rap with a passion but almost no one knows what ska is!!!!!!!! and that makes me sad :'( well i just wanted to know if yall knew what ska music was and if you know any good bands or if you know how to skank and are proud of it!!!!!! ----like me!!!

I listen to rock music mainly, some hip hop/pop music. I know the band My Chemical Romance but I have never heard of Ska. If I had more enthusiasm I would go Google it. Do I know how to Skank? umm, no.

Next question.

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whats an L2?

Level 2 moderator. If you don't know what a Moderator is then I suggest you go the Help and FAQ.
I don't feel like explaining what a Moderator is.
AG

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How come when i go on edit answers, if i scroll down some of my other answers say they have been deleted and will not be shown on the advice columns, but when i look on my adivce column there still there. Why is this? And why are they deleted?

When questions have been deleted after you answer them (whether by the person that asked or by moderator/low ratings) it says that.
The reason the questions are probably still showing on your column is because you have it so you still see it even if the question has been deleted.
If you want to change that so that questions that have been deleted don't show on your column you go to Profile Settings under your username. scroll down until you see the question that says: "If a question is deleted (by either the user asking it or a moderator) should we still display it on your column?"
Click no and deleted questions won't show up anymore.

AG

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I'm looking for a nice dress for the end of the year band banquet but i dont know where to do besides Macy's and JCPennys...is there any other store you recommend i can go to for some dresses...i want the nice long dresses, almost like prom but it doesn't have to be fluffy. thanks in advance!

No one has said Maraposa. (I'm thinking thats how you spell it)
I'm not sure that you have it where you are but you can check. It has a lot of formal wear, skirts and dresses.
Also, you may not want to go there but if you know of a mormon clothing store than you just might find some pretty dresses. I personally can't wear the style they usually sell because of my body build but it may be right for you.
AG

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Cute picture.

I hate being called cute...I need a smart response. *AG thinks of a smart ass remark and types it* There, and the picture really does need to be resized. Its too big for the column.

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does anyone know any good bible verses??

read the bible and find them yourself, don't keep asking on here. If it was deleted once then that shows that you that it wasn't supposed to be asked. Remember that.
AG

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im not sure if u will answer this but i need help really bad ok ijm 15 yrs ol and i weigh 190 lbs. im fat!!!!!!!!! i wana be down to at least 130 by this summer wat are some good workouts and diets i could do that oesnt cost any money? plz help

listen, I might have answered if you hadn't asked this to about 20 different columnists. (Yes, you were logged out but I can check your IP)

I don't exactly know how to lose 60 pounds by June and I might have searched the web for you if you hadn't already asked so many. Just watch what you eat and search the internet like I would do and you probably can get better help than asking me or anyone else on this site.
AG

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i like to record songs i hear on the radio, and i heard one the other day recorded it, and listened to it almost everyday and still do, except, i listen to it about...... 50 times a day or so.... anyway winMX is the best, and i need name of song to download, so if u could help me get name, id appreciate it so much, any ways might take a while for me to write lyricshere they are




Circling, you're circling, you're circlin you're head,
comtemplating everything you ever said, now I see the truth I
got a doubt,
a different motive in your eyes and now I'm out, see you later
I see your fantasy, you wanna make it a reality paved in gold,
see inside, inside of our heads yea, well now that's over,
I see your motives inside, decisions to hide

(Chorus)
AWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!

Back off I'll take you on
headstrong to take on anyone
I know that you are wrong, headstrong, we're headstrong
Back off I'll take you on
headstrong to take on anyone
I know that you are wrong, and this is not where you belong

I can't give everything away
I won't give everything away

this is manifest,
your first impression's got to be your very best
I see you're full of shit and that's alright,
that's how you play I guess you get through every night,
well now that's over,
I see your fantasy, you wanna make it a reality paved in gold,
see inside, inside of our heads yea, well now that's over,
I see your motives inside, decisions to hide

(Chorus)

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!

Back off I'll take you on
headstrong to take on anyone
I know that you are wrong,
headstrong, we're headstrong
Back off I'll take you on
headstrong to take on anyone
I know that you are wrong,
and this is not where you belong, (where you belong)

I can't give everything away,
I won't give everything away,


I know,
I know all about,
I know,
I know all about,
I know all about your motives inside,
and your decision to hide

(Chorus)

AWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!

Back off I'll take you on
headstrong to take on anyone
I know that you are wrong, headstrong, we're headstrong
Back off I'll take you on
headstrong to take on anyone
I know that you are wrong and this is not where you belong,
where you belong,
(this is not where you belong)

I can't give everything away, (this is not where you belong)
I won't give everything away, (this is not where you belong)
This is not where you belong

Yeah, I love this song too and have been trying to figure out the name but I decided I might as well find it now. I just started taking key words from the song such as "Back off" or "Head Strong" and asking what the lyrics were to this song on Ask Jeeves. It turns out the name of this song is "head Strong" and its by Trapt. uhh if you want the link I'll give it to you.
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/trapt/headstrong.html

Enjoy and I completely agree that WinMx is the best! I use it all the time. I shall now go download this song too. :P
AG

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can u get kicked off advicenators w/o notice b/c of a perverted question you asked/

saying "hey sexy" to another columnsit will not get you banned from the site. (I know you did because I am a level 2 mod) Only if you start harrassing other columnists that you might get banned.
AG

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