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My Shy Boyfriend
Me and my so called "boyfriend", (i put quotes because I'm not really sure if it's true.) have been "going out" for 2 1/2 months. He has no classes with me or anything, I only see him at his locker, and when I do all I say his "Hi, How ya doin'" Like everyday! When I do this he's busy fumbling with his locker combo, or putting stuff in his bookbag. He almost makes no eye contact. He's preety weird, but I like him alot. I'm too shy to hug him, or anything.Note that I'm thirteen and a half. This dude is the first guy that liked me back, but he's too shy to do anything. Should I end our relationship although I really dont want to? And should I start making little moves like hugging him?
Sincerely, Shybf
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So you two like each other, thats a start.
Do you guys have any other contact outside of school? Because maybe at that time when he is at his locker isn't the best to talk to him. Can you catch him in between classes? Like when he is walking there? that might be a better time to greet him.
Also, before you try hugging him or holding hands and such perhaps it would be good to have a actual conversation with him about where the relationship stands and how much he really likes you. Talk to him when he is away from friends and other distractions. Going for a walk would be a good idea. Come right out and be honest. Ask him if he really does like you and are you a couple. (I.E. BF, GF) Tell him you want to know because you are very confused. I don't know what his answer will be but I hope its the 'Good' answer. Just don't be too rushed to end it, talk to him and see what he says. I would suggest ending it if he just doesn't answer and/or ignores the question.
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