I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused
Just be like "I was happy with us being good friends before..and I want to keep it that way. I like being your friend and I don't want that to change. So I want us to just be friends, before something worse happens." Hope this helped you.
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well, one day i looked in the mirror and saw my reflection and i thought i loooked like a whale! I wanted to fucken disappear..im so self conscious. and i all of a sudden started eating then throwing it up, i mean today i ate popcorn then went to wash my hands and i saw myself..and i just hated it so i threw up in the toilet like i made myself throw up! and i dont know whats wrong with me..does that mean i have an eating disorder?
p.s ive tried it before...
You probably have the eating disorder, "bulimia". That's when you eat and make yourself throw it up. And NO--it's NOT anorexia. Anorexia is when you don't eat at ALL. Don't listen to the people who think it's Anorexia. If you keep this up, you're probably going to get very sick. You don't want that, do you? I sure don't want that to happen to you..or to anyone. Everyone is self-conscious about themselves a little bit. But "binging" (what you are doing) is not going to help with anything. Here's the exact definition of Bulimia: "A chronic eating disorder involving repeated and secretive episodes of eating, characterized by uncontrolled rapid ingestion of large quantities of food over a short period of time, followed by self-induced vomiting, purging, and anorexia and accompanied by feelings of guilt, depression, or self-disgust. Also called binge-eating syndrome, bulimia nervosa, hyperorexia." After you have seen the facts--I hope you make the right decision to stop. Good luck with choosing =/
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hey. yeah, i'm an insomniac. as long as i can remember i haven't ever been able to fall asleep is less that like 3 hours. so i basically go to bed at 3 and wake up at 6.30 (school days). i don't take medicine for it but i need to! i want to sleep and my mom has sonata (i guess she also has insomnia) and i want to take one. she'd never notice and i dont think she'd really care. should i take one? i mean what bad will it do? also, does anyone else take sleeping pills or have insomnia? thanx
Don't take your mom's medicine without going to the doctor. You should definately ask your mom to take you to the doctor to get your OWN medicine. It's just safer that way =)
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Well, I shop a lot at Abercrombie. And some of my friends aren't allowed to shop there. They'd be like 'Oh cute shirt, where'd you get it?' and then I would be like 'Abercrombie' and then they'd tell me that they weren't allowed to shop there. I don't see what's wrong with the place and shopping there. Can anyone tell me what's wrong or are my friends just being too closed minded?? Thanks and I rate.
Well Abercrombie is a little on the expensive side. They just might not have the money to shop there?
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How can I rate someone? Please help me.
Go to "Your Questions" to read the advice that you have received to your question(s). Under the person's advice, it says "Rate This Advice: 1 2 3 4 5". The "1, 2, 3, 4, and 5" are all links. If you rate them a "1" that means it's pretty bad advice. "5" means it's great advice. You get it--figure out the rest. So anyway, click the number (rating) you decide to give that advice and there you go.
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How do you get a new cursor on your column? I have the cursor and links and everything but i don't know where to put the links so the cursor will show up. Also, where do i put the music links? thanks!
Once you get the code, you put it in your "Profile Settings". And as for the music, it's not allowed. So I suggest not doing it--or you'll most likely get banned.
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I want to workout my legs. i have no idea how though. im not even sure how to do squats right. pleez help! ( i also want ot kno a website that tells you if u are underweight/overweight... i used to have it but i lost it)
Here's a site that gives you your body mass index and it tells you comments if you are over/underweight or average--> http://www.am-i-fat.com/ Once you get there, click on "Am I Fat?" on the left side bar. It should be the third one from the top. All you need to type in is your height and weight and there ya go. As for working out: try playing some sports, running, jogging, walking, etc. If you go to a local gym, they could probably give you some ideas. Good luck =)
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(How many times has THIS question been asked?) Okay, my stepmother hates me, or rather, she hates my mother and takes it out on me. Everything I do is wrong to her. Once, my cousin and I were fighting over a pillow, and she tells me to stop pulling on the pillow or I'll rip it, and my cousin didn't get in trouble, even though he hit me several times. She insults my choice of clothing/music/accessories. She once told me my mother cheated on my father, and I know that isn't true. She used to go into my room and go through my stuff. It drives me insane. Does anyone have any advice?
I think you need to tell your father about this. Now if he doesn't see her doing it, he might not believe you. In that case, you could go to your mother and see if she could do something about it. If all else fails--attempt talking to your step-mom and basically just tell her how you feel. Explain that what she's doing bothers you and makes you feel uncomfortable around her. Hopefully it will all work out. I know how it feels living with step-parents---I have two. Good luck with her =)
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this isnt a health question but i didnt know what else to put it under. I got my cartilige peirced back in September and its been 3months so i can change the earing. well the lady told me i couldnt wear hoops for a whole year. why is that? i got hoops for the cartilige for christmas and i really wanna wear them but i dont wanna mess up the peircing.
Well, I got my cartilidge pierced about 6 or 7 months ago, and it still hurts sometimes. The hoop isn't a good idea quite yet because the part of the hoop that goes through your ear is usually bigger than a post. That means you will have to stretch it (which hurts REALLY bad). So I think if I were you, I'd stick with the post for now. The lady knows what she's doing and I would trust her. It's better safe than sorry--wait the 9 months and then go for it. Good luck =)
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I'm having a New Years Eve party at my house tonite and we want to make dirt. Like, the stuff with the oreo cookies and stuff. I don't know how to make it, and I need to buy ingredients for it. I'm going shopping soon, so please answer fast!
Thanks
I think you're talking about dirt pudding. Here's a few different links to sites with recipes for it. Pick which one you want:
(1) http://www.cooks.com/rec/doc/0,1840,157175-231201,00.html
(2) http://www.cooks.com/rec/doc/0,169,150180-255201,00.html
(3) http://www.cooks.com/rec/doc/0,1613,150181-254201,00.html
(4) http://www.netcooks.com/recipes/Kids/Dirt.Pudding.html
(5) http://www.recipegoldmine.com/childrecipe/childrecipe77.html
(6) http://recipes.robbiehaf.com/D/364.htm
(7) http://www.ivillage.com/food/recipefinder/recipe/0,,390667,00.html?arrivalSA=1&cobrandRef=0&arrival_freqCap=1&pba=adid=12756294 [[ this one looks like the simplest one there! ]]
*Some of the recipes don't include gummy worms!! Don't forget to add them (just stick them on top)..they make the dirt pudding look AND taste much better!*
Hope this helped you! =)
-Casey
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I have straight hair already, but it is pretty static and VERY flyawayish...and its kinda bushy sometimes...what is the best hair straightener out there? I've heard ceramic hair straighterners are good??
Well it really depends on the straightener you have. Some ceramics ones are absolutely horrible. But some are decent. I have straight hair but I straighten my hair every single day, and the Hot Tools Professional (it's not ceramic) hair straightener works great!! I love it..it gets all the "frizzies" out and makes it very flat. You can get this straightener at Sally's Beauty Supply. I'm not sure if they sell it other places, but I'm sure you could check! Hope this helps you out! Have a great winter break =)
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I weigh about 131 pounds and I'm 5'4 (I'm a female) I'm kinda curvy, but I would like to weigh around 115. Is this seriously a realistic weight? If so, how should I go about losing the weight in a healthy manner?
Yes, it's realistic, but you are also fine where you are. You really don't NEED to lose 15 pounds, just try for 5 maybe? If you go to http://www.am-i-fat.com/ you could find that for your height, you are "Perfect score!! Good Job!! Stay like you are!!" for both weights, 131 and 115 pounds. So don't worry so much about your weight. Have a great winter break =)
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Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot!
Nope, there's nothing wrong with you at all. You can be as old as 16 and get your period for the first time, sometimes older! So don't worry, it will come eventually =)
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Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon?
Well if you already got blood, that means you already got your period. You'll have an irregular period for a year or so, so that's why it's all "weird". Your just hitting puberty now, so you're getting all the effects..breaking out..and craving! You really should tell your mom. I swear to God, I hated the fact I had to tell my mom. I thought she'd like laugh and tell all her friends or something, but she didn't. And your mom won't either. They've been through this before and they know how it feels. Just tell her. Good luck =)
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I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I?
You're definately NOT messed up. Everyone is saying almost the same thing, but I think I should still give my answer. One question: Why don't you eat? Eatings good, believe me..yum. There's no reason not to eat. You CAN be mad and you CAN be sad, but you have to eat. I just don't understand why you are so sad and depressed. You are such a great person and from what you've said, you are very, VERY generous. That homeless man was right--"Bless you". Why did you cry? Did you cry because he was homeless, or did you cry for your own reasons? Be happy, smiling and laughing is fun. Enjoy childhood and being a teenager. It won't be here for long, so have fun while you can. These are the best times of our lives! We get to hang with our friends and do anything (mostly)! I hope you start eating again and I hope you feel better..I don't want anything bad to happen to you. We need more people like you in this world =)
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hey, well i am a 16 yr old girl. 2 years ago i was in a bad car accident and fell into a coma. i was in it for 2 years and i woke up a week ago. well, i am kinda out, and well i was wondering, what kind of stuff is in? stores, music, fashion, hair and stuff like that. i am kinda confused! thx!
Wow--two years, long time. Well, it really depends what your in to, and your style. Here's some different types of stores: Pacific Sunwear (aka Pac Sun, kind of surfer/skater), Hot Topic (punk/goth, I guess, if thats what you want to call it), Aeropostale (sometimes..it's kind of like 'cute' stuff..it has cool PJ's) and there's so much more. I guess you could just go to the closest mall and check around the stores..see what you like. There seems to be a lot of surfing and skating brands of clothing being worn these days (ex: Vans, Etnies, BAM, Billabong, [some] Roxy).
As for the hair: A lot of people like their hair straightened (like me). Some people pull their hair up also. Once you have it up, you could put it into a bun, a messy bun (with hair all sticking out, self-explanatory), or just a pony tail. The popular music now depends on what kind you like. These are some of the bands I like (I like rock, punk, emo, etc): Something Corporate, Taking Back Sunday, Hawthorn Heights, My Chemical Romance, Green Day, New Found Glory, Household Audio (local band), and more. If you're into like "pop" music, there's Ryan Cabrera. He's new, and he's like always on the radio. That's all I know, sorry, I'm not into pop // rap // R&B. Hope this helped, and hope you're feeling better x3
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has anyone tried those crest whitestrips? i was wondering when you put the whitestrip on top of your teeth, how does the bleach stay on w/o your tongue getting it off? and PLEASE tell me the truth: are they really effective? how much do they whiten?
Yes they do work. My mom is using them right now and I know people who have used them in the past. They aren't exactly comfortable on your teeth though. They strips are thick and they stick on there, but they are difficult to talk with. So I would recommend them, but make sure you remember to use them every day and beware: you'll probably sound weird when you're talking. Hope this helped =)
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Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone
Watch some movies or some television, bring some age-appropriate books for them. And if they're young you could read the book to them. You could also bring some activity books or crafts for them to do. Talk with them and keep 'em busy! Hope it works! Good luck =)
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tomrrow im going to my boyfriends house...i go there all the time and my mom knows him and shes met his parents before...the thing is she trys to get WAY to involved...she wants me to bring cookies over there! she wants to "fix them up a plate of cookies and brownies" and me give them to his family...come on...THATS SO EMBARASSING! shes like oh but it would be so giving...i dont know how to tell her without fighting..hellpp
If he's your boyfriend, you should feel comfortable with it. It's almost Christmas, and it might be nice to do something? I'm not saying you HAVE to do the cookies and brownies, but maybe something? If you REALLY don't want to bring 'em over, then just tell your mom you don't really want to do it. Tell her the truth about how you feel. Hope I helped, good luck =)
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i recently moved with my mom and brother just into town. i still go to the same school and everything. we dont have alot of money, while my friends do. i know for christmas i'm not going to get very much, and i'm ok with that.. but my friends go on about alll the stuff they're getting, and i dont want to hear about it. what's a polite way to tell them to just back off and shut up?
There's probably not that much you can say to them without making them mad or anything. They're probably just happy/excited that Christmas is coming. Just ignore them though. The best Christmas gift you can get is spending time with your family and friends, and I'm sure that's what you're getting. Hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas! :)
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