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dump him
I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused
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Just be like "I was happy with us being good friends before..and I want to keep it that way. I like being your friend and I don't want that to change. So I want us to just be friends, before something worse happens." Hope this helped you.
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"I think it was better when we were friends, so sorry but i'd rather just be friends and i hope nothing changes between us sorry!"
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You should tell him that this realationship isn't working out and that you still want to be friends w/ him. Be very nice when you are saying this and then he will understand.
~soccrchick~
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You could tell him that you just like him as a friend, and you don't want your friendship to change, but I have to warn you that you two won't be best friends for a while.. But my ex-boyfriend said that to me, and I was hurt for a while, but we're friends now.. But honestly, I don't think it will ever be the way it used to, so just be ready for that. I hope I helped, and I hope you and your boyfriend stay friends!
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hun, i dont think he'll hate you if you dump him. Just say it in a nice way that he will understand..sit him down, call him on the phone but be nice about it. Say like "(boys name),I dont really feel like this relationship is going anywhere, i feel like we are at a standstill. I dont want things to change with you,or you to hate me but i cant be in this relationship anymore..i love you like a friend but nothing more, but i hope you understand! Im sorry" ..then the boy woould probably say something like "I understand, i still wanna be friends,& chill with you,just as friends ..you know" and your problem will be solved! =) hope i helped..rate!
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I think you should say somehing like this is really working out or i think it was better off when we were frineds or something like that. Hope i helped
(*SwEeT DrEaMz*)
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just tell him you liked it better when yall were just goodfriends...and tell him u dont want anything to change when yall are over...hope i helped!
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All you have to say is, hey i was wondering, could we just be friends? He should accept that, and to keep kim from actually being your good friend, you need to socialize regularly, so he'll know you truly want to be friends. Hope I helped=) Please rate me
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Tell him that you want to be friends with him, but you're not ready for a steady relationship. Just be straight up honest with him, because if he finds out that you weren't honest, he's going to come back and find a way to stab you in the back. So just talk it out with him and see how it goes. Good luck!
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Awww hunnie. I've been through this before, and yeah it's really tough to tell someone you just want to be friends, without hurting their feelings. I suggest, just saying "I want to be friends because a relationship of something more feels weird, and I liked it better when we were friends." And, if he's the friend you think he is, he'll understand. If not, he wasn't a very good friend after all. Hope I helped!
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Tina
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Just say that you have alot of things going on and right now isnt the time for a boyfriend you need to concentrate on school w/finals coming up and you got alot going on and you dont want to have to worry about keeping a relationship strong while things are going on.
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Tell him that you want to go back being good friends and you don't anything to change. It's best that you tell him the truth and straight out. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Tell him your mom doesn't want you dating anymore because it's taking time away from your schoolwork and stuff. Then ask him if you can still be friends. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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♥ Erin
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The best thing to do is just to tell him the truth! bc it's gonna be hard for you to make it like it was when you all were just good friends if you lie to him. If you just like him like a friend, then tell him! But don't expect him to be totally happy with this answer. If he's upset, it's okay. You canvshow him that you still care about him, just as a friend. Good luck!
~*~Sarah~*~
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