Like on "hey arnold"
Helga acts like she hates Arnold, even though she really loves him.
Theres this guy in which i have a long past with and a long story that i dont want to get into and his best friend told me thats his case.
That he wants me to think he hates me, just because of rumors spread about us.
He tells everyone that he doesnt like me at all, but he told his bestfriend he does like me and to ignore his act he puts on.
So should I really believe his friend?
Is that kind of situation even possible or is it just fairy tale material?
The answer is both. It can be true and it can be a fairy tale(Cause some guys like the play with girls minds to make us think that they like us when they really don't...gotta hate guys like that) You might want to believe his friend, and he is probably telling you that to see if you like him.
Also, it depends on the age(to me anyway) when we are little, like 5-12, most guys say that cause they are afraid to be teased by their friends(and they hit us...like, really hit us). And even as teenagers they are afraid of what their friends might say, and luckily, there are some friends of their's that will tell us and they won't make fun of him. If the friend is like the guy's best friend, you might want to believe him. If he is just a friend, you never know. I wish you the best of luck and I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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Has any ever been to a tanning booth? Do you get hot? Is it just like your sorronded in light? Can you get burned? How old do you have to be with an adult/without an adult?
It depends on the tanning booth if you are with an adult or not, if you're about 12 or maybe 13 and up I bet you can be in the booth without an adult. And yes, sometimes you get hot, and you are laying down on plastic with lights underneath it and then you pull down a lid that looks like what you are laying on. And yes, you can be burned! That's why you talk to the lady or man at the tanning booth on which lights you should use if you are new with tanning beds. And ask to make sure the lights they use aren't ones that are bad for you. I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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I'm 14/f [And you thought a guy would be asking this question =P]. I don't have many friends and I'm fine with that and also the fact that I only have one true girl friend [let's call her Jane]. I'm not exactly a tomboy but I get along with the guys much better because...I don't know. We just click better than I do with girls. I have about 9 guy friends and Jane is my only girl friend. She has another friend [let's call her Jessy] and I'm okay with her but we don't see each other often...MAYBE once every two weeks? In the hallways? Plus, she's moving away this summer so it's kind of bleh. Anywhos, you're probably wondering what my problem is by now. Well, I know that I only like one of my guy friends. The others, I see them as my friends. The thing is that my parents think I'm going "gay" [I'm bi actually] because I have so many guy friends [my parents are homophobes] and they [my mom mostly] thinks that I have a crush on every one of them. Then there is the whole school deal. Most of the people that go to my school are like "OMG! He's a guy! I can't be friends with him because I'm a girl." And stuff like that. So if a girl has many guy friends and vice versa, you're basically screwed-- especially if you're a girl [that's me] that has many guy friends [that would be, well, my guy friends]. Last year, my friend who is a total tomboy got called a wh*re/sl*t/ and whatnot because she had so many guy friends and like one girl friend [like me. Woopdee doo.] So I'm afraid that's going to happen to me and have people thinki I like all my guy friends or something...
So is there any way that I can attempt to get more girl friends or just get over the fact that I get along with guys more easily? Ahh! I don't know. Just tell me what to do, please =)
Ah, I hate it when problems are like that. I get what you're saying cause when I was younger I used to be with guys all the time, but I was also friends with girls who hung out with guys as well. Really, if someone calls you a wh*** or something, they might be jealous that you have tons of guys friends and they wish they were you(XD Trust me on that one, well, atleast it was that way when I was 11) Just try to hang out with girls some, and see if you can drag some of your guy friends over there so that just in case you feel awarked you have one of your guy friends to help out! And hang out with Jane and her friends some days, you don't have to always be in a conversation when hanging out with people, just say something every now and then and laugh when you should and sooner or later you'll be able to talk to them! I wish you the best of luck!
~Vera
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well i like this kid in my school alot.
and we talk almost all the time, and stuff.
we are really good friends i guess you could say, but i like him a lil more then friends.
well anyways i found out last night he kinda likes my best friend.
and she kinda likes him which .. i dont like bcuz if they date ill be hurt kinda, and like if they date, ill never get to date him becuz you know if your best friend dated him, then you cant or something, unless she dumps him and its over a year..
well i dont want to tell her she cant date him.
soo
and i get jelouse when my really close friends talk to him.
Like what should i do..
i dont know..
please help
xoxo thank you
First off, you should tell your best friend that you really like your close friend, like a lot. If she says she likes him too, say something like 'Well, since we both like the same guy and if one of us dated him, we'll both be hurt so why don't neither of us dates him or anything so that nothing hurts our friendship' something like that. I wish you the best of luck, and I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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I'm 14 and I'm a good kid.
I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, and I even
get good grades. My best friend was in a big
drinking phase and they knew about it. Even
though they know I've never drank before,
they've been treating me like I'm five for the
past month or so. (After not drinking for
almost 7 months) my best friend drank one time again, and they found out, so I can understand why they wouldn't trust her, but me and them have talked and they understand that
I won't do anything like that!
Whenever I try to make plans, they won't
let me go anywhere or they guilt me and tell me
how much of a hassle it is. They make me come
home before 6 and they ask so many questions they
don't need to be asking. Its really frustrating
because they didn't used to be like this and
we used to be really close. I've never done
anything bad and they treat me like a criminal!
How do I get things back to normal?
Umm ok, 'They' would be your parents am I right? Well, I guess they're just worried that your best friend will start trying to get you to drink and her being your best friend you'll do it. Tell your parents(again and again) That you don't drink at all and you're smarter than that, and it's getting annoying that you can't do anything with your friends without not being able to go or being guilted into not going! Stuff like that, and maybe say 'Have I done anything to make you guys not trust me?' and things like that. And if that fails, sit down with them and talk again, and just say 'I know you guys understand that I don't drink and wouldn't do stuff like that, but why are you doing all this to me if you trust me?' and after all that and they still act like that, it's better to just do as they say for awhile, and hopfully they'll see you're doing what they ask and that they can stop asking you to do that. I hoped I helped, and I wish you the best of luck!
~Vera
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okay well im 13 years old and in sept i weighed 150.
now i weigh 120 and i still want to lose weight.
i work out and stuff and do the same stuff i did to lose the last 30 pounds but i just cant seem to lose any more. i rly wanna weigh like 105-110 by the summer.
how can i do this?
please help. nothing is working.
Before I say anything about losing weight, I'd like to tell you that muscle weighs more than fat, so since you worked out and stuff, you could weigh a certain amount cause you have muscle...ok anyway, well, eat healthy. Eat lots of Veggies and Fruit, and eat meat too, fish would be better, but some people dont like fish. I read in a mag that this girl would jump rope for 10 minutes everyday and she lost 10 pounds in a month, also you could try yoga, it tons your muscles AND helps you lose weight. Also, what I did to lose some weight was like, eating no candy at all, not drinking Soda after 6 pm, and drank lots of water. I hoped I helped!
~Vera
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13|f|virgin guys i dont have like AIDS or something [ sorry if this is long ]
ok. today i got this really dry | sore throat so i got a drink and it helped with the dryness but not the soreness. and i have naturally large tonselles [sp?] but ive never had strep throat so the doctor wont remove them , but i decided to take a look in my mirror + my tounge was blackish [ewwiee] some bumps toward the back , my tonsells [sp?] are bigger , and the dangly thing is really short. so i was like well , i had chiesee so i brushed my teeth and the blackish stuff came off. but my tounge then turned white. i also had this sore throat thing earler this year and the doctor said it was nothing to worry about. but i had it over the summer too. and he said it was just a sore throat. but im starting to wonder. i told my mom and she gave me some mouth wash [ i ran out of mine ] but it didnt help.. she said she'll look tommorow. but im afraid something serious is happneing here. please help me.
Ok, real quick, by means 'my tounge turned white' look if on the top of your tounge is white, or has some white stuff, that's fine, it tells on how healthy we are eating(Weird huh?) But honestly you should see a doctor to make sure everything thing is ok, it is better safe than sorry! And yeah...stop kissing the boyfriend till you know what is wrong! I wish you luck!
~Vera
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im 13/f
i keep getting signs of deppression i used to be a cheerleader until i quit and iv just seemed to give up on everything im smokeing weed now i enjoy just getting drunk and stoned and iv lost all interest in boys and girls (im bi) and even sex at times i dont know what to do iv even cut my leg a couple times please help
*sleepiesheep*
A couple things, everyone has signs of depression at one point in thier life, and honestly, you should've quit the cheerleading, doing stuff you love and have fun doin is one of the ways to BEAT depression, stop smokin, drugs and drinking makes depression WORSE, and hoesntly, you shouldn't be having sex...stop cutting your legs, if someone sees that, there is going to be trouble, you could be put in a mental hospital for doing that..I think, look, talk to some friends or someone from your family! And if you really want to see if you have depression, go ask your mom or dad if you can go see someone who can say if you have depression or if you're just sad alot...which can lead up to depression. I hoped I helped and I wish you the best of luck
~Vera
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Well im best friends with this girl.. lets call her Lily, well me and lily are best friends and im also really good friends, with this girl we can call Wendy
Well me and Wendy have been friends since like 3 grade
Well me and Lily been best friends since 6
Well Lily sometimes bothers me and trys to act cool but like doesnt try to, idkk its weird
well me and Lily are always laughing at her for stuff.
But do you think its mean? bcuz when we are we these certain people she will make me feel like a retard and stuff
but me and Wendy will make fun of her but then she ends up getting really made sometimes but gets over it.. like soon
its so stupid and confusing
i dont know whats going on
shoud i stop with the jokes??
Stop makin the jokes, I'm tellin you now. Look, joking with one another is ok, but if she gets mad about it, that should be a flag sayin 'Dude...stop.' look teasing is ok, me and my friends tease each other all the time, but we don't make each other the butt of the joke. Again, stop the jokes. Hoped I helped
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What's a good way of overcoming 'shyness'?
I mean, I have trouble talking to new people, especially ones I don't know. I would really like to be more confident, or what ever will help me with approaching someone. Any ideas or relations to this?
Hey, I'm in the same spot, but I have become a tad more outgoing. See, just hang out with people who you ain't (excuse me bad grammer...XD I'm a southern) shy around. and go to lots of parties...it helps, trust me, dancing with your friends and such will help you. Also, everytime you see yourself in the mirror, tell yourself that you look smokin hot, not matter how you look. And go up to people and just say hi and just ask them 'Did you have history already?' or something, just to be able to talk to them and also, you can see what classes they like. and most times just askin what's up can help as well. And just, hang out with people, and you don't have to talk, just bein there and sayin stuff everynow and then helps, and alot more people will talk to you if you do that. And look, a lot of people tell me this and it works, if you have no confidence in you when you need it, fake it. Walk down places like you are the greatest thing in the world. It helps, hoped I helped ya!
~Vera
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how much is it to go to a tanning bed. not the best one or the worst one, an average place.
and i heard they are very unsafe. if i do it 3 or 4 times will i die?
Certain places, isn't that much. It depends on the place, like I went somewhere and me and my mom got 10 tanning bed things(meaning we could go there 10 times you know) and it wasn't that much. Go to a tanning bed place and ask about it. And it depends on the lights they use, some are unsafe, some are safer than others. And you won't die, if you're that worried, talk to the people at the tanning beds, they should really help you out on finding things that will be good for you and your budget. Hoped I helped!
~Vera
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so i have 2 full weeks before going back to school, and i really want to get into shape. I was in awesome shape this fall from soccer, but now i'm not doing a sport and have sort of fallen into a rut. i'm not fat, i just want to tone my arms and lose a little chub. any tips on diet, exercise, motivation- anything would be helpful, thanks!
Yoga, yoga can really help you lose weight, and tone your muscles! and if you don't want to go to a gym for yoga, you can get a yoga lesson on DVD. and if you want a simple diet that isn't big, do the one I did. Don't drink any soda after 6(and try not to drink that much soda at all) and try not to eat any sweets, and eat lots of fruit and just eat healthy! And for those two weeks, don't get on a scale! If you get on the scale, you'll (maybe) be upset or angry that you haven't lost weight. I wish you the best of luck!
~Vera
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I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.
Not many of us have the qualifications, because most of us are teenagers.As one person said some of us have been through hell and back, which makes us know how it feels to be going through something, and since we're back from hell(or we are going through it now) we know how to help(hopefully) help the person who asked the question. And you know what, most of the questions on here are things like on if a guy likes them, or if they are having health problems. On most of the questions if it is really serious, we tell them "Go get some help from a doctor" or from a parent. Some of us aren't trying to come across as a "Godsend", I'm here cause I love giving advice, and I like knowing I helped someone. so yeah, that's all I really need to say.
~Vera
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actually.. remove the might.. i definitely just hacked my crushs email. for the second time.
can someone please help me understand WHY im doing this? cause i really dont understand.. i know for a fact he doesnt get emails, i already know all his contacts,, so i dont understand why i keep hacking him? like im an idiot!
last time i spent 2 weeks crying because of it.
and now i did it again!
wtf is wrong with me??
i think i get a rush from doing bad things.. why is that? and how do i get rid of it? i really dont want to anymore..
please help, thx.
Alot of people get that rush for doing something bad...I'm one of those people, that just happens cause..well, I don't know, with good people it's a rush because most of their life they do mostly everything good, then they do something bad and it just feels good, But maybe you're doing it because he's your crush and you want to see if he likes you or something, and to get rid of it just say to yourself this is wrong, I shouldn't do this. And before you do it(or if you're about to do it) get up, and walk away from your computer and watch T.V or something. I hoped I helped
~Vera
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ok soo i need to lose weight can anyone help me??
^^ well, first, you need to eat lots of health foods, and get much exercise, dancing, running, things like that. Also, yoga helps you lose some weight and tones your muscles. I did something and it helped me lose weight, I ate lots of fruits, I didn't drink any soda after 6 p.m, and I tried not to eat anything with sugar in it(like..really I ate no candy) Hoped I helped
~Vera
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Can anyone give me a quick way to study for a test??
My test is tomorrow and i haven't had time to study for it.
JANE
Flash cards work wonders, tis an easy way to study it, all you do is write things down and stuff and you should know some of it just by writing it. If you don't have time to do that, just read through it, or make a game from it, ask your parents to help you make a game to study it, or get together with your friends and have a study session. Hoped I helped, and good luck on your test!
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Okay,
I absolutley LOVE LOVE LOVE singing, and acting, but my play is this friday and i have the lead role, everyone always talks about that when they perform, they feel really good. How do i get over my fear!! I already had an embarrassment on stage once, i cant do it again. How do i distract myself from the sudience. Tips would be helpful ASAP
JANE
Well, first off, don't be scared. If you need to focus on a certian place on the wall or something. Say to yourself over and over "I know this, I won't be scared, I'ma great singer and actress" Something like that. and just focus on what your doing, should help you get your mind of the audience. Hoped I helped!
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1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ?
1. I would like the guy to make the first move...
2. Oo...I dunno, I just flirt some and then if I know they like me I just tell them that I like them and hope for the best
3. Oo...You just keep telling yourself "don't be shy, flirt! Have fun!" I guess...that is really a hard question to answer...seeing as I can be a little shy myself...
4. Talk about anything, Music, Life, How they are feeling, umm..their fav subject in school, things like that I guess
5. Flirt with them! Best why to figure out! but if the person you like is a flirt...you might need to ask one of their friends that is friends with you to see if they like you
6. I guess they stop flirting back.
Hoped I helped!
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i'm going to get a new verizon cell phone. any ones that you would reccomend me to get that arn't REALLY expensive? (no razor please.) and give me some info about them
Oh, I can help you with this. Ok, my phone is a Samsung from verizon, and it is really good, just make sure you should look at the one that is red alright? The phone itself is very good, screen is pretty big, it takes really good pictures and it records things. Giving info about a phone is pretty hard to do across the internet...so, next time you go to verizon, check it out alright? as I said, look at the one that is red, not the blue one alright? ^^ Just trying to help you since many of my friends have the blue one and it isn't as well as the red one. Hoped I helped. Oh, and the red phone isn't too expensive...I do know it is in the 100$ I think...but I can't remember
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My face is really oily and makes it really shiny, ive tried special face washes, the dermatologist and makeups. Does any one know any tricks to help with oily skin like reduce it or get rid of it?
-thanks
I've got really oily skin too, I know something that will help you out caused it really helped me. It's called Almay and you can get it at some CVS stores I think, oh, and when you get it, I wouldn't get the Toner, just get the wash and then the lotion! Hoped I helped!
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