Question Posted Saturday December 16 2006, 8:49 am
actually.. remove the might.. i definitely just hacked my crushs email. for the second time.
can someone please help me understand WHY im doing this? cause i really dont understand.. i know for a fact he doesnt get emails, i already know all his contacts,, so i dont understand why i keep hacking him? like im an idiot!
last time i spent 2 weeks crying because of it.
and now i did it again!
wtf is wrong with me??
i think i get a rush from doing bad things.. why is that? and how do i get rid of it? i really dont want to anymore..
Lola answered Saturday December 16 2006, 2:52 pm: Hey whats up,
I've read your problem and i understand exactly what your going through, but its all not worth crying all that long and feeling so depressed and getting worried and stuff. So i want you to relax first, and stop crying about it, because its not that big a deal.
I think you probably just hack your crush's email cause you probably wanna make sure that there are no girls sending him emails and that he's not involved in any relationship with anyone. But its cool, we all do that when we are totally obsessed with someone and we want to find anyway where we can get involved in their lives, so we hack their emails or do any strange action of the sort. But its normal, its okay, there is no need to worry and cry and make yourself feel so depressed to that extent.
And about that rush you get from doing bad things, its completely normal too, we all get that, and we feel so guilty and we keep crying about it and thinking that we are really really bad and many more weird thoughts, but then at the end, we all do mistakes, but we learn from them. And you should learn from your mistakes. And if you can't, since you keep on hacking his email, then try to find a solution for it, its obvious that you want to talk to him and get involved in his life and know whats going on with him. Then why don't you try to send him an email instead of hacking his mail, or go up to him and start a normal conversation and get close to him and be freinds with him, and how do you know, maybe he would ask you out or something. See, there are much more sensible and wiser ways that you can use to get what you want. yOu don't have to go through the hardest wrongest ways which don't even lead you to anything at the end.
So listen, think of what i said and consider it, and if there is any other help you want, then please be free to contact me, or simply leave your email in the feedback for further advice personally.Goodluck:) [ Lola's advice column | Ask Lola A Question ]
Veranex answered Saturday December 16 2006, 2:44 pm: Alot of people get that rush for doing something bad...I'm one of those people, that just happens cause..well, I don't know, with good people it's a rush because most of their life they do mostly everything good, then they do something bad and it just feels good, But maybe you're doing it because he's your crush and you want to see if he likes you or something, and to get rid of it just say to yourself this is wrong, I shouldn't do this. And before you do it(or if you're about to do it) get up, and walk away from your computer and watch T.V or something. I hoped I helped
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