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well i like this kid in my school alot.
and we talk almost all the time, and stuff.
we are really good friends i guess you could say, but i like him a lil more then friends.
well anyways i found out last night he kinda likes my best friend.
and she kinda likes him which .. i dont like bcuz if they date ill be hurt kinda, and like if they date, ill never get to date him becuz you know if your best friend dated him, then you cant or something, unless she dumps him and its over a year..
well i dont want to tell her she cant date him.
soo
and i get jelouse when my really close friends talk to him.
Like what should i do..
i dont know..
please help
xoxo thank you
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First off, you should tell your best friend that you really like your close friend, like a lot. If she says she likes him too, say something like 'Well, since we both like the same guy and if one of us dated him, we'll both be hurt so why don't neither of us dates him or anything so that nothing hurts our friendship' something like that. I wish you the best of luck, and I hoped I helped!
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Don't listen to those stupid "unwritten rules." They're stupid. Date WHOEVER you want, WHENEVER you want. It's your life, don't let some stupid rule that doesn't exist own you. Tell your best friend how you feel about him. If she was really your friend, she'd back off. But if you talk to her about it and she just ends up dating him anyways, she was never your friend & she never cared how you felt anyways. Anyways, just be cool, play it out, and keep talking to him. But you can't make him like you. I'm sure he will over time.
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