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Question Posted Monday January 29 2007, 9:38 pm

Well im best friends with this girl.. lets call her Lily, well me and lily are best friends and im also really good friends, with this girl we can call Wendy
Well me and Wendy have been friends since like 3 grade
Well me and Lily been best friends since 6
Well Lily sometimes bothers me and trys to act cool but like doesnt try to, idkk its weird
well me and Lily are always laughing at her for stuff.
But do you think its mean? bcuz when we are we these certain people she will make me feel like a retard and stuff
but me and Wendy will make fun of her but then she ends up getting really made sometimes but gets over it.. like soon
its so stupid and confusing
i dont know whats going on
shoud i stop with the jokes??


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Veranex answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 6:54 pm:
Stop makin the jokes, I'm tellin you now. Look, joking with one another is ok, but if she gets mad about it, that should be a flag sayin 'Dude...stop.' look teasing is ok, me and my friends tease each other all the time, but we don't make each other the butt of the joke. Again, stop the jokes. Hoped I helped

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Brandi_S answered Monday January 29 2007, 9:56 pm:
I would stop, because yes, it IS mean. I never understood the point of belittling others for fun. It hurts the other person, and, really, what's the point in that?

She is your friend, yet you treat her this way. Tisk, tisk on you.

It's sad that she allows you to make her the butt of your jokes. It's sad that she still calls YOU friend. It's sad she doesn't think enough of herself to not put up with you and your other friend treating her like a rug to wipe your feet on.

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askxbrooke answered Monday January 29 2007, 9:55 pm:
well jokeing is a good thing laughing is the best medicine out there, so jokeing is good, in a <B>positive</b> way. And sometimes that can be hard for us because we all have been mean to someone at one point. but maybe wendy doesnt like jokes and you gotta take that into perspective and think about her feelings! i hope i didnt sound harsh


good luck ;]

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