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I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do? (link)
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u should either tell him tht u want to break up or just take it slow or tlk to him about it.
i was hurt when tht is all i did with a guy it was so cute then just one day he sprung it on me tht he wanted to break and i didnt even no tht we did until 3 days l8er when this gurl says im so srry bout u and xxxxxxxx.
so i wouldnt get too attached because many hearts have benn broken cause the words i love u were spoken.
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Um, theres this guy at my skool (he's yr10, I'm yr8) and I wrote him a letter letting him know my feelings. He got it, and read it in private as i requested. 2 days l8er, my woodwork teacher said he takes this guy 4 metalwork and he heard about the note. My teacher asked the guy if he was interested and he said yes-i was thrilled. But then he started giving me little smiles and waves and stuff, and my m8s said he kept looking at me when i wasnt looking (ironic-i was doing the same!). Now he has finished school 4 the yr, as yr 10 finishes 2wks before yr 8's do. He has gone 2 the Sunshine Coast-without leaving a response. I dunno if he IS really interested or not, and i dont wanna let myself be hurt, yet i cant stop thinking about him!! Im infatuated, and evry1 says hes shy, but im not sure. Help!! xoxo Shadow (link)
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dear shadow,
if the boy has been lookin at u and smileing at u then tht is a good sign,
and u should go for it!
and i do no how it feels to be hurt and it doesnt feel to good but mabe u could also rethink the age and go to a guy more your age.
or just be happy with this one,
id say to get to know him and then mabe just mabe one day would hook up.
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I like this guy from a different church.. i see him once a month and i really like him. what should i do?
please help me (link)
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TLK TO HIM!
u cant go rong with doing tht then after awhile get his number and tlk to him over the fone and then mabe u 2 could go on a date sumtime.
p.s._good luck!
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I cant stand my family anymore .. I just got into a bad car accident a couple days ago on this one road where someone before me wrecked n died so i was lucky i made it.. well i came home n layed down on the sofa n my mom told me to sit up .well i was n pain and she didnt care she didnt even wanna leave work to come see me n my stepdad told me he didnt care i got into accident. i dont wanna be here anymore my mom wont even talk to me she just walks away.. (link)
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tht is so sad... my parents wouldnt do tht at all and im sorry bout the accident too im glad u made it!
but anyways,mabe u just need to tlk to them mabe spend some time with them although tht seems really dorky but its true...
then mabe they will pay more attention to u and care more bout it.
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i have an AWESOMe friend. i am 1 year older than him and we arent going out. his mom says he is not old enough to have a GF but she is insisting for us to go to the movies together. i LOVE him but i dont know if he LOVES me... i know that he likes meeh but i dont kno!!! please help me!!!! i beg u!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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you should ask him out! deffinately!!!!
although it might seem weired but i guess his mom is right u 2 should go to the movies what could go rong? ;)
if in fact he does love u then he would soon start to show it as u to go on dates after awhile.
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I have the lead role in a play, and i need advice on how to memorize my lines! any ideas? Thanks soo much! (link)
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say your lines over and over again till u get them right it has worked for many times.
or you could also get a family member to help u
for example; family member says the line before your line.
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OK-
last year was the bomb but this year sux. i have a new bestfriend and i love her to death but ok lastyear all of the guys kinda liked me and now they don;t like me anymore. i was talking to my best guyfriend and he said guys are scared to get regeted by me. CAN you believe that they are scared of me! so0o0o0 stupid! so now they r moving on to the new best thing, my best friend. I dont know but i kinda miss knowing guys like but i am trying to get over it but i miss knowing that someone likes me. I dono im so0o0 confused. But if you think about it either way i was screwed... if i went out with all of them id be called a slut or hoe but now that i regeted them they are all scared of me. i need help!! plzZzZzZ
SIGNED,
I DON'T WANNA BE SCARY (link)
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dear i dont wanna be scary,
guys r weired like tht and for them to do tht they dont deserve u anyways!
but i know how u feel i like the way tht all these guys at my school like me its actually really kool i dont thnk i would ever go out with them but at least i no they have my back.
and i am sure if your new best friend was a real best friend she wouldnt do tht to u. or at least let u go through tht
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ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!! (link)
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if i were u i would try to become friends with them again.
if tht goes rong then get new friends tht u can trust.
unlike the other ones tht would break u into peices.
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I want to gain weight. No matter how much I eat, my weight doesnt go up. By the way, I am a vegetarian. Please suggest, whether there is any medication/tonic avaialble to gain weight. (link)
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well i dont thnk there is way to gain weight and soon enough ur matabolism will catch up to u and u will feel your weight catch up trust me i no.
u should just wait or you cuold start eating junky foods.
but tht would make u very unhealthy
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should i lose weight to make a guy like me? i mean i AM little overweight and my parents think so too and ive gained like 10 pounds, so im like 15 pound overweight! so i am wondering because i think guys havent asked me out yet is becuase of this! i know 2 guys who already liked me but they thought i was funny and nice and everything.. im not wow fat, but should i lose weight now? because is this the last straw? (link)
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well lets see if u hacve had a guy turn u down before then it would be a good thing to loose weight to show him what he's missin! i have done it before when i went to middle school he left me cause i wasnt pretty enough now i am a nock out as he claims to tell me.
but if u want a guy to like if u lose weight thn go with it loose weight but if the guy wants u to loose wweight then tell him well screw u cause i deserve better.
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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do. (link)
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alright this has happened to me before other thn the drugs part.
just plz try to stop doing drugs cause they will ruin your life and not only tht it will hurt your loved ones as u mentioned before.
even ask your friends to help u stop.
try to get the friends tht u lst to help also.
im sorry if this isnt the best advice but its a really hard thing to do.
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My best friend goes out with this boy, She loves so much that no matter what he does she wont leave him. He could cheat on her, beat her, ANYTHiNG !! She wont leave him, But now shes confused, hes acting to diffrent he acts like shes the greatest thing in the world WHEN THERE ALONE ! But when hes with his friends, its diffent. Like if you see them in the hall alone he has this look that "wow i love her so much shes the greatest thing in the world,i dont know what i would do with out her" but when hes with friends its like "oh yeah , i "love her" no she just thinks that shes just another girlfriend" but everyone knows he really does love her. And now shes confused she loves him and she doesnt want to leave him, but she crys all the time other it, does she just stay with him and cry? Or cry because she lost him and its all her fault. i NEED TO HELP HER BEFORE SHE DOES SOMETHiNG STUPiD !!! HELP ME TO HELP HER !! GiVE ME ADViCE !! (link)
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ok just tlk to her.
cause we dont want her to do anything drastic.
help her i know how guys r when they r around their friends they ignore us gurls and do guy things.my ex loved me and i know he did cause he had i love xxxxxxxx on his hand, but when he was around his friends i was just an annoying gurlfriend.
tht is y he broke up with me cause he said i was annoying wich no guy understands.
but anyways just be her friend and if she really likes him then you let her be happy.
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Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do? (link)
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well goodness if he smokes weed don't go out with him cause he seems like a big player to me..
if he flirts with all the gurls,i meen how would u know he might not even be the guy u expected him to be at all.
and besides aguy tht smokes weed might be a little messed up in the head i used to have a boyfriend and he smoked weed and then i found tht out broke up with him cause i barely new him and now he calls me every day and he like almost like he stalks me
its really scary.
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ok first of all im not going to amifat.com or any website like that bcuz i dont trust them, i'd rather get advice from real people my age etc. so don't tell me to go to any website.
I've always been really skinny. People always think im anorexic and all my friends are like where do u put ur food? But i dont get my period every month probably because of it so i don't know how healthy my weight is. I'm about 5'6 and weigh about 103. Do YOU think thats healthy. Some of those crazy sites have told me it's not, and i wanna no what u think. thanx (link)
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well i dont thnk tht is healthy.
but i guess u cant help it i meen i am 5'6 skinny and weigh a little bit more thn tht.
but for gurls our age we should weigh about in the 110's to 115's or in between.
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im going to ask for a mini ipod for christmas, but which is better a regular ipod or a mini ipod and whats the differnce, and can i get a gift card thing to get songs at the itunes music thing online. and are they easy to use? becaus im not good with tech. things so im hoping its easy to use...please tell me anything you can about them.
i rate!!!! (link)
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well i really dont thnk there is a difference between the mini ipod and the regular ipod but i thnk tht the mini ipod is alot easier cause it can fold up or w.e.
im not sure bout the gift card thing i dont thnk there is a gift card tht does what u want it to do.
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3months and we hardly ever talk.. the only thing we really have done is hold hands.. the only place we have ever been with each besides school is a basketball game.. i want to be able to talk to him and go places with him like the movies but im too shy too ask and we are both shy ppl. what can i do? (link)
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this has happened to me before, just get the courage and ask him on a date.
like lets say ask him if he is doing anything this friday or sumthin like tht then yall can go to the movies
if he likes or loves u.. lol then there is no doubt in my mind tht he wouldnt say yes!
U GO FOR IT!
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Does anyone know any nice places to get Cartilidge earrings.. also, do you buy the cartilidge earrings by themselves. or do you buy a pack of 2 like i want small hoops but i duno where i can find em. thanks (link)
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well i got my cartilidge peirced at Clair's and i got cute earings.And no i dont thnk u have to get them in packs of 2 although i did.
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well see in my religion its a sin to pluck or wax eyebrows but the thing is everyone i no who are also muslims pluck/wax their eyebrows except my mom and sister.. im almost 14 years old and i think its my choice wheater i touch my eyebrows ... and tonight my dad is goin to get his hair cut and i want to go w. him to get my eyebrows done wut cud i say to my mom to get her to say okay?
tnxs..ill rate u high (link)
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just tell her tht u want to get them done i mean the worse thing she could say is no.
But this was the same with my mom i wasnt aloud to start plucking my eyebrows till 7th grade.
who knows u could even tlk her into it by making up a good point.
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Okay.. I'm in love with my best friend whom i've known since kindergarten..but my best friend is also in love with him and she doesnt know i love him too. and he's been giving me these signals..but i have no idea wut to do..i dont wanna tell my friend b/c she'll get all mad at me and stuff..but i dont wanna ruin my relationshop w/ the guy..wut should i do? (link)
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well tlk to your friend about it.
i mean if u bring it up to face with her thn u 2 should stop likeing the same guy and go for different guys and if your friend dates him then tht gives u a chance to go and find sumone better or if u go out with him then your friend will have to go for sumone else i mean sure she'll be mad at u for it but its happened to me before and now we r like peanut butter and jelly because come to find out the guy tht we fought over was no one special at all.
A.K.A. PLAYER!
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hi
i went out with guy like 2 months ago who i really really liked but then he dumped me and i found out that he had been 2 timing me but he just said he didnt and even if he did it wasnt like we were married or anything but iw as really hurt. then we became rfiends and he said he wanted to be really good friends but whenever i see him he just ignores me but i still really like him and i think he sought of still likes me but is trying not to show it. I would love it someone gave me some advice as this is really very important to me!
love stef
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tht is the same with my ex he ignores me and the only time he pays attention to me is when someone hurts nme or makes up rumors. i am not sure if he likes u or not guys r weired like tht u never know what they r up to.
just tlk to him out when it is the right time when no body is around and just go with your instinks.
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