Member Since: November 26, 2004
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Last Update: December 14, 2004
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if my BF and i are going to have sex and he wears a condom and i have him pull out when he thinks hes about to cum..does that make u less at a risk of pregnancy? (link)
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yes u are less at risk of becoming pregnant but how do you know he will not come before he pulls out. lads cannot help it sometimes.
Have you thought about going on the pill? This is a very good form of contraception and u could use a condom aswell!
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My mom is very overprotective & strict. I'm 15 years old and can barely even go out with friends. She worries about me because I do have "bad" friends who are into drugs, alcohol, trouble, etc. I think she should trust me more because I have never done any of these things and I don't give into peer pressure. She doesn't even allow me to get into a car with anyone. She has some points in her argument, but I know how to stay safe and what not to do. I'm a teenager and I want to have fun right now. How do I explain this to her and get her to allow me to do more things? She's just mostly worried that I'll get hurt or something bad will happen to me. (link)
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hi. you mom sounds very over protective. What you need to do s sit down with your mom for a chat. She needs to understand that what she is doing is preventing you from having a life. She has to understand that if you make mistakes, they will be your mistakes that she can't prevent and you will learn from the. You will not be able to grow up unless you are able to live your own life and make your own choices. What will happen if she carries on is that you will rebel and maybe become out of control.
Try to compromise, like say to her that you will call and tell her when you will be home - but don't be late, if you say you are going to be back at twn be back at five to. This will help you gain the trust you need and will help her to relax.
good luck
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I have a party to attend in december, it has a new romantic/early 80s theme, i think its cool but i have a problem, where do i start, what clothes should i go for, for maximum effect, and most importantly, how do i do my make up and hair. Thanks for you help in advance. (link)
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hi. this is a great theme! wish i was going. Whatyou should do is start by looking around, look at different shops and choose the best out fit. Think about the 80's - flares, hipsters etc. You can probably get these from shops in the mall as they are all back in fashion. The 80's hairstyle was big hair - think tina turner! and your make up should be bright but not over done!
hope you have a great time
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Ok I have this friend (we'll call her K) and were really tight and all. And April 2004 she introduced me to the guy she liked (we'll call him J) that lives in our neighborhood. Yes, I thought he was cute. Well this October she hooked up (only made-out) with him for about an hour. And J got my # from one of his friends so we started calling each other almost every night and saw each other on like sat.'s and fri.'s and now since last Wednesday we are going out. Yes she is in love with him and let me inform you right now the only reason probably why she likes him is because she thinks he's hot. And J and I have a very strong relationship and he does not like her at all. I know this because his attitude towards her. They aren't really friends but she always talks to him on the internet and J tells me what K says about her asking personal stuff about what we do...its pissing me off sooo much. Its none of her damn business. K knows that I know shes in love with him its she just exaggerates it soo much. Like on her advice column! And don't worry I am NOT a bad friend because I asked K before J asked me out, that if we do go out if it would be ok with her and shes like "I don't care" And I know she meant it. Because I was like "are you sure?", "you can tell me" and once she found out we were going out like on Fri. she wanted to explode she was mad at me! and then I was like I can break up with him if you want me to for our friendship and then like 5 mins later K was all like, "oh, don't if your happy I want you to be!" and she meant it sincrely
So what should I do?
thanks in advanced & I rate high, and sorry for it being so long! :) (link)
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it sounds like you need to talk to this "k". she is obviously a bit jealous that you are going out with "j" and she doesn't want to admit it. you should to her find out what the problem is! i think she honestly does want you to be happy but can't hide the feelings tat she has very well. Jealously can kill the closest relationships cos its something nobody can control.The only way youcan calm it is by talking to her.
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i dont wanna care what ppl think of me and what they will say about me but i dont know how to get over that feeling. if i have more confidence then people will think im cool and hang out with me. im not in public school but i have a youth group thing i go to and only like 2 ppl hang out with me. i wanna hang out with the "cool" kids, but they are all outgoing and not shy at all and stuff....how can i get like that??? (link)
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hi. i know what it's like to be in your position. I have been though the same thing and i know what it is like to atually believe that noone likes you because u can't mix as easily as others.
It's not like you can't socialise you just find it hard. i can't tell yo to just go mix cos i know it is harder than that.
What you can do is believe in youself, you are as good as them! and when you get to know people you probably are out going, it just takes you a while to relax!
If you really want to "fit in" then try speaking to them more, even an hello will get you noticed, just relax and think to yourself that you are as good as them if not better!
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