what are some good things that i can/should do to hint this guy that i like him. like i know flirt but like i need examples of things. and i talk to him on the phone a TON. a little online. but latly i havn't really been able to talk to him in person.
Ok well for starters:
-Hey do you like anybody?
-You know I was thinking today about how good we would be together.
-Do you want a girlfriend right now?
-If you could date somebody who would you date?
-I know somebody who is interested in you.
-I had a dream about you it was so silly we were together.
-Do you think you want a long term or short term relationship ____ oh me too!
Hahaha good luck! Hope I helped need more just message me !
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i dont really have feelings for my boyfriend of three years anymore. I still like him and want to be friends, but I just don't LOVE him anymore. We hardly see eachother at all because we went to different schools this year. But the point is, I asked him today on the phone if he still liked me, and he said yeah. I also asked if he still liked me as much as before, and he said yeah. he also said he wanted to "give me something" on thursday so i should go see him. uhhhh help please because i really don't want to hurt his feelings and omg what if he wants to "give me" a kiss? (im 14/f by the way....and even though we've been going out for a while, we still havnt kissed yet). it would be kind of romantic in a way, but i just dont want it to be with him anymore. i used to, but he missed that time. i like someone else. Please help i really dont know what to do. Please don't just tell me "break up with him" because it's sooooo hard because i've known him for a while and I care about him sooooo much. Thanks.
I'm not going to tell you to break up with him. Actually I am going to tell you to go hang out with him on Thursday, if he kisses you and you still don't feel like your attracted to him then you should tell him. See what he says, he might be lying and feel the same way. Three years is along time. Alot of couples feel unattracted to eachother if they aren't being "active" I guess is the word. Maybe this kiss will make you attracted to him again! If not then you will no for sure that he isn't the guy you want to be with. But I wouldn't right away break up with him. Good luck! :)
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I have this friend "annie" who I've know all my life. She's always been a major drama queen, making up crazy stories to get attention and make people feel sorry for her. In kindergarten, it was a "rattlesnake bite" and she might die! Last year it was "internal bleeding", and no one better make her laugh or it might kill her! Her latest thing is pretending to be bulemic. After she eats she goes to the bathroom and makes noises like she's throwing up. I know she's so totally faking it, but everyone else is sooo worried about pooorrr annie! Even our friends' parents are really worried... and that's what makes me so upset. I wish I could tell people "She's just trying to get attention!", but that would make me sound mean and heartless, plus I don't like talking bad about her because she IS one of my oldest friends. I just feel bad for the parents who are being fooled by this. Should I say anything, or just sit back and see what her next drama will be?
I know someone like "annie". Now just know that your probably not going to change her by saying something. It's in her personality and someday her lying with get her sunk very very deep. Now you can choose to be there for her, or let her sink. But remember that day will come and she will realize that she can't lie like that anymore. Now this bulemia lie is more serious then she thinks. Now if in fact parents are getting involved, there is a chance that she will have to enter therapy and possibly be admitted to a center. I know that sounds very scary but she built this web. It's probably best to just leave her alone. I know that seems like strange advice but I am telling you she will learn her lesson. Because think about it, she can't just wake up one day and come into school and say I'm all better people won't believe her. And therapy is not fun and depending on her parents she won't get out of it easily! Good luck! Your a good friend for hanging in there! :)
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hey. ok so i'm 14/f. and i've put some questions on here before about this, but i'll begin from the start so it all fits together. so a while ago i started going to this church that 2 of my friends go to. well, there was this guy there and from the start he was really nice to me. but he was also kinda weird, so i wasn't sure if i liked him or not. then another day when i went to church, we talked and i decided that i really did like him. so when i told my friends..we'll call them.. Trina and Kim. so when i told them, they like flipped out and was like "omg!! i can't belive that you like him!" "he has done so much bad stuff!" and "he used to do drugs and he's already had sex!" and stuff like that. but something about me didn't seem to care. so then one day Trina told him that i liked him, and he said he liked me to. then he asked for my number. oh yeah, by the way, i'm shorting this a little bit. anyways, that night he called me, and we talked, and then he asked me out. i didn't say yes right away though because i wasn't sure. so i told Trina and Kim and they said i should say yes. so i said yes. and then the next day i find out that Trina and Kim never wanted me to go out with him, and that it was a "life lesson" and it was supposed to teach me to not go out with bad guys like him. i thought that that was a load of crap. but for a while i thought they were right. so i decided to break up w/ him. and when i tried, i ended up telling him the whole story about the life lesson. in the end, i didn't break up with him, but i told my friends i did so they would stop giving me crap bout it. so one day, my parents had to go to work, and so i snuck him over to my house, just so we could talk. i ended up having my first kiss. and he video taped it on his camera, i didn't want him to, but in the end i just let him. so then a couple days later, i just didn't feel the same w/ him, and i felt like we were moving to fast pace. so i decided to break up w/ him. he was sooooo pissed. he was telling me that he was going to tell everyone everything and stuff. i was really scared. but a couple of hours later he cooled off and said that he would never want to black mail me. and then he said "this is your last chance, do you want to try again?" and i said yes.. but not for a good reason. i said yes so he wouldn't tell people everything. so the next day he called me, and it just wasn't the same, and he relized it. so that night he was like "things just haven't been the same since you broke up with me, so maybe we should just break up, but still be friends" and i was like "ok, i'm really sorry, and i was never trying to hurt you". and he was like "ok" so then we hung up. and today i just got back from Iowa, and yesterday i went on a walk with my 10 yr. old cousin and while we were walking he called me. the fone kept cutting out,and i was trying to spend time w/ my cousin cause i like never get to see her. and he kept saying "why r u being such a b****?" and stuff like that and i was like "i'm not! just call me back later, k?" and he was like "whatever bye" and we hung up. he sounded kinda mad. and he hasn't called me since. i'm just really scared that i'm going to make him mad and he is going to tell my friends everything. if they find out, the rest of my life will be ruined. i'm starting high school this year, and if people find out i will have the wost years of my life. everytime i think about it i get a really weird feeling in my stomach and i feel like crying. i can't have people finding out. i feel really bad about lying to everyone, including my parents, and i wish that i wouldn't of done any of it. what the heck do i do?? i feel like my life has just changed so much ever since this. this is like all i can think about, and i feel like my attitude has changed, and i've become more depressed. i'm not one who usually cares what other people think of me, but this is just getting out of hand. i really really really do not want people to find out!!!!! what should i do?? there is no one i can ask, so this was kinda like a last resort. please, please help me!!! thank you.
Ok first of all it's going to be ok, I can promise you that. Now this guy doesn't sound like someone you want to mess with, the worst thing you can do is go back out with him or do anything else with him. If he calls you, you don't have to answer, but you can. Say something like this "Listen I was with my cousin the other day so I couldn't talk." This is important: DON'T SAY SORRY. About anything this is important because if he feels like he is control then he can do whatever he wants and he might take advantage of you. But if you can gain control and be calm then he will back down. Don't act like your afraid! And if he ends up telling people, just deny everything or don't say anything. If someone comes up to you and says "did you have sex with him" you could say "I don't no what your talking about" or this is a good just laugh and ignore it. Because people will be like she laughed then it's deffiantly not true. But once you feel in control then ignore him. I mean it don't answer his phone calls, almost make him afraid of you. I wish you the best of luck! And I hope I helped you! Good luck! If you need anyone to talk to I'm here, honestly I know this sounds werid but you can call me or whatever you need anytime! Just leave me a message and I can give you my number! I know the feeling to not have anyone to really talk to haha! Good lucK! :)
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does anyone know where you can find a costume like http://www.halloweenexpress.com/rag-doll-adult-costume-p-8128.html thats a little cheaper? or a way to make that?
if you have any other suggestions of sexy but cute costumes let me know!
Hahaha thats the costume I wanted. Your not going to find it any cheaper unfortantly. There all around that price range. The cheapest sexy costume I can think of is a ballet leotard or a black full swimsuit put fishnet tights or just tights under neath and then you can buy bunny ears on most sites. Then you can add heels or whatever you want to do. That way you can customize your outfit! Or if your going to a party or something and your friends are going you could get everyone to dress up as Barbies. Someone be rockstar barbie, hockey barbie, shopping barbie, be creative. Then you just have to look for pink clothes and you can dress up as much as you want! :) Good lucK! :)
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How do i post a quistion,
To where it ask EVERYONE the
quistion? tehe im new just
starting like an hour ago :)
Ok to ask a question you look on the left side of the screen. Under GET ADVICE the second one that says ask a question. Then everyone can read your question! :) Good Luck!
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ok so i have 2 questions about tanning beds.
1- someone told me that the light in them helps to whiten your teeth some.. thats not true is it bc yeah it doesnt seem like it would be.. ?
& 2- what exactly are the 'facial' things used for? do they tan your face less or more or what?
Haha no the teeth thing isn't true in most "ordinary tanning beds" maybe some. Now by facial things do you mean the goggles or the lotion? Well if you mean the lotion it will tan your face more, but protect it. The oil or lotion makes your skin tan faster, and it helps it. Now some contain sunless tanner as well but that depends on what kind you get. The goggles are to protect your eyes, I don't use goggles but you can if you want to. I hope I helped at all, if I didn't understand the questions feel free to give me bad feedback! Haha Good luck! :)
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does anyone know this?
Ex.i miss you like a child misses the blanket and
i love you like fat kid loves cake
im a girl and i need the nice/creative/funny/cute for my friend, and shes a girl too
i miss you like________________ and
i love you like_________________
i appriciate your help =)
I miss you like a puppy dog misses it's owner.
I miss you like a blind man misses his eyesight.
I miss you like a photographer misses it's flim.
I love you like a cat loves it's milk.
I love you like a girl scout loves it's cookies.
I love you like a african loves it's drums.
I love you like a tresurer hunter loves treasur.
I love you like lipstick loves lips.
Haha good luck! I got these from a website! :)
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why do when some of your close friend knows that your moving away soon and they starting to keep their distance,wont really talk to you and doesnt wanna get close to you that much?
Friends act like that because they don't want to get hurt. It's almost like their form of protection/ a shield. Most of the time they don't even realize that they are doing it. But you can try to talk to them, and if they continue to act like this then know that this person isn't a very good friend... It's sad but a good friend would want to spend as much time as they could with you before you left. However this friend could care alot about you and knows that they are going to get hurt but they think it's easier just to stay away! It's confusing and frustrating but good luck! :)
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would you go out with a guy whos hot, nice and cool but he has a F or D in his classes?
Well look at this way.. Some people just can't do well in school it's not there thing. If he is nice then what does it matter. My brother is such a smart guy but he failed every subject in school, doesn't mean he's not smart, just means it's not his thing. I mean if it's becoming an issue like he's making stupid desicions and whatnot then you can think about but if he's being nice and fun then thats fine. Good luck! :)
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i dont have like, a ipod video, but like. can i watch the podcasts bigger? because its in that small corner on my itunes and hard to see.
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Yes you can, below the corner there is a bunch of little symbols, now just run your arrow over the symbols slowly and it should tell you what they are, one of them is to make it bigger. Also I'm not sure this works but just try clicking the corner and it will become bigger! Good luck!
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i broke up with my bofriend last night because i ldidnt thinnk i loved him
but i loved the way he treated me. &i loved that he was deep. maybe i just wasnt attracted to him.
now my friend is telling me about how mean her boyfriend is to her.......
so im starting to think. maybe him treating me right is enough?!?!?
idk. im having second thoughts.
what do you think?
Well I've had a similar problem to this, you look at your ex-boyfriend and you think what a great guy, he's so nice to me, he's cute, he's great, all of these things. And you keep telling yourself these things and you say well I should be with him he's a great guy and I don't want to miss out. But really your just not attracted to him, your attracted to (I guess this word might work) lifestyle. You want this amazing boyfriend but in reality you don't have feelings for him. Now you need to look at it this way, if you want to have fun with him, and have him be there for you when you need him then you can continue dating him, but try not to get to serious. But if you want to find someone you really care about and like alot then you should move on from him. I'm not saying it's ok to date your ex-boyfriend and treat him poorly. But I'm saying it's ok to have fun and have a good relationship with someone. You need to really think it over do I want fun and a great guy I don't like/ or keep searching for the guy I really care about and want to be with. Good Luck! :)
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I work outdoors very often, and have managed to acquire a very noticable farmer's tan. And it drives me crazy. Any tips on getting it to go away, or how to tan JUST the lighter part? Thanks very much!
-Kaite
Haha I know how you feel! Well if your comfortable you could wear a tank top. And if you do this often enough your skin will even out. If you don't like wearing tank tops or a swimsuit then you could go to a tanning booth. Don't tan to much but within two sessions it should be fixed. Sunless tanner is risky, it all depends on the kind that you get. Many teen sites can recomend you the best kind. I've done lots of different kinds of sunless tanner and it's always made me look like an ompa lumpa and it would make my body completly streaky haha I'm not saying all the kinds are bad just be careful. But the bright side to sunless tanner is, that it is gone within a few days(usually). Good Luck! :)
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I', 5'2'' and average size but I want to get in shape fast before i see my ex boyfriend. what this can i do to lose weight, and build muscle.
Ok well for starters drink water. I mean drink ALOT of water. The more water you drink the easier and faster you can get in shape. I just gave someone else my secret: The Britney Spear's workout (before she had a baby)! Her workout is 1000 crunches a day. Now she had a great body. If you can do 100 crunches throughout the day (you don't have to do them all at once) then your body will gain muscle. If you can work up to 500 a day then that is fabulous. I'm telling you it works. But remember you don't have to do them all at once. Possibly do 30morning/20 outside/10 before bed just vary it. If you do them all at once then you will get sick of it. But if you pace yourself your body will love you! And here is a tip I learned: plan your day if you know that your going to crave dessert try eatting it in the morning. Nighttime is the worst to eat at. Everything you eat for dinner or before you go to bed sits in your stomach all night and thats how people gain alot of weight. So I'm not saying don't eat any dinner, but if you try having a big breakfast and then a good size lunch and then possibly elminating the sweets at night it will make a HUGE difference! Good luck! Feel free to leave Comments/Questions/Results haha!
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Hello!
There is this ex-boyfriend from five years ago that I've allowed to keep in touch with me. It helped a lot when I moved out of the country when he couldn't call me anymore, and he would occasionally e-mail me and after I was in a new relationship, I decided to completely cut him out of my life. I didn't answer his pleas to know how I was doing, or how much he says I'll always be a part of my life even if we never speak and I'll always have a place in his heart and of course, that he loves me.
It's like some sort of therapy for him. I don't feel comfortable with having any kind of relationship because it doesn't feel real to me to be 'friends.'
He found me on myspace today and I'm not sure why he insists on keeping in touch? What's his MO, for doing this? According to his myspace page he's involved, and I'm the only ex-girlfriend that he's like this with, the other's they don't keep in touch.
I can be really straight forward about things so what is a humanitarian way of saying: "Thanks for taking the time to say hello. Great. Not necessary to do that anymore. Thank you!"
Signed,
Two Feathers
Haha I love your ending. Well think of it this way, your first kiss something simple but girls usually remember who it was with. It seems strange but to guys it's the same way. I'm not saying you guys did anything together or anything but sometimes guys hang onto things. Now I'm not an expert on guy lingo or anything but he probably told you something/acted someway/did something with you that he remembers and doesn't want to let go. For example my first time I held onto that guy for a long time because it was my first and it meant alot to me. Eventually (I know it's along time) he will get over you, just like I got over the guy I was with. If you truly don't want him to be apart of your life then I wouldn't reply to anything. Now I know this seems harsh but he will get used to you not being with him and HE WILL MOVE ON. Haha hopefully. But seriously he will and if you want to be a over the top good person than you can tell him how you feel but honestly the gentler way is straight up not replying. I know it's longer it doesn't make you feel great but it will be better for him. I hope I helped! Good luck! Any comments/questions/results haha feel free! :)
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okay so i dont HATE my body, but i dont like it.
im not one of those people who will go throw up food to get skinny but i will try hard.
does anyone know how i can look like the victoria secret models? like their body.
my big sections are my thighs, and i have love handles, also i would like to try to get rid of my pooch.
this summer im going to be on my boat 24/7 with all my guy friends and boyfriend. i just want to look good.
Haha I know exactally how you feel! Now I am going to give you Britney Spear's (when she had a good body) workout plan. It's simple but makes a difference. Honestly try doing crunches. Britney Spear's did 1000 crunches a day and she looked great. Now if you can try 100 throughout the day (you don't have to do all at once) then build up to say 500 within a month, you will have excellent abs. It's going to be summer to and just drink water. The more water you drink the faster it is for you to tone up. As far as thighs go, I mean I hate this but walking helps ALOT! Then eventually go up to a jog/run. Pace yourself, just be outside and the more you dance/walk around/swim the more you tone up. Try substituting tv time with dance time haha! Good luck! Any questions/comments/results please message me!:)
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age:14
gender:female
I think im in love with one of my best friends boyfreinds.. you see im extremely close to him and we talk all the time .. She treats him very very bad and he still loves her and i dont understand why.. It kills me to hear him tlell me how much he loves her but i dont want to losee him . i just idno im not the prettiest or skinniest girtl and i dont think i would ever have a chance with him .. plus hes head over heels for her but idont think she lovs him back..i dont know what to do
help please!
First off this is a sticky situation and you really need to think through your actions. If your best friend knew how you felt I'm sure she wouldn't be very thrilled, and this isn't typical "mom" advice but I wouldn't tell her. It will be better if she doesn't no because if she does know then it will just make things worse. Now I can't come up with a reason why this guy is still in love with her other than he is the kind of guy that wants a challenge. He is attracted to what he can't have. He is probably wanting and loving your bestfriend because he can't "have" her. I know this all sounds very confusing but stay with me haha! Now I don't know what kind of friendship you have with her but possibly you could say causally "do you love him?" I know that sounds strange but usually if girls are in love with someone they want to share it. Just keep being friends with him. I made the mistake one time in pushing forward and telling him how I felt but it only pushes him away honestly. Again just keep being friends with him. Eventually (could take a long time) he will get over her and if you are there still being friends he will think back and realize you have been there for him and you have treated him nicely. If he is the kind of guy that likes a challenge, and your friend and him do break up. Don't throw yourself at him, make him respect you and don't be afraid to make him work for it. Remember many guys like what they can't have. But this is if they breakup. I am conviniced that he will realize that he can have better! I'm sorry this advice is so very confusing but I tried to make it as simple as I could! Good Luck! Any questions or comments please feel free!
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so today my friend was supposed to kis sthe boy she likes right and lately he sbeen doing things that makes it seem like he like sher, but thiers a problme , today she didnt do it, and he was waiting outside the classroom and she was inside i went up to him and said listen i need to know. do you like her or what? he said only as a friend.!!!
now this girl is my bestfriend for life i tell her everything she tells me everything and so i told her what he said, but calmly and rationally i let her know he dosnt like her and she started crying,a nd now she is like really upset more upset then ive ever seen her, because she fell for this guy and hard but he was a jerk and lead her on. please help me in what i can do or say to her thank you
First off let me say that I feel terrible for your friend. It's happend to me and I think almost every girl in the world, sad but so true. There is no word or sentence that will make things automatically better, unfortantally, but you can be there for her. If she needs someone to walk her to class, or hang out with her then you can be there. I don't know your home situation or anything but maybe you could have her over and have a movie night. Have a theme like all disney movies/fairytales/classic/ comedies anything but love movies or chickflicks. In my experience it's going to be the hardest for her when she's in school. You did the right thing for telling her. Just be there for her and someday she is going to look back and say "Do you remember that jerk Bobby hahaha he was such a loser and he wasn't even that cute" and she will remember that you were there for her! Good luck! Feel free to comment or ask any questions!
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So theres this guy, lets call him S. And i really like him. But i dont know if he likes me. And i wanna ask him out but i wanna make sure theres a little bit of a chance he likes me. S is in my math class and he sits diagnally from me. And sometimes i catch him glance at me and when i go to look at him back he turns his attention to something else like the clock. He smiles at me a lot and laughs at a lot of stuff. And today this girl, L, that sits next to me at my table thing was like okay stop flirting you two, and he turned red. So does he like me, and should i ask him out? But like im really afraid to do it because i dont want L to know i asked him out since i dont really like her and she"ll make fun of me, so do you think itll be weird if i have J thats in his second hour ask him for me. And whats a way i could go about asking J to ask S out for me. Sorry its long and maybe a little confusing, but any help at all will be greatly appreciated. :].
Ok I am going to break out a hidden secret: look at S's feet when you are talking to him. I know this sounds crazy but studies tell that this is true. If his feet are point directly at you then you know he's interested, if you are in a group of say more than three girls and his feet are pointed at you then he likes you. If in math class his feet are pointed at you he likes you. Now it does sound like he does like you, and I underestand that you don't want L making fun of you but think of it this way if he doesn't like you and you ask him out then at least you'll know rather than never finding out! Good luck! Any questions or comments feel free to leave them! :)
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ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months and like we used to love eachother ALOT and i think we still do, well i do atleast, but i kind of feel like hes getting bored...like i feel like he doesn't like me as much as he used to and well like i just need some ideas to like still keep him interested and like have like alot of fun so please help thanks!
Well 11 months is a long time to be dating, the important thing in this situation is if you aren't having sex, then don't start to keep him interested. Despite if you both have fun its not ok to have a relationship with someone who you keep having to entertain. Thats not what love is. But having said that it is ok to spice up your romance. You should try new things, if you always go to the movies go to dinner instead. Or do something different like walk around town at night. This sounds cheesy but even playing cards is fun. But just do something where you can feel comfortable. When you are comfortable you have fun because your relaxed. If you get a chance tell me how it worked out! :) I hope I helped!
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