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my bestfriend is devestated.
so today my friend was supposed to kis sthe boy she likes right and lately he sbeen doing things that makes it seem like he like sher, but thiers a problme , today she didnt do it, and he was waiting outside the classroom and she was inside i went up to him and said listen i need to know. do you like her or what? he said only as a friend.!!!
now this girl is my bestfriend for life i tell her everything she tells me everything and so i told her what he said, but calmly and rationally i let her know he dosnt like her and she started crying,a nd now she is like really upset more upset then ive ever seen her, because she fell for this guy and hard but he was a jerk and lead her on. please help me in what i can do or say to her thank you
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First off let me say that you are a true friend for telling her instead of just letting him lead her on second off you have got 2 be there 4 her right now she if she is going through a hard time i know how it feels its a real let down also if she says she need you she really does need you also try 2 find her a nice boy that she really likes so she can get over him hope i helped
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i think the best thing you can do is try to find her a nice guy that makes her feel better, my experience is guy friend can cheer girls up better than girl friends can cheer girls up, i dont really know why. so just ask one of her nice guy friends to talk to her and tell her bad stuff about the guy she liked. try to keep her mind off of him and think about how it could be a good thing that she doesnt like him. list off all of his bad things like if hes an asshole or if he has cheated on GFs or something like that. anything to make her feel good about not liking him anymore and just talk to her about her favorite things to try to cheer her up. Its an alternate way but i hope it works
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First off let me say that I feel terrible for your friend. It's happend to me and I think almost every girl in the world, sad but so true. There is no word or sentence that will make things automatically better, unfortantally, but you can be there for her. If she needs someone to walk her to class, or hang out with her then you can be there. I don't know your home situation or anything but maybe you could have her over and have a movie night. Have a theme like all disney movies/fairytales/classic/ comedies anything but love movies or chickflicks. In my experience it's going to be the hardest for her when she's in school. You did the right thing for telling her. Just be there for her and someday she is going to look back and say "Do you remember that jerk Bobby hahaha he was such a loser and he wasn't even that cute" and she will remember that you were there for her! Good luck! Feel free to comment or ask any questions!
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