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i dont really have feelings for my boyfriend of three years anymore. I still like him and want to be friends, but I just don't LOVE him anymore. We hardly see eachother at all because we went to different schools this year. But the point is, I asked him today on the phone if he still liked me, and he said yeah. I also asked if he still liked me as much as before, and he said yeah. he also said he wanted to "give me something" on thursday so i should go see him. uhhhh help please because i really don't want to hurt his feelings and omg what if he wants to "give me" a kiss? (im 14/f by the way....and even though we've been going out for a while, we still havnt kissed yet). it would be kind of romantic in a way, but i just dont want it to be with him anymore. i used to, but he missed that time. i like someone else. Please help i really dont know what to do. Please don't just tell me "break up with him" because it's sooooo hard because i've known him for a while and I care about him sooooo much. Thanks.
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go see him. who knows, your feelings might come back. if they don`t, tell him the truth. the sooner the better, so he`s not too attatched. the sooner you do it, most likely the less it`ll hurt. just tell him you don`t feel the same anymore and either he`ll accept it, or he`ll try harder, which might help.
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I'm not going to tell you to break up with him. Actually I am going to tell you to go hang out with him on Thursday, if he kisses you and you still don't feel like your attracted to him then you should tell him. See what he says, he might be lying and feel the same way. Three years is along time. Alot of couples feel unattracted to eachother if they aren't being "active" I guess is the word. Maybe this kiss will make you attracted to him again! If not then you will no for sure that he isn't the guy you want to be with. But I wouldn't right away break up with him. Good luck! :)
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