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Location: Florida
Age: 15
Member Since: December 25, 2003
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Last Update: December 21, 2004
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if my neighbor came over andh e was on my trampoline and i was in the spa and he kept like talking and showing off and looking at me does that mean he likes me??? shouldi tell him i like him or ask him how he feels about girls or what??? (link)
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Looks like he might like you. But who else was there with you? I mean.. if it was just you and him then it kind of makes sense for him to look at you if you were the only one to talk to.
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how can i tell a boy i like him (he is my neighbor)with out anyone finding out like his mom cuz she doesnt liek him having any girlfriends or stuff like that and she doesnt want me ot tel him that i like him cuz she says that we are"good friends right now" (link)
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Go out somewhere together and tell him then. His mom doesn't necessarily need to know.
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OK today my ex and I had sex and like he went all the way this time.. Im 16 and hes 19 but it was un protected.. he likes this other girl that i truly hate but he tells me he will never leave me ever.. she doesnt like him but like i jsut dont know what to do (link)
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You should trust him then. But what confuses is me is when you say that he will never leave you, isn't he your ex? Hasn't he already left you? Please clarify that first.
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if your boyfreind was wearing a condum could you still get pregnat i mean does the sperm go through the condum? (link)
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If the condom breaks then yes you could get pregnant. But condom's go through rigorous testing first to assure they don't break. But once in a while one will break.
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one of my friends just had a fight with his best friend and i dont know what to do, theyve been best friends for so long and i hate to see him mad, ive gone through this and i dont want it to happen to him to, how can i fix it? (link)
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Well.. maybe you could set the two up somewhere and find a way to get them to get along... or actually.. maybe you could just not do that behind my back because I don't care. I honestly have no problem with breaking off that friendship, it was dying slowly and I think we just pretty muched rushed its demise. So..
1)who is this?
2)don't even try.. because I don't care..
3)I appreciate that you care about me and are trying to put it back together, but I don't want this friendship anymore
So next time, just don't even bother asking ME for advice on my own problem.
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some of my good friends go to a different school. recently, one of them met a friend that goes to my school. i'm scared that they'll be best friends and lock me out. What should I do? (link)
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They wouldn't do that to you if they're really your friends. If they make an attempt, then just talk to them.
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OK, yesterday, I was in my bedroom and I was getting my journal out to write in it and i couldn't find my pencil, then i saw it on the table and it was too far for me to reach it and when I was stretching my arm to get it, it moved into my hand. My window wasn't open so that rules out wind. Am I telekenisis? (link)
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Well.. you can't be "telekinesis".. lol.. get that right. Its are you telekinetic. Ok anyway.. if nothing else can explain it. Then yes you might be telekinetic. Maybe you knocked the table a little. Sometimes when I stomp in my house a table will shake because the ground is unsturdy. But if there is no other explanation then you could possibly be telekinetic.
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OK, this is really hard to explain but when I was in 2nd grade, (6 years ago) My dad got into a car accident that wasn't his fault. Because of that, his back has never been the same, he wasn't able to do as much fun stuff with me and my siblings. When I was in 5th grade, (4 years ago) Dad's lawyer tryed to sue the guy in the truck that slammed into him. The guy in the trucks lawyers did some things that I don't like. They followed us around to try to find out if Dad was really hurt or not and they sent guys to watch our house with video cameras. Since I live out really deep in the woods, I would get dressed in my bedroom with the windows not shaded. It turns out they were watching me the whole time. It's been 3 years and I keep thinking that they messed up my life. And I feel guilty that my dad had to go through that. It was the first time I saw him cry. What should I do?
-Violated (link)
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If they've been spying on you, you can sue them. It's an invasion of personal privacy. Other than that, there really is nothing much you can do. Just try to move on past that, it's over now. What's done is done, and it can be hard to move on, but there's nothing else much you can do. You might also be able to sue for emotional damages though.
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When I was going out with my ex boyfriend,*Greg me and his best friend were sort of into each other.Actually really into each other. It turned out Mike was going out with someone else so I dumped him. After that Mike made sure that me and his friend didn't hook up. I was avoiding Mike, so he made sure whenever I was talking to him that he was in the situation. It got uncomfortable for us to be together. So I haven't seen or talked to the friend,*Marc for a while. But I can't get him out of my head. I really miss him, and I can't stop thinking about him.However I know it would hurt Greg if I went out with MArc,and I don't want to hurt him since he sounds sorry for what he did. But I'm still lusting after Marc...what do I do? (link)
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If you really love Marc that much then don't let Greg interfere with it. So just follow your heart.
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my parents got divorced a year ago and ever since my mom has always been trying to do stuff with me. My only free days of the week are wednesday and sunday..and now she wants to have dinner both those nights. I feel like everything I do with her is scheduled. What should I tell her to make it not feel like she had to make an effort to see me? (link)
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Explain to her that you love her no matter what, and that she doesn't have to keep scheduling times to see you because you will still see her on your own free will.
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I'M MOVING BUT THE GUY I LUV STILL LIVES HERE AND I AM MOVING TO CANADA BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO? (link)
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WHY ARE YOU TYPING IN CALL CAPS?
WELL IF YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOUR MOM LIKE YOU SAID THEN IT SEEMS TO ME THAT YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE A CHOICE. SO JUST TRY TO STAY IN CONTACT WITH HIM.
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I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused (link)
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That's similar to what I went through. But then I started to fight for myself and people started respecting me more once I showed them that I'm not as weak as they thought I was. Next time they make fun of you, just ignore them. If they keep doing it, then say something back. That's how I earned my respect, by fighting for myself!
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There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do? (link)
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Just tell the boy you don't like him back. I mean.. he probably hasn't realized that and it's probably why he keeps calling.
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MY BF IS MOVING OUT OF STATE AND I LUV HIM SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! I CANT STAND NOT BEING AROUND HIM AND I WAS GOING TO ASK HIM IF HE LUVS ME! WE TELL EACH OTHER WE LUV EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE MEANS IT I AM REALLY SCARED HE IS GOING TO MEET ANOTHER GIRL! I LUV HIM AND HE SAID HE COULD STAY IF HE WANTS BUT HE WOULD HAVE TO STAY WITH HIS UNCLE. BUT HE REALLY WANTS TO GO! I DONT THINK HE CARES ABOUT ME! WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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WHY ARE YOU TYPING IN CALL CAPITALS? IT'S ANNOYING!..
WELL THERE'S NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT. IF YOUR FRIEND IS MOVING AND HAS NO CHOICE THEN THERE'S NOTHING ELSE TO DO. YOU CAN'T CHANGE THAT. SO JUST TRY TO STAY IN CONTACT.
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MY BEST FRIEND IS MOVING TO NEW YORK AND I AM ACROSS THE U.S. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
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There's nothing you can do. Just keep in touch with her via E-Mail, Mail, Phone, etc.
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I am in love with this boy Joey. He is in 8th grade and I am in 6th and he will be leaving for high- school soon. I don't want him to leVE BUT i DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL HIM BEFORE HE LEAVES. i WANT TO HUG HIM AND TELL HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL BUT I DON'TR WANT TO BE EMBARRESED
WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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Seriously.. why would you care about being embarrased? I mean.. you're hardly going to see the boy anymore and all you care about is being embarrased?
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my boi likes me alot and i like him alot but i like someone eles also and he knows what should i do? (link)
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Well which one would you rather have in your life? Plus do you even know if that other boy likes you back..?
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my friend is obsessed with a guy 2 years older than her. i know he's not there for her. What should i tell her? (link)
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Age shouldn't matter much in a relationship. But if you really tink it's bad, then just tell her exactly what you said in your question.
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I want to go out with a guy!I love him but he only wants to be friends with me what should I do! I think he likes my friend and I am really confused? (link)
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You can't always get what you want. So if you can't date him, then just be his friend. It's better then nothing.
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I am caught in a love triangle I like 2 guys that go to my school they are both my friends but I don't know what to do Who should I choose. THe person my age or the 8th grader?Plese help (link)
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Age really shouldn't matter. It should just be whom you think you could picture yourself better with.
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