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Can't get him out of my head
When I was going out with my ex boyfriend,*Greg me and his best friend were sort of into each other.Actually really into each other. It turned out Mike was going out with someone else so I dumped him. After that Mike made sure that me and his friend didn't hook up. I was avoiding Mike, so he made sure whenever I was talking to him that he was in the situation. It got uncomfortable for us to be together. So I haven't seen or talked to the friend,*Marc for a while. But I can't get him out of my head. I really miss him, and I can't stop thinking about him.However I know it would hurt Greg if I went out with MArc,and I don't want to hurt him since he sounds sorry for what he did. But I'm still lusting after Marc...what do I do?
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First let me get this straight....Mike=Greg, correct?
Greg hurt you first. He's over with, done. If you hurt him now, that's his own problem. He shouldn't be able to stop you from going out with his friend. Sure, he might be mad for awhile, but I suggest going out with Marc. If you both feel strongly for each other, it could work out to be a great relationship. Greg doesn't deserve to have your love, and he most definitley doesn't reserve the right to push you around.
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If Greg is really a friend, then he should at least try to understand if you do decide to go out with Marc.
No...wait. Your question was worded kind of weird, and now I'm pathetically confused. A bit too much chocolate I think.
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Let's see if I understand this:
You were going out with Guy #1 (Mike?). Guy#2 (Greg?) is Guy#1's best friend. Guy#1 went out with someone else while you were going out with him. So you dumped him. But you were going out with Guy#2 at the same time as you were going out with Guy#1 anyway. (Who is Marc?) Guy#1 tried to be sure that you and Guy#2 didn't get together, but you want to go with Guy#2. You think Guy #1 is sorry for going out with someone else and will be hurt if you go out with Guy#2. Your question is what should you do?
Forget them both and get a hobby.
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What should you do? I think you should stop lusting and learn how to love and to be loved. I hope you know what lust means. There's too many men involved in your life. Take a break from all this and start life anew. Have more respect for yourself and don't get involved with too many guys because this would make you look like a slut. If you have that impression from other guys, they wouldn't take you seriously and would just lust after you. If a guy really likes you and respects you, they would go after you themselves instead of the other way around.
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If you really love Marc that much then don't let Greg interfere with it. So just follow your heart.
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Hey, has he proved he has changed? Probably not its just words. I say go out with your friend who knows what might happen. ANd a guy who cheats on you isn't worth your time you are better than that.
Cspinoza1
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Follow your heart. If you really love Marc you wont care what Greg thinks. Maybe talk to them.
-shay :-)
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