about

* hey, my name is Alex.

* i am 16 years young.

* i'm an easy to talk too person.

* i do have a boyfriend that i love with all my heart.

* there's nothing that can describe me completely

* barely make typos.

* when you personally ask me for advice, i read and re-read and try to put myself in your situation to see what i would do :) i try my best, honestly!


I'm only here to give you my honest advice &+ to help others, it's either take it or leave it.

i honestly could care less about my feedback, although it does help me know how to improve myself on giving others advice.


ATTENTION:
if i have added you onto my favorite columns, that means i love your personality and/or your advice is extremely good.

i am like everyone else, i'll come to a point where i will get on this site and search for some advice as well. so, for those who are on my favorites, i'll turn to you when i need a little advice.

BUT... I do delete those who haven't updated in over 3-5 months.


Thank you :)

advice

how do you give a hickie?

You suck on your partners body part (the neck is the most popular body part I know of.)

They suck on it for a couple seconds and they leave a red mark. After having it there for a while it turns purple (making it look like a bruise.)

But mostly it lasts for about a week.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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that song is about death, right?

haha sorry i have difficult a time reading inbetween the lines.

I think the song is about death. Probably they lost someone close to them and they miss them. lol! that's what just my opionion.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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can anyone tell me the website for myspace code that will hide the stuff under my headline? THANS!

http://www.whateverlife.com/hiding.php

http://www.createblog.com/scripts/index.php?tag=Hide&type_id=

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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what are some websites where i can make a GOOD custom top8, that actually workss. thanks

http://r4wr.com/friends/

that is the only good place i know that are actually GOOD.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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ive seen a couple people wit flying birds on myspace and i was just wonderin where they got them?? if n e one knows please tell me thanks so much

Flying birds on MySpace? Haha, that's pretty funny. You should be a little more specific on what you mean by 'flying birds.' you mean cursors, falling objects, etc..?

Well, I don't know. All I want to know is who has flying birds on their myspace.

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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My boyfriend and I recently had sex. It being my first time, I thought my cherry would pop.. but it didn't. Should I be worried at all?

No, you shouldn't worry at all.

Some girls DON'T get their cherry popped the first time they have sex. Maybe because his penis didn't go in all the way or he might have been gentle and not shove it in. But your cherry will pop eventually.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I had my period on november 1st and now it is january 13 and i havent gotten my period. Lately i have been having the worst back aches and the last two days i had light cramping that only lasted like 6 min or less and a few headaches but not spotting. Could i be pregnant and how far would i be if i was. i need adv please help
....i took a pregnancy test and it came out neg but it was very very very light i could barely seee it what should i do i havent gotten my period

You should read the box you bought your pregnancy test otherwise the best thing you should do is go see a doctor and see what's going on.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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does it hurt when having sex for the first time???

Yes it does. It hurts the first couple times and you also bleed. Don't worry though, that means your cherry popped (In case you didn't know)

After you start having sex for a while it won't hurt as much as it did the first couple times you started.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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can you not flush a tampon?? like the cotton part?

All I know is that you can flush a condom down the toilet, but I'm not really sure about a Tampon.

The best thing you can do is just read the box and see whether or not you can or cannot flush it down. Not all tampons are the same.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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omg i love how some people pose on their pictures on myspace like some people only have half their face on the picture and some people like pose looking up like they were holding the camera above their head and they take a whole body picture that shows their shoes. They're really cute pics and i was wondering how some people do that. One of my friends on myspace has a picture of her hugging her legs or something like that and she's looking down on the camera. So did she put the camera on the floor and took the picture? I mean they're sooo cute and i wannt know how they took a picture with those poses. Thanks

I think maybe you should ask your friend what kind of poses and angles she uses. Maybe she can give you some tips!

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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when you give a guy a blow job and the cum goes in your mouth? do u spit it out? or swallow it? if you use a condom, does the cum still go in ur mouth.?..can you get an std from it?? hehe thanks soo much!

I asked my boyfriend the SAME thing.

He said once it gets in your mouth, the cum automatically dies when it hits water, so it can't do anything bad to you and it doesn't matter whether you swallow or spit. Whatever you perfer not what your boyfriend wants you to do.

I don't think using a condom would be a good idea, though, it is safe to keep you from getting an STD but besides that condoms smell nasty and most likely would taste nasty too.

There is a possibitly that you CAN get an STD from giving a guy a blow job so I think you should ask the person if he's ever had this done to him before you'll never know, he CAN be lying.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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my best friend's grandmother is dying...what do i do...i dont want to see her sad :(

Well... you can't exactly do anything to help her. Everyone has to die someday.

But the best thing you CAN do is cheer her up, hang out at your house, make plans. Then maybe the two of you can hang out with her grandmother (that is if she's not in the hospital) and have a great time.

Most importantly, be there for her. She's lucky to have a friend who cares.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I txt msg to the guy I like (he knows I like him, and i'm not sure if he likes me) to go out last friday night. No respond, no call, nada. After 5 days, he sent me a txt msg said he was sick that night and didn't feel going out.

I guess it's good to know, but after all this time, he all the sudden thinks he SHOULD tell me he couldn't make it?!

WHY did he wait this long to explain to me he couldn't make it on friday???

He most likely has forgotten since he's been sick for the past 5 days you sent him the text message.

At least he called back, right? Make plans with him some other time when he's feeling better.

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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there are soo many sex questions on here, but i kind of need some like...different p.o.v's on this:

i've been sexually active since like june 06, but my cherry didn't pop [i think]. i tried doing it myself, because i didn't want anyone else to. in december, i had sex with my bf, but this time, it kinda hurt. then again in december, [new years] i did again...and i hurt a little more. then a few days ago, it hurt the worst, and i bled...did he pop my cherry? i mean, i'm close to my period, but i don't have it yet...so idk what's going on. i also quit using birth control abruptly....help?

Yes, if his penis entered you and you started bleeding afterwards, then yes he popped your cherry meaning you are NOT a virgin.

And sex does hurt the FIRST couple times but then after a while it won't hurt as much and it won't bleed (as much).

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I was taking my usual ballet class...and while doing a split...I felt pain in *that* area. I'm 15 btw. I went to the bathroom to see what was going on...And I started to bleed...and was sore and that *area* hurt. But it wasn't my period. Because the time didn't come yet. Could it be possible that my cherry has "popped" un-sexually? (I haven't ever engaged in sex). Does this mean I'm not a virgin anymore? ;_;

It says on http://www.dictionary.com

"vir·gin [noun] -- 1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse."

That means, yes you are still a virgin even if you started bleeding in that "area." You're NOT a virgin if a penis has entered your vagina.

I suggest you go see a doctor for this.

Hope I helped :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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okay me and my boyfriend are getting pretty intamite but i dont know. im not really comfortable with my body like not too skinny or fat but like my boobs and down there. like idk to me i think that it looks gross and like i dont want to get intamite with him and be like gross. i shave down there and i have b sized boobs but like idk do guys find it gross or no cus i know i find there stuff gross haha.

Most guys don't find it 'gross' whethere you shave it 'down there' or not.

Other guys find it more better if you did. But other than that you shouldn't start shaving it down there just for a guy.

When it comes to guys, they most likely not care what size your boobs are. So, having a 'B' sized boobs are probably a deffinate turn on for him.

If you are not comfortable for him seeing or touching those places. Just try telling him. Don't let him take control over you.

Hope I helped. :)
-MADLYxINxLOVE

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well on this site i answered a persons question and even elaborated on it and they gave me a 2 what is that?

It's probably because they found your advice not helpful or had enough information for them, had nothing to do to wha they were asking or just possibly something they didn't want to hear.

Hope I helped. :)
MADLYxINxLOVE

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ugh. whenever i upload my really nice quality pictures into Photobucket to post on my livejournal, they get really blurry/fuzzy and its so frustrating! anything i can do?

Just use:
http://www.tinypic.com

It's a lot better and easier to use. You don't have to sign up in order to upload a picture. But on tinypic you can upload as much as you want.

Hope I helped. :)
-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I had my period on november 1st and now it is january 13 and i havent gotten my period. Lately i have been having the worst back aches and the last two days i had light cramping that only lasted like 6 min or less and a few headaches but not spotting. Could i be pregnant and how far would i be if i was. i need adv please help

I have to agree with the person below. Just think back and question yourself. 'Have I had sex in the past two months?"

If yes, you most likely might be pregnant. To be sure, go to a drug store and get tested.

Hope I helped. :)
-MADLYxINxLOVE

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I dont know exactly how to put a pic into my advice column. I try to upload a pic from my digital camera but it says that the file size is too big. what does that mean and can anybody tell me how to do it.

I had the same exact problem.
What I did was upload a picture from:

http://www.photobucket.com

and upload a photo of you. Then when the picture is loaded copy the LINK to it and simply paste it "URL of a picture of you:"

Hope I helped. :)
-MADLYxINxLOVE

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