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virginity?


Question Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 11:23 am

there are soo many sex questions on here, but i kind of need some like...different p.o.v's on this:

i've been sexually active since like june 06, but my cherry didn't pop [i think]. i tried doing it myself, because i didn't want anyone else to. in december, i had sex with my bf, but this time, it kinda hurt. then again in december, [new years] i did again...and i hurt a little more. then a few days ago, it hurt the worst, and i bled...did he pop my cherry? i mean, i'm close to my period, but i don't have it yet...so idk what's going on. i also quit using birth control abruptly....help?

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MADLYxINxLOVE answered Thursday January 18 2007, 4:22 pm:
Yes, if his penis entered you and you started bleeding afterwards, then yes he popped your cherry meaning you are NOT a virgin.

And sex does hurt the FIRST couple times but then after a while it won't hurt as much and it won't bleed (as much).

Hope I helped. :)

-MADLYxINxLOVE

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Xenolan answered Thursday January 18 2007, 12:58 pm:
He probably did "pop" you. When you have sex, that's bound to happen eventually, so there you have it.

However, there's something of greater concern here, which is that you went off your birth control. Whether you can get pregnant or not has nothing to do with whether your hymen is intact - whether it is or not, you can still conceive. Get tested for pregnancy and get back on the BC if you intend to be sexually active!

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Brandi_S answered Thursday January 18 2007, 12:56 pm:
The phrase "popping the cherry" is a slang for breaking the hymen. I promise you, your "cherry was popped" the very first time you had sexual intercourse.
It isn't this big gushing of blood or painful thing as it sounds to be, as a general rule.

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