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ok last valentines day my b/f took me to buy a puppy. i wanted the first one i saw a little pekinese puppy. i was purebred so he paid 900.00 for the dog. i've never had a dog before just cats and i didn't know what i was getting myself into. now i can't stand the dog. i can't train it to go to the bathroom outside, its super hyper, jumps on my son and tries to hump him. i can't imagine how much it would cost to fix him. i want to get rid of the dog but my b/f doesn't. we're constantly fighting about it. any suggestions on what to do?
How about giving it to a friend/family member...you never know!
okay i've been telling this guy i like him and he's been showing interest! one of my good friend's says he likes me because well she talked to him! and everyone in my class is telling me that he likes me! we are talking more and i aam getting to know him better! any ideas for him and i to move forward and maybe move into a relationship?! people say i flirt like crazy and especially him! what else can i do?!
Say...everyone had been saying that you like...and well...do you? I was just wondering
I am an 11 year old 6th grader, and i have these 2 really close friends. I try my best to sastify them, I really do! And they are nice to me, but sometimes it just feels like we're not as close anymore! Like when they go places, they ask other people, but rarely me. Sometimes they tend to ignore me. It's not like they pretend they hear nothing when I talk, but they dont really listen to what I say. Don't take me the wrong way, here! They are GREAT friends, but how do i make our relationship better? One of my friends has a guy liking her, and she denies that she likes him but she spends waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more time talking to me about how "annoying" he is than to me about us. My other friend, i'm not sure if she likes me anymore. I constantly ask them if I am being mean or annoying, but they always say I am not. Please give me advice on how we can get a stronger relationship, how I can find out if they think I am being a bad friend and how to become a better friend. Thanks!!! :-D p.s. i already have many diaries, but they never help.
I am very flattered that you picked me to answer your question! I know exactly, I mean exactly, how you feel! Diaries don't work for me either!
First off, don't ask them if you're being annoying, that IS annoying :) Next, invite them over more, or if you see them all the time take a break from them. You might be getting tired of eachother! Don't totally ignor her, but trying getting some new friends. After a little bit, get a little par-tayyy going with your new friends and old. See if they still ignor you. I so just ask me again and I'll ill you up with more suggestions! :) Good Luck!
Theres this boy I like, Zach. I only met him once and that was at my almost but now ex-almost-boyfriend. My ex-almost-boyfriend-and-now-ex-friend(Lets call him MEABANEF) Well, MEABANEF had a birthday party and thats where I met Zach. MEABANEF paid no attention to me hardly and only to his ex-girlfriend who is now his girlfriend. Zach did pay attention to me though. A lot. And in a flirty way. Like, when I fell asleep, coming downstairs a lot to try and wake me up so I wouldn't miss out on stuff. Just basically paying me a lot of attention and in more flirty ways as time went on.(Oh, yes, I fell asleep at MEABANEF's party. It was so much fun, I just couldn't stay awake) So I got his(Zach) screenname and I've been talking to him but I'm not sure if he likes me. We exchanged phone numbers and we plan on chillin together at the mall some time with a few other people but I just don't know how to tell him I like him. I seriously want to and I'm very outgoing with these things but theres a problem with this one. If it turned out he didn't like me, and he started trying to not be around me so much anymore/talk to me much anymore. I would never see him or talk to him because we go to different schools. So, I'm not quite sure what I want or should do. I just know I really want to go out with him and I think this boy is a good choice, I just need help going about getting him.
Well, if you think he was flirting with you that's a good sign. Odds are he feels the same way so just give off hints first...hope this helps!
I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!
OMG! I used to have the same problem! Just realize, they don't really care and half of them are just starring @ the clock! Give yourself some pride and it'll be a breeze!
It's almost xmas, and I don't have any gifts for my family. And worse of all, I can't go out and get gifts for them because I'm broke. Does anyone have any ideas how I can "make" a gift for my family? [I have one bro, 19, two parents, age unknown, and one sister, age 21.] If anyone could think of creative fun things I could make out of house hold items, I'd love you forever.
--Giftless
It's past Christmas but I'll tell you anyways!
For the 19 year old bro.-Get a cute picture of you two together (or take one) and make a cutsey but still guyish (i lovr those terms!) Frame. Takes about 15 minutes
For you 21 year old sis.-Look and see if she has a theme to her room. Base your gift around that...you gotta be creative on this one!
For the parents-With you siblings and scissors and construction paper in tow, make a mini photo album of yuo family together. Not only will they love it, but they can look back on it every year!
Well, my brother told me that if you put up blue christmas lights it meant that you were Jewish. So does anyone know if this is true or is my brother smoking something? Thanks!!
xo_sherry_ox
I rate 5's!
Uh...no that's not true. I personnally like just red/green/clear lights...but any other color realllllllly doesn't matter!
i have a sore on the inside of my lip is there any way to make it go away of do i just have to put up with it until it goes away itself?
Just leave it alone. DO NOT TOUCH IT! Try avoid chewing on that side because it will not only iritate you but also your sore. That's all I know and I hope it helps!
what is a birthday suit?
It's when you don't have any clothes on...haha. They call it that cus when you were first born you were naked. :) LOL!
i'll try to make this short. my brother was overseas in the army for three years. he came back in august. i've only seen him a couple of times since he's been back. the problem is we used to be so close and now he's just so weird. he won't talk to me. i went over for thanksgiving and he ate in a room all by himself. i felt bad and went in there to keep him company and as soon as i sat down he walked out of the room. he wouldn't even say hi to me or the rest of the family for that matter. i have to see him tommorow for christmas. should i ignore him or try to talk to him. he shuts me out everytime i try. any help would be great thanks.
Just keep on being friendly! Obviously somethings going on with him...but it won't last forever! You can't change him, you can only control yourself.
OK today is Christmas and my dad got drunk.Well my mom and him were arguing and my dad sometime hits my mom well I have a brother he's 17 and today he had enough and my brother went and hit him then they began fighting and alot of mess started.I don't know what to do or even think and my brother is leaving to the Army I'm really confused plz helm I'm 14/f.
You have wayyy too much on your plate! Not only is someone leaving you, but almost seems like your whole family is going hawire! (No offense!) As I say to everybody, start a journal. Write in it everyday or night, telling your story. I hope everything works out! Good Luck!
Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts.
You should not be in the middle! You're probably atleast 13 or older which means you've been cutting yourself for too long! Restrict yourself from the knife. Introduce yourself to people your age. Maybe even start a journal! Also, try telling somebody that DOES have power. You deserve way better! Good Luck!
ok, at my dads house my brother and sister constantly make fun of me. last night they kept calling me a pig, and a special ed. and they will pysically abuse me sometimes. and they call me "g" casue i listen to rap music. and they like sing a song about me eating all the time. they are really mean. and i don't do anthing to them, and i tell my dad and he sazys either, i start it or get over it, or say something back, but when i say something back he says i start it!! what do i do?? please help!
AW! You do not deserve that! Save up money, and start seeing a therapist-I'm dead serious! You do NOT deserve this! Also, for the time being try do just ignor them and start a journal. Good luck!