I am an 11 year old 6th grader, and i have these 2 really close friends. I try my best to sastify them, I really do! And they are nice to me, but sometimes it just feels like we're not as close anymore! Like when they go places, they ask other people, but rarely me. Sometimes they tend to ignore me. It's not like they pretend they hear nothing when I talk, but they dont really listen to what I say. Don't take me the wrong way, here! They are GREAT friends, but how do i make our relationship better? One of my friends has a guy liking her, and she denies that she likes him but she spends waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more time talking to me about how "annoying" he is than to me about us. My other friend, i'm not sure if she likes me anymore. I constantly ask them if I am being mean or annoying, but they always say I am not. Please give me advice on how we can get a stronger relationship, how I can find out if they think I am being a bad friend and how to become a better friend. Thanks!!! :-D p.s. i already have many diaries, but they never help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? LiLQTPiE8505 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 9:29 pm: I am very flattered that you picked me to answer your question! I know exactly, I mean exactly, how you feel! Diaries don't work for me either!
First off, don't ask them if you're being annoying, that IS annoying :) Next, invite them over more, or if you see them all the time take a break from them. You might be getting tired of eachother! Don't totally ignor her, but trying getting some new friends. After a little bit, get a little par-tayyy going with your new friends and old. See if they still ignor you. I so just ask me again and I'll ill you up with more suggestions! :) Good Luck! [ LiLQTPiE8505's advice column | Ask LiLQTPiE8505 A Question ]
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