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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F.

I think you're lying, because you chickened out.

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Maybe you can take a bunch of prescription pills. If you don't die, you can get your stomach pumped, and live. It's not doing anything physical to yourself.

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what are some healthy ways i can relieve stress? besides eating. I have a habit to eat everything in site when i am stressed. but i dont gain anything. maybe that is why. im 15 and weigh 90 lbs. so, i need a healthier way to relieve stress. what is a good way to relieve stress when i am at school? because i cant eat everything in sight at school. an average lunch i take in 450 calories. Not today! i was under a whole lot of stress and i took in about 900! so yeah. i need a healthy way to relieve stress other than eating!

Personally, I like to go running. The endorphins which kick in when you run make you feel good, if you do it right...ie not killing yourself. It's awesome, because the stree becomes eustress, and something positive happens...like getting more healthy.

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I went mountain climbing awhile ago and it wasn't a pleasant experience. To the point: I have these really ugly scars on my leg now...how do I get rid of them? x_x

Personally, I would recomment vitamin E gel pills, and breaking them and rubbing them over the surface scars. For future reference I'd invest in some neosporin, because it is actually effective. Just apply it shortly after you get the cut.

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ok i straighten my hair alotttt. anyone have any good conditioners or shampoos that help your hair from such damage

Well, I don't know of any specific shampoos or conditioners, but when I straighten my hair, I apply a product by Matix, that helps moisturize the hair. You spray it in your hair just before you straighten, but after you dry it, and it locks in the moisture so when you do let it warm up it stays in the hair.

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I have applied for at least 50 jobs, I have got refused or no response at all. I need advice, what am i doing wrong?

I don't know.
I have the same problem.

Have you tried following up?

Go to the place you've applied and be like "Hi my name's _____. I applied here the other day, and I was wondering if you've had time to look at my application..."

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Hi i like some bands..
no doubt, save ferris, what other good ska bands are there?
will ratte

Less Than Jake's a really good one.

Buck o Nine,
the Scofflaws,
Skankin' Pickle,
Sublime,
the Voo Doo Glow Skulls,

Ska is like Reggae only more upbeat, and it's more danceable than punk.

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toothpaste removes dark circles?

actually, i believe it's preparation h.

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I need advice on how I can start a petition. I need to know how I officially and legally start it and who do I present it to. How do I organize it? As you can see from my title, the purpose of the petition would be to have some sort of ruling against out-ruling the pledge of allegiance in schools or changing it.

Anyways, do you think because of 'under God' that after over 200 years, the pledge should be changed or withdrawn from any school. Why or why not? Thanks in advance.

Actually president Eisenhower added "Under God" to the pledge, so get the facts straight.

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My boyfriend of eight months nearly always wants sex. I've got a strong libido too but it bugs me that he will try to initiate sex every time I enter my bedroom. Sometimes we have guests over, or it’s the middle of the afternoon and I have other things to be doing. Sometimes he'll start tugging my clothes off while the door is still open! We can't even sit through a whole movie without him trying to undress me.

I'm sick of feeling guilty when I shut him down. And He always acts so hurt by it! But I have other things to do with my life besides sex. Does anyone have any ideas how I can make him see that this just isn’t appropriate? I know he loves me and isn’t just in it for the sex, but it’s really pissing me off.

There isn't really anything to do except slap his hand, and be stern.

I'm a guy, and I've done that many of times. It's just ... nature. Men were put here to plant their seed.

Just lay out the ground rules for him.
Tell him if he's as persistent as he is now, he'll lose what he already gets.

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Well for about 2 weeks so far I've been skipping breakfast and lunch and only eating a snack and dinner.My wrists are really skinny but my moms are 2.And my friends are really worried about me.They're always trying to shove food down my throat.What could happen to me if I keep eating this way?

Actually, you'll become heavier. Your metabolism will become slower, and the foods you do eat will be stored much more conservatively. Sumo wrestlers actually get fat from eating very little contrary to popular belief...but I've been on this eating schedule for seven years...and honestly, if you eat nutritiously, nothing bad will happen to you. Just stay active to counteract the sumo effect.

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i got this shirt and it says "better forget it cause you'll never get it" ..is that a bad shirt, would people think im wierd?

You'll out grow this shirt as you get older.

Personally, I think it's kind of cheesey.

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hey this is kinda embarassing but im 18 and im a virgin! most girls my age have lost there virginitys at age 14! i feel so lonley and left out! so i lie and say im not! its not that i cant find someone its just that im so picky! i want it to be special and want to be in love! wat should i do? should i lose it with some guy i dont know? or wait for the special one? and is this wiered? i really need some advice! i lie to so many ppl and i feel bad! i want to be honest with my friends but im to embarassed!
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babyll873

All those people that say wait til marriage are lame...OVER half of marriages now days end in divorce. If you wind up getting one is your husband really that special? Seriously? Then you're going to play the field, maybe get married again, and then what? Your virginity's gone. You can't offer it to this new man you want to spend the rest of your life with.

I say find some guy and do it. Virginities overrated. It's just something to make yourself feel good about not having sex. Lots of people use it to make themselves seem holier than thou, when they're not.

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How do you naturally just "ask" someone out ot to hmcming?

btw, 13/f

"Wanna go to home coming?

Voila.

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Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.

We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?.

Go for it, dude.

No teenage boy has really ever had that offer before.

I sure haven't. Well, if she's not on the pill, slap her upside the head (seriously) and tell her to grow up, because you don't make immature brash decisions that affect the rest of your life so hastily.

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is it ok to make out with a retainer will it be any differnt do you think the guy will notice?

Hell, I used to make out with my retainer and it was no biggy. I mean just take proper care of it and you won't have any problems. You can't feel it.

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my dad says that i can not get a straightner because it will ruin my hair and i will have disgusting hair when i get older and its just really bad for my hair. hes like "you can get the same effect by blow drying it" but i know that you cant because he has this picture in his mind of when i blow dried my hair a certain way once and it was SOOOOO puffy and ugly so i just put it up. and thats what hes thinking of! im like "no dad thats not it! my hair looks soo much different and better when its straightend! it is my hair and ill pay for it with my own money" he just gave me a look like he mite consider it. but i dont know, how can i he sure?

There are certain products that you can put in your hair, there's one by Matix you can get at trade secret, and it adds moisture into your hair so when you straighten your hair, it doesn't become as damaged.

Pomade will help eliminate the frizzies and fly aways that are caused by straightening.

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Is there any way on Myspace to change the friends you have on your main page?! Thanks! i Rate!

Actually there is. It requires awesome HTML skills, and it's best not to be attempted by noobz, because it will delete the comments off of your page.

There's a custom friends generator somewhere out there. I've seen many people use it, but it stretches the pictures. Try googling it.

Edit-

Nevermind. On your MAIN page, the one that says "Hello *name*" where you check your messages, and stuff, you cannot change that.

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If a guy is trying to avoid me should I still try to talk to him?

I'd say he doesn't wanna talk to you, and doesn't want to talk to you, he probably doesn't even care about space, or else he'd say "I'd like some time alone."

Of course, this is ... coming from a guy who avoids a lot of girls.

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i have limewire and i think it screwed my computer up.. my computer doesnt work that well AT ALL .. so do you think limewire is makeing my computer mess up? should i delete it? or if its not limewire.. what is it

With many peer to peer applications one can proccur many viruses, because the files one may take can often be infected with viruses. Many people just share files that have malicious codes just to be jerks. It's very possible that you got it from a file you got off of lime wire. Personally, I'd uninstall lime wire, and run a viral protection program. If that doesn't work then you'll probably have to reboot your entire computer, and wipe it clean.

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I am 15 my bf is 16. I know he doesn't have a lot of money and I was wondering, do you think it is OK if I offer to pay sometimes? I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him mad. Should I ask him about it?

Heck, offer to pay all the time. He'll enjoy it.

I appreciate that.

I mean if he paid all the time, that'd make him the dominant one in the relationship, and you wouldn't want that would you?

So just make it a level playing ground ya know?

Guys know girls like to pay sometimes so it shouldn't be a biggie.

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