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ok im 17 f ny anyways Every winter on wednesdays i hae ski club after school ....go snowboarding and what not and anyways i called a babysitting ad in the paper because right now I work at a hotel and can onli work weekends because of school and the hours so I wanted more money and I love kids....I love babysitting so anyways the lady called and said the babysitting job is on tues wed thurs after school for a 2 yr old boy which i think woud be super fun ...shes paying about 3 dollars and hour but ifi babysit i cant go boarding on wednesday i can still go on weekends and stuff but i dont kno what to do (link)
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OK i would do the babysitting. Most teens love havign extra money to spend, Like me! Liek you said you can go on the weekends just get all your friends to go on the weekends with you. Have fun! i bet you'll have lotsa fun 2 year olds are soo funny and cute!
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I'm sorry if this is a little long...
There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.
The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.
My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?
Thanks (link)
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OmG i know you may not believe it but i know *exactly* how you feel. You aren't overacting, no way! My 2 best friends Nora and Bryanna have started hanging out alll the tiem and never incldue me! I try to talk to them but they just get all moody and say wats your problem? So yea you arent over acting. I am still tryin to figure otu what to do I mean you don't want to lose them so try to talk things out, if not i would say move on but leave the hard feelings behind
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Sorry if this is long. Okay i'm a 14/female and have a slight problem. I met this guy Greg at a party, and really liked him. So we talked alot and got close and ended up going out. But about a week later I broke it off because things wern't working out but I still had feelings for this guy. So one day we were talking on-line and we were joking around about having sex. So I was like "Yea i'd bang you any day!" And he calls me and was like "Are you serious?" and me being stupid I said yes because I didn't want to look dumb. So one day I went to his house and was going to tell him I was joking and all but he was peer pressured me into doing it. After that we promised each other we wern't going to tell anyone. And he was like "well I would like to tell my friend Joe" so I was like okay. So the next day I went to school and Gregs ex girlfriend comes up to me and was like did you fuck greg? and she told me that the rumor was going around and so I talked to Greg and was like why did you tell everyone and he was like "i'm sorry I didnt mean for everyone to find out" Like cheap whiskey I bought his stupid lies! So then we were friends and ended up going to homecomming. While at H.C he tells me that he loved me and everything but didn't want to go out with anyone at the time. So I was just like okay and we were just friends. Well I became good friends with a girl named Leah who was also friends with Greg. So I was talking to her (not knowing she knew about me and Greg) until she brings up what happened between me and him and she tells me that he lied to me nd wasn't a virgin! So i confronted him and he said that it was true so I was mad. and i also found out that he lied about toher thinfs too. So we deicded to not talk for a week... his dumb idea so we havent talked for some time but the thing is I stil like him even though he's caused so much pain in my life. Like the rumors I had to hear going around school and geting made fun of. I see myself getting very upset at what other people say to me like some times I come home and just cry. I started cutting my self and always find myself thing about suicide and I dont know if this has anything to do with this but lately i've been REALLY tired and falling asleep in class when I go to bed around the same time every night! I really need to get over Greg and his lies but I just dont know how! I'm emotionally attached and need to know how to let go and i'd appreciate advice! Thanx babes!
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-Kristen* (link)
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OK you are still here becuase GOD wants you here. Think about that, god WANTS you here. You need to get over greg becuase he is obviously a loser and think of all the fish in the ocean! he's just a big fat shark that kills sea horses!
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ahh i bite my nails!!! its a really bad habit! i do it when im not paying attention anyone have any tips for stopping? (link)
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1. Yes, the nail polish that tastes bad, but NOT the kidn thats smells bad- eww
2. Don't look at your nails.
3. Get a nice french manicure or somehting, you wouldn't wanna ruin it and watser your money!
4. If you realli feel the urge i chew gum and lollipops and if i reaalllly feel like i have to i take out a nail filer and file away.
5. Cut your nails to short to bite!
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My mother bought me a beta fish (a Japanese fighting fish) and I have no idea how to take care of it. I got a book on how to take care of it, but you have to decode it (meaning I don't understand a word of it) The local veterenarians don't really know how to take care of these fish because not alot of their clients have fighting fishes. Does anyone on Advicenators know ANYTHING about these fishes? Do you know any sites where I can find information? (link)
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Heyy- the vets in yuor area must be a little slow cuz Beta Fish are realllly common and easy to take care. OK first rule: NEVER have more then 2 in one tank. They kill eachother and in japan they use them to fight like pitbulls, i know weird giht. Just go to your local perstore and buy the food with a picture of them on it. They don't need a big tank at all, i kept mine i a glass bowl. They are very violent though, mine killed ITSELF when it saw its reflection in the mirror. So just clean it often and feed it, it could live for up to 3 years i heard that was a long life span.
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :( (link)
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Even if you use protection and th epill there always is a small percentile of a chance you coudl be preganant so yes now you are evn more at risk, sorry hun but you need to use protection. I hope you don't learn the lesson the hard way
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Okay i'm about 5'1" or 5'2" and i think i'm fat because i weight inbetween 125-130 but i'm on a diet, basically just for healthy foods and just cutting it down a little bit, i'm in volleyball theory at high school and cheerleading. everything things im perfect, but i think im fat, i run in my spare time, crunchers and all this abdominal crap, but i don't know what else to do, im a freshman so that means im 14 if this helps any. I don't know if i'm normal or over weight, i was reading a thing in the paper and it said only for my height to weight about 109- and my formal is coming up in December, please help me, I wanna look good. (link)
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OK I'm goign to tell you straight out, yes 125 pounds is overweight for a girl who's only 5"1'. I'm 125 and I am almost 5"8'. Unless, and I am not tryin to soudn weird but if you hvave extremly large breats then you could weigh 125 pounds, but otherwise yea u have to lose some. I am impressed your a cheerleader I mean I might be worng if you can still do flips and stuff but obviously you arenm't a flier. If you are then no offense but flyers on my squad are like 85 pounds.
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Well I've known this guy for about 2 years over the internet. (I met him through a friend who met him 6 months before me) We've talked on the phone, sent letters, pictures, webcams, and all of that, also I've talked to his family and friends so that I know everything he says is true. I've told him that I love him, and he says the same to me. When he gets his liscence, he was going to come and visit me. We only live about 5 hours apart... Yeah, we've had our ups and downs but i still love him, even though we're not "going out" or anything. I know he's had sex once before with his ex girlfriend of a year. I would have sex with him, but I'm still a virgin and I think I'm too young. He's not pressuring me or anything, it's something I wanna do. (Please don't lecture me about it, I know, I also don't need inappropriate vulgar remarks thrown at me for this) He's 16 and I'm 14, but I'll be 15 by the time he gets to visit. I just need some help on what to do to make me feel more open with him. I guess I just feel intimidated because it's not his first time. (It's also not like I've never done anything sexual before, just not sex itself) Please help me out with this. (link)
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ummm you met him on the internet and even tho you have talked to his family u didn't say you've even met him at ALL... so i wouldnt even think of having sex with him that's a stupid question
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gah just got my period and im supposed to be seeing my guy this weekend what can i do to make it go away faster? (link)
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IDK if this works for everyone but a while ago I tried being anorexic. I didn't get my period for 3 months! I have to say if being anorexic wasn't hazardous to your health i would do that again cuz i hate my period! But ye ai guess if u dont eat i mean it worked for me
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Hi, i'm sad cause my dog is the nicest one on earth. but he's sad cause we had another dog and we had to give her away. its horrible i cant stand it. my mom wont let me get another dog. wut should i do?-Caitlan (link)
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Your dog probably liked having the other dog around because it gave him a companion. So spend more time with him, when you are home and done with homework or whatever bring him for a walk. I know this may soudn weird, but the vet said my aunt's cat has "separtion anxiety" so everyday frum work she calls her house evn tho no1 is home except for the cat and starts talking. This way the cat hears her voice and its comforting. Now if your in school you can't do this but if your parents could, I am serious it works and for my parakeet i leave the radio on when i go to school. So if your dog is home put on the radio or tv it givesyour dog sumthin to listen to even though obviously he won't sit down and watch tv! hoe i helped!
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Im a 14 year old girl and feel a little selfconcious about my looks. What are some safe ways for me to loose weight? (link)
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heyy! i felt the same way i thot if i started dieting and exercising a lot my parents woodl think i was anorexic! they kinda jump to conclusions like that lol well start off slow i just made my protions smaller and exercsied more! in about a week u'll notice changes! but u have to stay motivated thats the hardest part! *Buena suerte!
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Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
Help, i rate. (link)
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Yep, the great aunt flo is coming! but consider urself lucky that ur starting it now at 13 i wish i had had more years free of my period.i started early, very early! trust me and i no a lot of girls agree with me i hate my period i think its a hassle but hey *congratz*
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ok i just broke up with my boyfrend like last monday... well theres a dance comin up next friday... n ithink he still likes me but he likes another girl named caroline and he already asked her oout n everything like 2 days afta he dumped me!! but she said no.. ne ways.. hes obveously gonna dance with caroline but if he asks to dance with her but if he asks to dance with me.. should i? wat if he trys to kiss me or something? i need help! i still hav a small microscopic crush on him (the reason he dumped me was because he didnt want to get sick of me n then when we really had to break up tht he neva would talk to me again) n the girl he likes is so much bossyer like she tells him wat to wear n how to style his hair... i neva did tht!!! wat do i do!?!? (link)
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Umm hon, i think u like him more then u lt on. cuz ur sed he likes sum1 else so obviously he doesnt like u . even if u wish he likes u he doesnt *:.Natalie
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Alright..there are these two guys..lets say collin and devin..well i like both of them..but last night i found out who collin likes..and i also found out who devin likes. devin likes me..collin likes these two other girls in my class...and i am happy and sad..happy because devin likes me..but sad because i like collin more than devin. am i being selfish?? should i just stop liking collin and start liking devin more?! help me please! thanks!
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Heyy i think you should go out with Devin i mean if colllin doesnt like u then move on I am sure they're both great guys!
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i have been feeling bad for a while.. i think i have the disease depression... im almost 16 years old and until recently i havent told anyone except my best friend... i want to tell my mom and go to the doctor to find out for real but im scared... im afraid she wont understand or not take me seriously or get mad... some of my symptoms are: alot of insecurities with myself, feeling empty, trapped, i always wanna stay home and sleep, i hate myself, im sick of my life, and i have alot of regrets.... im not so bad that im thinking of suicide though.. i would NEVER do that.... the thing is i think i have a pretty good life and im lucky for the things i have and that makes me feel really guilty about feeling bad..... i have a good house, im healthy, i have a family who loves me, my parents are together, and i have alot of stuff but i still feel depressed....... i no there are people who have it so much worse than me and all that makes me feel so much worse about how i have been feeling.... my questions are do u think i am really depressed like.. do u think i have the disease or do u think im just a moody teenager? and do u think i should tell my mother? please please time one million answer my questions!!!! i reallyyyyyyy need help! (link)
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OK there is no way around it, you have to tell your mom I kow it kinda stinks... but my cuzzin told me and he made me promise not to tell so i didnt turns out.. 5 months later they found him dead it realli hurts ur friends family and every1 around u . u owe it to yourself and your family to tell them please even i realli want u 2. think of the poor people
RIP Christian 1989-2003
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How long does a pro baseball game usually last ? (link)
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It can be as many hours as it takes for a tesm 2 win but usually 2-4 hours! GO RED SOX!
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ok so,i play like every sport there is except rugby and football...cuz im a girl...all my friends say that im amazimg cuz when i get home from school iu do my homework get online then sports the rest of the night..but sometimes i goto basketball then to soccer then to lacrosse then to swimming. everyone says that i should quiet mayb 3 sports and only havge like 3 sports to do...should i quit? but i always have time for them...i rate REALLY high..*but it has to be good please!) (link)
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Yea I am surprised you didn't say that you were too overloaded. I play a lot of sports too and people ask me how I do it. Truth is, I am an only child so my parents have a lot of time help me get to wherever i need to go. I think you should stick to your favorite sports or the ones you are best at. I quit figure skating, gymnastics, tennis and karate so I can focus on what I am best at. Then you can excel in that sport. For example, right now i only play basketballl, soccer, softball ,and dance. Now i have more time to practice just them , but i play the other ones in my spare time for fun!
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ok im getting contacts and i was thinking about getting colored i have blonde hair that is about the color of paris hilton my eyes r like light green. wut color do u think i should get i was thinking maybe a lil greener or blue? (link)
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I think, since most people will say blue since blue eyes and blonde hair are often associated together to get green. This may be different but guys will remember green cuz its beautiful and it'll probably stick in guys mind more. GREEN!
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How old do you have to be to give up on finding a girl friend. The reason I ask is that im 24 ill be 25 next may and ive never had a girlfriend or been in a serious relationship, I Know im not ugly and I can send you a pic to prove it, and most of the time i can talk to girls just fine, but it always ends up the same for me, they always say that im a real nice guy and that one day ill find the right girl for me and then the dreaded "LETS JUST BE FRIENDS".
I just dont understand what im doing wrong. and when i think about it it makes me real mad, that
there's girls out there with boyfriends that beat them, abuse them both phisicaly and mentaly,
they cheat on them and treat them like crap, but when asked why the girl stays whith him the anwser is always "cause I love Him". Life is just so f*cked up, how can guys that treat their girl like shes lower than crap get so much love, but a guy like me that alwas treats women with respect and is always nice and honest and caring
have to feel like hes going to be alone forever?
Ive had sex, but it was always one night satands and its not about sex. its about love, I want to love some one, life is just so empty and meaningless when you dont have anyone to sahre it with.
Now im getting to the point where the girls i meet are close to my age and want someone with experiance, witch i dont have.
So i figured if by the time i turn 25 i dont have a girlfriend i should just give up and not waste anybodys time.
what do you think?
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No matter what, you are never to old to find true love. I know it sounds so crony but trust me! I read somewhere that these people got married wehn they were like 90! Don't be in a rush, it may seem like everyone is taken but there's 6 BILLION people in the world. I think you'll find somebody. Just get out a lot more and introduce yourself to all kinds of people. Those people will introduce you to other people, so on and so on.
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I AM IN LOVE WITH MY EX B/F!? but he goes out with my sister hes 3 years older then me but hes soo cute... help (link)
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omg.. that sounds like sum1 i kno! well if ur ex b/f repsected u enuff he would NEVER go out with ur sister! u dont need him... but if hes realli cute give it a chace or wen they break up grab him realli fast or drug him haha i dont kno where i've heard those be4... IM for me details
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