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Hey..My names Shelby im a Junior in highschool. I love my boyfriend ~*~AnDrEw~*~ I'm a cheerleader.My friends are the shit..((you know who you are)). And yea I'm pretty much the fucking shit =P jk..so yea if you need advice dont be afraid to ask.
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Lately I've been really depressed over a guy. He is my best friend and I like him so much. We're both 16, I've known him for 2 years, but just now I've started to like him. Here's the thing, I get jealous so so so easily. So whenever I'm on AIm & he is too I get so upset if he doesn't IM me within ten minutes or something. It just makes me feel like he's ignoring me, and talking to some other girl or something. I do IM him, so please don't suggest that I do that. I'm just wondering how to not feel so ignored when he doesn't talk to me right away and stuff? It makes me feel like we're drifint apart :/, but the next day at school we're fine. Any suggestions?

Ok wow is it just me or was that 110 percent bitchy what that girl BitsandPieces below me wrote..ok hun i know how you feel it sucks...you feel weird cuz your not his girlfriend..but thats what makes it worse..like when your his gf you know hes not doing anything..but since hes not and youve grown feelings you dont know what hes doing. I think you need to tell h im you like him...or at least give him obvious hints. So he knows why your acting the way you are. You not insecure your just confused and thats normal. I hope i helped. if you need any more advice just ask.

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I am typically stereotyped as a "good girl."..I don't smoke/drink or do anything "bad" But the strange thing is, I tend to fall for guys that are BAD...and ok i would NEVER smoke in the first place..but why is it ok if a guy i like smokes? Iddk i just thought it was soo weird for me to like the complete opposite..does anyone know why?

I totally know why..i was in your position..see your the one who doesn't do nething bad..but lets face it..its boring never doing nething right? then you meet a guy whos like the life of the party and its fun hearing his stories and how he deals with life. Have you ever heard the sayin opposites attract? totally true..just remember "bad boys"=Bad..some bad boys are cute..but i got hurt real bad from one..so just be careful. Its not strange its normal. I hope i helped!

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okay i have this friend were not too close but we are close and well here we go.

her boyfriend he has a crush on me i can tell bad and she can but she's let it go.

At first i told my self no because he's taken but now i'm starting to like him.

I just don't know what to do and i really need advice so please help!

thanks

Have you ever heard the saying...."chicks before dicks" its sooooo true. especailly during school. I mean a boy can last a day..but a best friend can last forever. i mean..how would you feel if you had a boyfriend and he liked her...and then she started liking him..itd suck right? i mean i totally understand where your coming from and i know it must suck to be in that position..but i would just wait and let what happen, happen and dont try to rush anything you know? if you were meant to be hed break up with her..and he will someday and then hun hes ALL YOURS =P hope i helped you out. goodluck hun!

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hi, well my 15th birthday is on the 11th october, and i was wandering what i can do. im a guy and im just going to invite a few friends. i was thinking food and music, and just chilling out, but that is kind of boring. can you help, thanks.

aww my birthdays on the 10th!! ill be 16 though but neways point is I think you and a group of friends should go out..like...to hooters or something. Do something FUN!! go ou t then maybe go bakc to your house n chill because you know youd guys have talked during dinner or something and it wil be less awkward. Or go to the movies. Hope i helped.. Happy Early Birthday hun!

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Hi,
Well theirs this girl in my school named Rachel and she's really hot! She and I are becoming best friends and share the same interest. Everybody in school says I should ask her out for the coming back to school dance but Im to nervouse that when i ask her out she'll won't feel the same way. I try flirting with her but she really doesn't seem to notice. What can I do to get her to go with the dance with me and tell if she likes me back before I ask her. Thanks for the advice.

See i think your being to much of the "best friend" instead of the "friend with possible going out" you know what i mean? you need to cut to the chase and start being flirtatious and act like your into her. She probably thinks you think of her as a sister or something because your acting as though you guys are friends. Maybe you should do something cute or ask her in a cute way..cuz if a guy did that for me i would think he liked me if he put ALL of that time to think of something for me. maybe just you two should start going out to places like the movies..while you guys are alone be more flirty y ou know? im sure if you went to one movie you could tell if she was into you or not. I really hope it works out for you hun! good luck hope i helped

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How do you take off mascara.

i do this-

i get a washcloth and put water on it and make my lashes wet so the make up will come off easier

then i get eye make up remover or wash it off

((if i dont have the eye make up remover i use soap...just dont open your eyes or it will sting REALLY really bad))

then you wash it off with the wash cloth

((cotton balls work better)) ..toilet paper works ok i guess but..i dont know i use a wash cloth home i helped!!

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HI people I'm 17. Sorry to ask something stupid like this. But I wanted to know a couple of things before i go out and get a belly ring. One, would it look ok or good on someone that's not overweight, but not a stick either. Two, does it hurt ? I mean I have a tattoo, but I’m not sure what a belly piercing feels like. Three, what are the goods, and bad’s of belly rings. If any of you can help me out with this it will mean a lot. Thanks and hope you all have a nice day.

1. it looks good on anyone. there really cute.

2. It doesn't hurt that bad at all. You think it would..but it doesn't.

3.goods: cute in bathing suits, its fun to shop for, guys like them.

bad: sometimes they can get infected, it sometimes hurts if you take it out and put a new one in, sometimes it gets attached to your clothes and pulls alil bit ((that sucks!)), one time mine got stuck on my boyfriends mattress...(totally embarassing), you have to clean them everyday, and thats about it

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Does anyone know that if a cellphone that fell in the bathtub can be repaired? Or is it gone for good?

It's pretty much gone for good. Sorry you're gonna have to get a new one. Hope i helped

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im 14 and me and my friends are going out this year for halloween. i dont know what to be!! nothing like a witch or crap like that because thats little kid stuff.. i dressed up as a gothic person last year.. so i need cool ideas. im female so you know and im a prep if that helps and i like the color pink but and i might be a devil not sure so tell me your opinion for a devils costume am i too old? and give me new sugestions of costumes of your own. thank youuu.

Here are some ideas

Angel
Go-Go Girl (just crazy wig and make up)
An Animal (bunny,cat,etc)
a pimpette
fairy
ballerina
barbie..(malibu, disco, etc)
juliet
a spice girl

Hope i helped

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do yeast infections go away on their own

yea..but you need to put something on them to help it..or it could get worse you know? ask yourm om or go online and there's an ointment that works for them. they clear up within 2 days if you use that. Hope i helped

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OK, I wasn't exactly sure where to put this, but, I just have a quick question. I work in food service, so, I have to have my hair up the whole time. Well, tomorrow I have somewhere to go right after work, so, I will basically be doing the "quick pick me upper" thing in the bathroom before I get off. I was just wandering, how can I get rid of my pony tail bump fast before I even leave work? It is a hugh bump that I can't just brush down. Any ideas? Thanks.

when you put your hair up dont put it back tight. put the ponytail in so its not sufficating your hair..that way it will be loose around the hair and wont let it cause that bump.after that brush it and put spray or sterum in it that will help relax is. hope ihelped

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If a guy only puts the tip of his penis in a girl is she still a virgin?

Why do girls walk kind of weird after having sex for the first time?

Do you really bleed alot your first time having sex?

I consider it no..because its not like...it was IN you you know what i mean? others may consider it yes. and they walk weird probably because it hurts the first time you get something shoved up there. and i heard about some of my friends leaving stains on the beds but then i heard from others that it was nothing. So it can be either. I hope i helped

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im not sure if this is the right category but anyway..

my name is stephanie and people at school call me 'stiffy' and 'stifffanie' I dont like it and have told them to stop it or ill tell the deputy principal but the dont listen and now everyone one calls me that what should I do im to affraid to tell the deputy principal

You wanna know why they keep calling you that and im being serious... its because you keep showing that it bugs you. Instead of being like STOP!!!! laugh at it with them be like your so gay in a joking way joke back with them instead of making it a big deal. When you threaten to tell on them that just makes it look like it bugs you. Try this if it doesn't work and it still bugs you..tell the principal. Hope i helped.

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Whats like the official definition of "hooked up" I thought it meant having sex, some of my friends just say like making out. So when I watch shows like Laguna and such, I never know what they mean!

On laguna beach it means the made out. but it just depends ont he area. like hear it means they did more thne that usually but it usually changes.

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Hey guys! Yes, if your wondring, this is the same person that asked some of the other tropical room questions. I know, you might get tired of me asking these questions about tropical stuff but here it goes... I really want some tropical beads for my front door (cheap) I looked on oriental trading co. and they have some but the $4.00 ones are just paper and the actually bead ones (i really like) are a whoping $30.00! Anyone have anyideas where i can get some tropical beads? thanks!

Claires. Or just the mall at like Carsons, sears, jc pennys, etc, in the bedroom section where the beds are. Hope I helped

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one of the guys at my school is saying im a lesbian b/c i havent had a boyfriend for awhile. but the only reason he thinks that is b/c i dont like going out w/ guys at my school. i only date guys from other schools. but i dont tell them that b/c its not any of their business. i dont know if he's joking or not b/c he's not really a serious person. i think he's told a few people but im afraid its going to spread b/c its not true. please help!!

I personally dont think you should care...but i know what you mean you dont want people looking at you wrong. I think you need to confront him and tell him about the guys you have dated. you dont have to tell him the guys your dating now thats non of his business your right. i think if you prove him wrong he'll pretty much look like an idiot and no one will think that. but the only way to prove him wrong..is to show him you got a man or had one recently. Hope i helped

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my mom has a pot problem.
i dont know, it really bugs me and its taking a toll on me. i dont knwo what to do, and she doesnt know i know, ive known since 3rd grade, now in 9th. we live in a very high scale town.
i feel like peopel will look at me differntly or soemthing.
only my bestfriend, best guy friend and my cousin, know about it.
-i feel liek i have troubling opening my feelings up to people from it.(i know it's cheesy.)
- and its causing me to be in really pissed off mood, or really depressed, i want to help her, but i can never get the words out when i just want to scream at her about it.
what can i do?
how can i confront her?
you dont knoow how much this will mean if you help me.

I think your really stong for dealing with that for such a long time. i think you need to say something like i hate when people smoke! or something next time you see someone and be like Mom did you ever smoke like in college or at school? and just like hear what she says..if she lies then tell her what you know and see what she says..how can she ever get mad at you for looking out for her? This is gonna help her so much and you. you'll finally beable to be at peace with this..and you NEED to tell her. Nothing will change if you dont do something about it. I hope i helped Good luck with everything

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I like to read, I really like the book "Holes." I have'nt seen the movie. I'm 13, what is something aproprete [sorry I can't spell] for a 13 year old girl.

Not to childish though, & something I could get at barnes and nobles, or so?

THE CLIQUE! omg those books are so good. It's like mean girls. I'm addicted to those books. but if you dont like those i think The Giver is amazing. there's another one but i forgot the nam..but that should start you out hope i helped!

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Im 13, and im a Chathlioc [sp?] Cristian. Well, in school, we went to Confessing. I told the preist all my sins, but one. I masturbate. I did'nt wanna just be flat out, I maturbate, because the priest is friends with my family. Is this wrong. As much as I love God and Jesus, I just can't say I maturbate. Is it a sin anyway?

Masturbation is fine. I think you did the right thing by not telling a priest at a church your sexual business. It's NO ones business but yours. I mean if it really bugs you why dont you pray and tell god not tell the priest you know? i think you did the right thing. Hope i helped.

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So this has started ever since highschool began, I can't eat breakfast, I just feel nausia when I see food, eggs, bacon, poptarts, sandwichs. I know its unhealthy I've been forcing myself to eat breakfast now! Yesterday I forced myself to eat a poptart and I threw up, I only had 4 bites? It's almost been a month and my parents are getting annoyed that I don't eat what they make me to eat. But then at like 9:59am-12:00pm I'm starving. Why is this happening?! And I have diahhrea now, which I have no clue why! HELP!
:(

I think you should bring a poptart to school and eat it when your hungry..forcing food down your throats not that healthy either. Maybe you should explain to your parents you know. like me..i use to never beable to eat breakfast but i started eating like when i was hungry and now its way easier...i think the diahhrea is just because your not eating the right foods. Hope helped

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