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Lately I've been really depressed over a guy. He is my best friend and I like him so much. We're both 16, I've known him for 2 years, but just now I've started to like him. Here's the thing, I get jealous so so so easily. So whenever I'm on AIm & he is too I get so upset if he doesn't IM me within ten minutes or something. It just makes me feel like he's ignoring me, and talking to some other girl or something. I do IM him, so please don't suggest that I do that. I'm just wondering how to not feel so ignored when he doesn't talk to me right away and stuff? It makes me feel like we're drifint apart :/, but the next day at school we're fine. Any suggestions?
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Ok wow is it just me or was that 110 percent bitchy what that girl BitsandPieces below me wrote..ok hun i know how you feel it sucks...you feel weird cuz your not his girlfriend..but thats what makes it worse..like when your his gf you know hes not doing anything..but since hes not and youve grown feelings you dont know what hes doing. I think you need to tell h im you like him...or at least give him obvious hints. So he knows why your acting the way you are. You not insecure your just confused and thats normal. I hope i helped. if you need any more advice just ask.
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Your'e not even his girlfriend, and you are already insecure, controlling, jealous and worried. Hmmm...I don't know if you could handle being his girlfriend. He does not want a controlling jealous girlfriend or friend, so you are going to have to let it go. You need to remind yourself that liking someone does not mean you can own them. He is a person, and not a possesion. Do not drive him away before you even get a chance to go out. If you want a real shot at a relationship, then forget all that jealous crap.
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