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one of the guys at my school is saying im a lesbian b/c i havent had a boyfriend for awhile. but the only reason he thinks that is b/c i dont like going out w/ guys at my school. i only date guys from other schools. but i dont tell them that b/c its not any of their business. i dont know if he's joking or not b/c he's not really a serious person. i think he's told a few people but im afraid its going to spread b/c its not true. please help!!
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just ignore the rumor it'll go away the same thing happened to me an it lasted like a year but it went away
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A lot of boys have this attitude...either you are spreading your legs for every guy in sight (their hope and dream), or its the exact opposite; you aren't "easy", and therefore its easy to be hateful and call you a lesbian because you aren't pandering to what they would like you to do.
Don't let it bother you, seriously. Once you are out of a school all that wont matter anyways. If he has told people, you can't do anything to stop it at this point really...just ignore it.
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I personally dont think you should care...but i know what you mean you dont want people looking at you wrong. I think you need to confront him and tell him about the guys you have dated. you dont have to tell him the guys your dating now thats non of his business your right. i think if you prove him wrong he'll pretty much look like an idiot and no one will think that. but the only way to prove him wrong..is to show him you got a man or had one recently. Hope i helped
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Don't worry. I have short hair, so I get a lot of this.
Don't get too fazed out... he could be joking if he's not a serious person. Just make fun of him back... something like "What, are you just jealous cuz you want to get with me?"
Plus, there's nothing wrong with being called a lesbian... just call anyone who makes fun of you a homophobe! It makes them look bad.
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