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For the past 2 years I have gotten really close with this guy who is A LOT older than me. He's 36 and Im 14/f But latley we've gotten really close. Like were dating? I don't know. its not like he's a pervert or anything. But I've i guess fallen in love with me. We're both musicians and we share an amazing passion together. I can stop it whenever I want to , but i can't. I guess you can't help who you fall in love with. The thing is that no one knows about it and hes married! So im really confused. but if i tell my mom or anyone there goes my lessons with him and band and everything ive worked for. and i love him. what should i do and is this okay that were together?
no its definently not rite in any way to be with a friken 36 year old who's married. also if his wife finds out it could be pretty bad for you not only him and you'l have way more problems than if you just brake up with him without anyone ever knowing
I'm 16 years old and one of my very good friends recently asked me out. I have known him for a year and the whole time, he had been going out with another girl. He and his old girlfriend had sex often and I'm still a virgin. He says that he won't pressure me into anything..do you think he'll expect me to have sex with him like he did her?
if he really likes you than her probably wouldnt expect you to and would respect that you dont want to. but if he really tries presuring you he probably just in using you.
I really like this guy and he likes me back I have liked him for two years. He is into a lot of bad stuff but for some reason it doesnt bother me which is wierd because I am one of those "good never do anything wrong kind of girls" SO my friends are always lecuring me and telling me that if i do anything with him that I will loose some friends. I know that they shouldnt be my "true" friends because of that but what can I say to them ...and him to make them understand.
if you really do love him it shouldnt really matter what your friends think. but if you dont agree with him doing the stuff he does you could try to get him to change if he really does love you he'll try to change.
ok 14/f i have a class with this really cute guy that i dont know and he doesnt talk much so how should i start a convo with him without seeming to weird
just go up to him and say hi and just start askin him questions and stuff. or you could go up and ask him a school question and then start talkin like that
okay so today...i was talking to the boy i like, online..and he weve liked eachother for a while...and you know we'd kinda flirt and stuff...but yeah it was just friendly i guess. and then the other day he told me that his friend tricked him into saying he loved me and then today he's like, you wanna know something? and im like sure and hes like well today i said i loved you and i wasnt tricked and im like ooo and then my friend talked to him b/c i had to do something and then i came back and talked to him and then i told him i loved him too and he said that i shouldnt say it just because he did and im like i didnt i mean it
so yeah, i know i meant it...but it felt weird telling him that.
so my question is...
how do you know you love someone?
and being 14...is that too young to know what love is?
14/f by the way. thanks..sorry its so long.
if your really in love i think you would now it. its different from just likeing someon., you want to be with that person alot and protect them and you dream about them all the time and even if you get into fights or hear something about them you dont like you still love them.
its my friends birthday next week. i'm a girl he's a guy. so i don't no wut guys like. i wanna get him something like.. special because he got me something really good/expensive for my bday so i kinda wanna do the same thing. it doesn't hafta be a sentimental present or w/e because he's just a friend soo.. wut should i get him? he likes bball and um.. he's a normal guy.. please help me out thank u!!
you could get him a jersey or somethin but depending on how much you want to spend you could try to get him something thats signed
i have been hearing about bed bugs coming to the united states and it's really freaking me out.
so i want to know; how would i know i had bed bugs?? like what would it look like??
--thanks
bed bugs are on almost any matres if you get a microscope you'l see you have a bunch of them but if you really dont want them you could vacume your bed every morning or wenever you had time wich would get rid of them but there harmless so i wouldnt worry to much
Everytime I try to sign onto aim on my phone I type in my sn and password and when I click sign on something pops up and says "Timeout, Did not recieve responce from IM server. Select wait to continue waiting or Sign Off. What's wrong with my phone? Did that mean my parents blocked aim on my phone or something. This happens all the time wherever I am even when I have 5 bars of service
if that happens than try turning your phone off and then turning it back on if that dosent work you might have to delete it and then redownload it.
How do you send a text message? I know how to get into the create text message thing. But when I have to type who I'm sending it to I don't know whether you type in the persons number that you're sending to or do you type there name? And do you type in the area code??? Help!!!
just put the phone number the persons in your contacts you can go to his/her name and right clik and there should be send txt.
How much is it for unlimited text messaging per month for verizon? Or is it on 500 text messages or something?
you cant get unlimited but you can get like 2500 or so wich is wut i have.
I am looking for a breed of dog (mixed is fine) that is especially good for children, and it would be great if it did not shed much. Thanks for any suggestions!
poodles dont shed or barley shed and are pretty playful. if you want a really playful dog you can get a shi-tzu which is wut i have but they need constant attention.
I'm 13 years old and interested in getting braces. My teeth really aren't that bad and my mom doesn't wanna pay for the braces. But, I would still like to have the teeth on the top of my mouth nicely alined. How much would braces cost if you didn't need them too badly? And also, if the cost is too much, then can you/would it help to just have a retainer, or do you have to have braces first?
braces cost alot first off and they make it hard to keep your teeth healthy. but you can just get a retainer my teeth were just a little messed up so i just got a retainer
I'm a columnist on here and have been for about a year or so. I've noticed hundreds of questions dealing with depression. While I understand that it seems to be more common in teenagers now, why is it that it is mostly girls? Is it the way they are raised? Is it imprinted in DNA? I'm interested in the psychological aspect of it and hope to major in it someday, but I've looked it up everywhere online and can't find a reliable source. Anyone know the causes of this or where to find it? Thanks.
i dont think that more gurls get depresed but its just that more gurls use advice sites lol also some guys try to hide there depresion to act like there tuff
Me and my boyfriend have been together for two months now. We are really good together and we really love eachother. Last night i was talking with one of my ex boyfriends. He's a huge pervert and is always telling me to take my clothes off. I told my boyfriend and he seemed really mad, so i asked him. I go, Dan are you mad? He says, no i just love when guys say perverted stuff to my girlfriend. So me and dan got into a huge arguement I said sorry several times and at the end he said apology excepted. I left him a message on myspace saying how sorry i was and that i love him. He wanted to see what my ex was saying to me, but i refused to show him. He got mad at that also. I don't want him to say or do anything to my ex. I blocked my ex and i told Dan im not going to talk to him anymore. Which Im not going to. Dan is out today with his family and he wont be getting the message for a while now. I'm scared he's going to think to hard and this is going to end badly. He says that he loves me and no fight is going to change that. I'm scared, what should I do?
if he really means that than he'l relize that you love him and you wouldnt do anything to hert him.
mmk so my bestfriend since 6th grade and i started going out in 9th. we had this whole crazy connection, i cant be without you kind of relationship.(this was in 9th grade) well he wasnt actually allowed to date soo i only saw him at school and i think schools really important and when we started going out my grades dropped super low. because school was all "boyfriend time". and so i freaked out and pushed him away. and now its 10th grade and he hasnt really talked to me since. and i still love him. he doesnt really know what happened.. how do i get him back or to atleast get him to talk to me..he means the world to me..
you should go tell him why you broke up w/ him and tell him how you feel. if he feels the same way you could try it again but just try to keep your grades up
My boyfriend got arrested but hes on probation and he has to be around a counselor. He told me he has a counselor because he broke a window. I thought you only have counselors around you if you had sex with a minor or rape?? Is he hiding something?
yea he definently is. u cant be arrested for breaking a window. you probably would have to pay for it but thats a hole seperate thing. so yea he's lying
Ok well i started going out with this one guy named jonathan.The thing is dat he knows i like somebody else and i know he likes somebody else.Yes it seems wierd but we told each other that since the beggining.Its like we like each other to but it kind of feels wierd to know he dosent only think of me...i know he probably feels da same way but i dont know.I seriously dont think we are going to last.Although i wish it did=/So if you were in my place what would you do??
i think you should break up w/ him if you both still like eachother than i think you should give it another try but if not than you didnt really like him that much
So I like this boy Kyle. But I don`t know if he likes me. He's really good friends with my cousin. When hes around me and my cousins not there, hes very nice. He like jokes around and says nice stuff and we talk on the phone for hours. Okay but hes completely different around me when my cousin is there. He says like mean stuff and like I know hes joking kinda but he just acts so different. Is maybe he being shy because he doesnt want my cousin to know he likes me or that were good friends? I know some guys are like that when theyre shy. Any help or advice would be great.
he's probably trying to just act tough around you you could try talking to him and telling him that you don't like that and ask him to be his true self
My birds always fight with each other.And about 3 weeks ago 1 of my birds was bleeding on her beak.How do I get them to stop?
if they keep fighting you might want to get a new cage and seperate them
ok i burnt my finger with my hair straightener on thursday nite and today its all blistered and bubbly. anything i can do ?
try putting alovara if you have any or you could use neosporin