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yeah yeah yeah another one of THOSE questions.
okay so today...i was talking to the boy i like, online..and he weve liked eachother for a while...and you know we'd kinda flirt and stuff...but yeah it was just friendly i guess. and then the other day he told me that his friend tricked him into saying he loved me and then today he's like, you wanna know something? and im like sure and hes like well today i said i loved you and i wasnt tricked and im like ooo and then my friend talked to him b/c i had to do something and then i came back and talked to him and then i told him i loved him too and he said that i shouldnt say it just because he did and im like i didnt i mean it
so yeah, i know i meant it...but it felt weird telling him that.
so my question is...
how do you know you love someone?
and being 14...is that too young to know what love is?
14/f by the way. thanks..sorry its so long.
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Yes, it's long and there's a lot of bad grammer usage; but that's okay.
Telling someone being in love is a difficult thing for many females across the world.
The thing is, when you are in love with a man, you can feel it. He makes you warm and welcomed. He's generous and caring. He knows what you like and know how to care for you. You guys can have laughs and can tell each other secrets and don't have to be embrarrssed.
From my perspective, you are too young. I'm 14, and I haven't even had a boyfriend! (LOL)
I think you shouldn't tell anyone you love that person until you are an grown adult. You only have 4 years of childhood so live it! Don't grow up too fast, because childhood is very specail to everyone and if you screw it up, you just screwed your future and it's hard to get back on your feet.
Go steady with the guy you like and you know what, in 4 years, you might not love him anymore. Go slow with guys and wait until you are at least 18; you'll feel so much better! Your age, you shouldn't even be loving a guy.
LIVE LIFE!
-Experienced
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There's all different kinds of love and i don't really think love has an age limit, just a sort of an emotional limit. As you get older you'll get more experience in understaning how you feel about people and about the sort of people you like, its unfortunate but this only comes with age. But i think at your age you can like someone enough to say you love them.
There's no realy way to tell that you're in love either, it's a tricky business. sometimes it can be so obvious that you don't know what you'd do without the person and other times it can sneak up on you and you love them without realising it. i think one on the signs that you love a person is that you feel comfortable to tell them anything, they have to be like a best friend to you and you can't be scared of what they'll say. because to love someone you have to be totally honest and willing to share anything.
Hope i helped!
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my opinion is, you probably love this guy as much as you are capable of at this age. it feels like love, yes, but i think its not the same as the love you feel when you get married, cause lets face it, i dont think youre getting married anytime soon. i would call it puppy love. Im only 15, and although at one point i thought i was in love, its still not the same as what you will feel when youre older. but theres nothing really wrong with saying it, so long as you realize that later on, it will seem overused and have less meaning. Its your decision. It will however, have a different meaning when youre older.
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if your really in love i think you would now it. its different from just likeing someon., you want to be with that person alot and protect them and you dream about them all the time and even if you get into fights or hear something about them you dont like you still love them.
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That's easy for me. I don't think 14 is to young to be in love. I fell in love at age 11 and now im 14 and me and him are still together. My opinion is that no one is ever to young or old to be in love. You know when your in love when u can't get that 1 special person of your mind, you would do anything for them, you care for them and wouldn't do anything to hurt them, and you don't have words to describe how much you love them. That's how i know i'm in love with my boyfriend. If those things apply to you then your are probably in love.
I hope i helped :-)
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