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when on a dinner date, how should handling the check go?
should i, the woman, grab the book and look at it, or should i wait until my date picks it up?
should i ask him how much it is? should i take the money out of my purse? how do i handle a credit card ? (link)
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If he asked you on the date then most likely he will be willing to pay. But if you are the one that asked him then when the check arrives you should wait and see if he pulls out his check book. If he doesn't then you'll could either go half or you pay for it or you could just ask him what he wants to do.
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hi, well i have a late period this month, it's the 7th, it was supposed to start on the 5th, and it's always on time. i had sex a little over a month ago, but around 5 -6 days after i got my period.
can i still be pregnant? (link)
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There's always a chance of being pregnant when you participate in sex. But in your case I doubt it. You are only 2 days late. That isn't that big of a deal. It happens all the time to a lot of girls who aren't even sexually active.
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The guy I'm dating and me get really in the mood. We haven't done anything under the clothes though. I'm a virgin and I want to keep it that way, but when we get hot & heavy just making out, it's very difficult to have self control. I just don't know what to do, because it's still so early in our relationship to move to the next step. I like the way things are, but I'm afraid he's going to get mad that I lead him on & then back away when things get serious. (17/f) (link)
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You shouldn't lead him on. Because you are just getting him all excited for nothing. Let him know that you don't want to be physically intimate.
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So my friend told the guy I like that I liked him. But she wrote a note saying it was from me. And he hasn't said anything to me. And now it's just awkward. What should I do?
Another thing, my friend who's a senior has a little brother who's a freshman and i'm a junior and she's like you should take my brother to prom b/c he's the only normal asian at our school. do you think she's kidding, or serious? (link)
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You should let him know that you didn't write the note.
How in the world would I know if she was kidding or serious? SHE'S YOUR FRIEND! Ask her, genuis!
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Didn't know whether to put this under relationships or spiruality, but here it is.
Ok, so i was with this guy for 7 months, we broke up a while back and have jsut got back together.
We're both Christians. We had a greart relationship, and I completely adore him, but one of the problems with it was the whole sex thing. We weren't having sex, we're only 15 and fully intend to save sex for marriage but apparently most guys find it harder to control than girls. We went further than we wanted to quite a few times and regretted it later. We've prayed a lot about the issue, and when we're talking rationally, we both know that less is more. We want to keep as much physical stuff as possible for later on. But that's easier to say than do. It often seemed like he wanted to keep going, and I knew we should stop. It was always me that had to say no. And after a while, it makes you feel bad, constantly having to say no to your boyfriend.
So my question is, now we're back together, ready for a new start and really want to make this relationship work, how can we help ourselves to stay in control and put God first in this area of our relationship?
Sorry it's so long, and thanks (: (link)
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Let him know that your morals haven't changed about being physically intimate and that you want God to be your number one prioroty. If he can't respect that then it is no use to start the relationship up again because its just going to lead to the same problem. If you don't want to feel pressured about saying no then you need to make sure that he is in an agreement with your beliefs. Its one thing to be a Christian but its another thing to act in it. So if he is a Christian like he says he is then he shouldn't pressure you. I know temptation is hard so you shouldn't put yourself in a position that will make it even more challenging for you.
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alright so my boyfriend comes over here like everyday and i love it because i get to see him everyyyy dayy and thats just fine with me but sometimes when hes over here and im in the shower i get out come to my room and hes on myspace writing someone or reading someones message to him but once i really get in the room he closes out of it really quick and this has happen twice. idk what to do because if hes hiding something i need to know but im scared to ask him because i dont want us to start an arguement. what should i do????? (link)
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Arguments are a part of being in a relationship. If you want to know then you need to ask. Don't accuse him of anything just simply ask what was he doing.
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Okay here it is. Im the popular girl in school, and alot of guys think im hot. Oh yah,and please dont answer this if you are just going to say im a bitch or something.Yes,i am hot and pretty and im pretty much use to all the boys wanting me. But there is this girl in my school,a wannabe me. She got the exact same haircut as mine the other day!Can you say:BITCH!!! i know! Anyway,theres this HOTT guy and he barley knows her but he thinks she is hot.GRRR. This is a major problem if you are me! I dont share! Does any one know what i can do to you know well...get him away from her?Im so mad! Shes ugly but im not going to lie,has a nice body.I know people say you dont like someone because of there looks but,i mean come on! One thing i dont do is lie,and beleive me im not lieing SHES UGLY. Sad to day,for her anyway,a few people think so too. Im going to get this guy no matter how much it takes no matter how much clevage because people!, I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix! And i need your help. Maybe you think im concieded so what,if you are too you will probably be able to help! Thanks!I Rate!!!HIGH! ANSWER FAST! Time is wasting :/ (link)
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This has got to be a JOKE. Because there isn't anyway in the world this could be a serious question.
I HOPE THE OTHER GIRL GETS THE BOY YOU LIKE!!!
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omg..i need to no how to be close with guys but still be me and not some plastic whore! i am 13 and a girl. (link)
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There's no instructions on how to be yourself.
Just stop worrying about what other people think and be yourself.
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My boyfriend is the best person I have ever met he loves church, Me, and his family and I love is personalitiy but he is not all that cut i mean he's cute but not sexy the thing i hate most about him is his eyes and lips there big big but i dont want to break up with him because his mom just died and he need someone to talk to more than ever now cause he is goin through a lot what should I do signed CONFUSED. (link)
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If you break up with him, in the long run you may actually be doing him a favor. Because he doesn't deserve to waste his time on someone who is so low that she will dump him only based on his physical characteristics.
You need to get a life. He may have the unattractive looks but you are the one with the unattractive personality.
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Me and this guy Alex dated before, then he dumped me and said that hes too frigid for me and that im always depressed, when i was only depressed for 2 days because my friend killed herself...Then 1 day ago he said "I shouldnt have dumped you" and stuff and im like "Well lets see if we can go back" and he goes "Huh i cant just 'go back out' with you again..." and im just like "Wow you really cant think" because i thought that he would get the hint of asking me out again... But i think hes too shy or something...i know that he likes me and he knows that i like him, but can someone please help me see that he can ask me out again? Thanks!!! (link)
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He isn't worth your time. Instead of breaking up with you he should have been there for you in your time of need. Since he wasn't, that's one characteristic that makes him an awful boyfriend. I think you should move on. People like that really aren't worth your time.
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k so i have problems with guys. none like me! But people tell me i'm good looking, and fun, but then why don't any guys like me?! people say all that stuff like 'i know someone taht likes you' but no one ever seems to...help! wut can i do to be more attractive to guys? (link)
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You should stop trying to impress guys so they will like you. Instead you need to convince yourself that you are good enough to be someone's girfriend. Once you realize that you are good enough, things will probably become a lot easier for you. I'm not saying that you will have all of the guys head over hills for you but you won't have the thought "what can i do to more attractive to guys" run through your head as much because you will be confident in yourself.
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I just registered to this site, and this is my first question type thing, so i dont really know what to put as my "subject" or what to put it under.
so.. this weekend, im goin to see some1,&i want to look good, so i picked out an outfit& everything, the only thing is.. i got my period this morning and i dont wear tampons,and the pants im wearing are pretty tight, but i dont want my underwear line to show?and i dont want to pick another outfit,so if any1 has any suggestions on what i should do.. i would really appreciate it... sorry if its a stupid question.! (link)
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You should wear the seenless underwear. They are elastic and they don't show with almost anything you wear. You can find them in just about any department store or regular store.
Here are some places that I know sale them.
-JCPenny's
-Heicht's
-Wal-Mart
-K-Mart
If you can't find them in these stores then you should browse around in stores that sales Hanes under gourmets. Because Hanes makes them in all colors and sizes.
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so now since its getting hot, im starting to get really sweaty, and i keep getting teased because of these disguisting sweat stains under my arms. its embarrassing because i keep getting teased. what can i do to solve that problem? (link)
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Certain Dri is a deoderant made especially for that. It works really well for me. You can find it in almost any pharmacy and stores like Wal-Mart and K-Mart.
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Today in Life Skills, my school counselor told us girls "all 13-year-old boys care about is looks." (it's not a co-ed class) She also went on to say that 13-year-old boys only like girls with big boobs and a big ass. She said that they are very shallow, but the best thing for us to do is wait for them to grow up.
Is this really true? Do boys only notice boobs and butts on a girl and nothing else? It doesn't make me feel too good knowing that, because I certainly don't have a big butt and big boobs, and I'd like to have a boyfriend.
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All guys are different. At the age of 13 some of them may be really immature and some of them may be really mature. It all depends on the guy.
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A male friend of mine came over to my appartment today for a visit. We have so far never done anything sexual- yet. I partly feel because he is quite shy. Well lately I have been dropping subtle hints that I want to be intimate with him; but not saying outright that I want to sleep with him because I am shy too.
Well before he left he said that the next time he came over to visit me that we could have a barbeque; play cards; and FOOL AROUND! When he said it he also had a big grin on his face. I really don't think he would joke about something like that. Do you think this means that he wants to move our friendship to the next level? (link)
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He may want to be friends with benefits.
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theres this boy jacob.i like him i cant stop thinking about him and im 13 girl and hes a boy so nothing like that i want to ask him out but i wnat him to know that im not kidding.nathile (1 of his friends)said that jacob asked him if he could ask me out for him and i didnt believe him.i dont think jacob even knows i like him.i liked him last year but that was nothing...
i wnat to tell him but should i write him a note or tell him on the bus??sorry its long ill rate (link)
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I think its always best tell someone in person.
If you wrote a note it could get lost or misplaced and end up in the wrong hands. Someone could use it for revenge, embarrassment, etc.
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I have been going out with this guy for almost a year. And it is pretty serious. I dont get to see him much so it makes it hard for me to say im "with someone" I have cheated on him a lot in the past couple months. I have only told him once and that was almost a year ago. I love him to death and I dont want to hurt him. He is the kinda guy that you wanna be with. If anybody has any advice on how not to cheat on someone. or to tell him please let me know. thanks
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"I cheated on you a lot in the last couple of months."
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I would like to know how to stop my boyfriend from always grabbing me in the wrong places? (link)
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Tell him to stop grabbing you in the wrong places.
Don't say it like you are playing. Say it in a serious tone so he will know that you are serious.
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i am 15 years old and i am a female. Well, there is this boy i like and we have bean seenig each other for abot 1.5 months, but we aren't going out. he tells me that he loves me, gives me kisses, and stuff like that, but this is when we are at his house. when we are at school he doesn't kiss me or tell me that he loves me. he doesn't even talk to me that much. all he does is say hi give me a quick hug and say bye. he said that he doesn't want to get into trouble.
does he really love me? is he embarassed to be around me? does he only want sex? well, thank you for helping me out....bye.
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He's probably doesn't want to show effection while he is in front of his friends.
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There is this girl i like at school and im not sure if she lkes me back i've asked her out twice and on the second time i asked her she said "...errr well not right now sorry" what is that supposed to mean plz help i rate 5s. btw this question would be better off answered by a girl (link)
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She doesn't like you so move on.
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