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i dont no how to attrack boys but still be me!
omg..i need to no how to be close with guys but still be me and not some plastic whore! i am 13 and a girl.
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4evermyslef2 basically said the ideal thing. And it is the motto i usually live by.
but..........
I know how you feel on this one. I am 15/m. If i want to attract a girl, I most change from the way I usually am. I am crazy and insane and people call me disturbed, but I just get bored and need to spice up my life with some randomness.
But when I am around girls, well to even get around girls, I need to be calm and relaxed and roll off some romantic lyrics and show kind gestures. But that is not who I am, and I don't have fun doing it.
So I think you are feeling the same thing, So you are not alone out there, cousin.
So lets take 4evermyslef's advice. Or try at least.
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Hey Sweetie,
You don't need to know anything about being close with guys but to just be you. Don't try to be something your not, because that scares the hell out of boy's believe it or not. Just be you act the way you would infront of any other boy you met as in *friend* wise. If they don't accept you than that is their loss not your's because if all else fail's at least you know you were being true to yourself an not just by someone else's expectation's!
Stephanie-
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There's no instructions on how to be yourself.
Just stop worrying about what other people think and be yourself.
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