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cheating...!!!
I have been going out with this guy for almost a year. And it is pretty serious. I dont get to see him much so it makes it hard for me to say im "with someone" I have cheated on him a lot in the past couple months. I have only told him once and that was almost a year ago. I love him to death and I dont want to hurt him. He is the kinda guy that you wanna be with. If anybody has any advice on how not to cheat on someone. or to tell him please let me know. thanks
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"I cheated on you a lot in the last couple of months."
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I don't want to sound mean to you here, but are you sure you really love him? My only thought here is that if you truly did love him, the thought of hurting him is exactly what would prevent you from cheating on him in the first place.
If you don't want to cheat on him then perhaps you need to consider not being with him at all because (and maybe I have this wrong) it seems you might not be totally committed to your relationship and if this is the case, it might be better if you weren't in one right now. Then you wouldn't need to worry about whether or not you were cheating on him and you would be free to live the single life that part of you at least seems to be crying out for.
Whatever you do decide to do, you need to tell him that you have been cheating on him because he has a right to know the truth.
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If you truly care, love, and respect someone then cheating would never ever be a consideration. If that's what you have to do, then set this guy free, stop hurting him and be on your merry way to dating and finding someone you would never cheat on.
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I agree with the answer below.
Only you can solve this problem.. You say its hard for you to say you're with someone, well if you really love him like you say it shouldn't be so hard. The only way you're going to stop cheating is if you want to. You have to have some sort of self control. If it's not possible to stop cheating then simply don't have a boyfriend.
♥ Evy
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The answer is really simple.
If you truly like someone you do not cheat on them. You may think you do, but you are not ready for that kind of a relationship.
Your not seeing him much doesn't help either. Not
cheating would probably be easier if you saw him more often.
You need a guy to do things with when you are a teen. If hes to far away for that to be possible, you may just have to settle for being friends for now. :)
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