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Q: hey i have a question. does anyone know of any programs to download music that would work for windows XP without having to have administrator's privileges? i cant seem to find any and my dad put a password on his windows account so i cant get on there and download one. anyone know of any?
Um if you're asking what I think your asking I think you should try limewire. It really works. Leave any questions, comments, or concerns in my inbox.

Jessica ♥

Q: my sister is 10 and she's had sex so many times that she lost count and each time was with a different guy. i'm jealous cuz i've only had a boyfriend when i was in 6th grade and we never even thought of doing anything. my sister is really my step sister and she lives with my step mother and my dad. my step mother doesn't care what she does and my dad is just clueless. my sis is so young she didn't even know what virgin meant. i think she's going to end up pregnant as soon as she gets her period and i want her to stop having sex. how?
Omg! This is serious. I mean, even if her parents don't seem to care I think you should at least try talking to them and telling them. If they don't believe you, get proof. Wow.

Q: i need a free place to burn cds....



help please
limewire

Q: hey umm i have really liked this boy for awhile but he has a girlfriend. so should i tell him that i like him. or should i not so i dont ruin our friendship? or what should i do? plez help.
I think that you should wait until he maybe breaks up with his g/f. Just keep playing it cool, and dont try to hit on him or anything. Just act like you normally would, and wait till theyve had enough and are broken up. just dont do anything until (no flirting etc.)theyve broken up.

Jessica ♥

Q: Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me?
0o0 thats a tough one. I really dont want to tell you to stop being friends with her, but maybe when shes an okay mood maybe ask her why she does that. I doubt she has a real reason, but try talking to her. And if that doesnt work, give her a break for a bit, and see how she reacts after. Just make sure if you give her a break she wont get mad.

Jessica x3

Q: im 15, blonde, athletic, skinny and about 5'11 and i don't think im ugly..but idk if guys are like intimidated by my height or what..i have alot of friends..but not that guy friends that i hang out with..so any suggestions on how to be more outgoing around guys w/ out being self concious about my height..or just any general advice would be great!
I wouldnt worry about it. You sound fine to me. I mean,so what if youre tall? Just be yourself around other guys..if they dont wanna hang out with you, thats their problem..i say dont worry about it.

Q: ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore
If you're not ready, I would say dump him. Its up to you what to do, but if I were you, I would say hes gotta go and ship him out the door. You dont know if hes done it with any other girls and how many- If hes got a disese. And dont even think its not possible, because anythings possible in this messed up world. Dump him.Hes a loser, especially if you just met weeks ago and now he told you that. He may be using you.

Jessica x3

Q: okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!
Omg Im the same way..I think that we're just so worried about it we keep worrying about and having to go to the bathroom alot to check it. I've never has the blood leak through or anything in public at least. The best you can do is know when its really heavy and even when youre light, wear dark colors. I made the mistake one time of wearing like, light blue..and it wasnt good..and especially if you like, wear pads its alot harder. The only things to know are to know when its at its heaviest, and always dark colors no matter how light you are..just in case. Hope I helped!

Jessica x3

Q: ok I have been doing about 60 situps a day and now my stomiac hurts in the bottom of it. REALLY BAD to. Whats wrong and whats going on. I will rate all 5'd 4 good answers. (Please exuse the misspelled words) Thanks
Have you been stretching before you start? Even though your only doing sit-ups you still need to stretch. And are you used to doing them? If not that may be the problem..

Jessica X3

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thanx

Q: I am 13 and my parents still treat me like a baby! They won't let me get hair highlights! How do I convince them to let me get highlights??
I rate very high!
Wow. Tell your parents that you have certain needs. And one of those would be highlights. I mean...your 13..you need to have all your needs. My mom let me get highlights that way...i didn't say it exactly that way..but it was similar.

Jessica x3

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xcheerbabex108
Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:

I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.

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