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my boyfriend has benn acting weird on the phone and i asked him why he was acting funny and he said he wasent. Is he cheating on me or am i overreacting? (link)
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Unfortunately, I cannot determine if he's cheating on you because he's acting weird on the phone with you. Really, it could be anything, since it's a common sign in just about everything. He could have been upset about something, there may be something going on at home or with his friends that you don't know about, etc.
Is there any other clues/signs that makes you think he's cheating? Please, answer back in an inbox question.
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you answered my question about the whole arm thing and you suggested the sally hansons stuff. Do you know where i could get it? Does target have it?
thanks again (link)
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Yes, I remember your question! I get mine at CVS, you can get it at pretty much any drugstore. I'm not sure if Target has it, because I've suprisingly never been there, but more than likely, they will have it. You might try looking it up on their website - but keep in mind, they may not have it posted on there, even if it's in the store.
P.S. Trust me, you will not regret buying this stuff when you get it. It's a miracle worker. =)
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ok so i am now 14 and i have been gettin weird feeling about my body and i have beenwanting to fingure myself and have sex. so the other day i fingured myself and i loved it. i did it for about 30 min. and then i had a guy do it. is that bad. (link)
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I don't think it's bad because they're normal feelings, especially because that and masturbation is pretty much the safest sex you can have. However, I do NOT recommend having sex (intercourse, oral, anal) at your age. It's something worth waiting for, and not to be rushed into. It's also something that you may end up regretting, and there are so many diseases and you have the chance of getting pregnant.
So please, consider and take my advice - I wouldn't tell you this if it wasn't the best thing for you. I've seen too many of my friends go through hardships for rushing into sex, and I don't want you to go through the same thing.
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are all youtube videos blurry? (link)
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No, not all of them, but a bunch are. Most of the music videos from Universal, and other brand names come out high quality.
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Do you think it's wrong to change how you look or change you to make yourself more comfortable with yourself? (link)
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No, I think it's fine if that's what you want - most people only object to changing yourself, if it's just for another person, instead of yourself.
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white rumor
pink muziq
what would be better? i can't decide. if any one of you have any one of those phones, what's it like? (link)
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My friend has the Pink Muziq, and she loves it. So I definitely recommend it. =)
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i'd like to get opinions and comments on the different types of bikini waxes. i've always wanted to get one. but never really knew anything about it.. any suggestions? (link)
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I recommend only buying the kits you can get at drugstores, to just wax the sides of your bikini. Rather than paying a lot more money and enduring A LOT more pain with a brazilian wax. Believe me, you don't wanna go through that.
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Ever since I was 12 years old, I had a crush on this guy (same age). We're now both almost 16 and he still doesn't know. He's been in most of my classes from the 6th grade to the 10th grade. We don't really talk. But we sometimes sit next to eachother (either from a seating chart or somewhere else) but we still never talk. Now, believe me...the crush is HUGE. I have ALWAYS tried EVERYTHING possible to get his attention lol.
Me and this guy speak the same language. The problem is that..I think I intimidate him ??...Like, I'm one of the smartest people in my class and I think that's a big turn-off because you'll always hear the teacher calling my name as the highest score or something. I also always used to cry in the 7th/8th grade because of any bad grades, and that mightve creeped him out. (He told one of my guy friends that I annoyed him when I cried)
I REALLY like him. And I don't know what to do. I've changed since the 6th grade (I used to be fat/acne/etc) And now I think of myself as much prettier/worthier. I can't tell if he's worth it or not (seeing as how he talked "shit" about me to my guy friend)
What can I do? What would you do?
I'm too shy to flirt with him :| he doesn't even talk to me!
almost 16/f. (link)
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Hello, I think this link will help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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f/15
Well I really like this guy and he's in 1 of my classes, but the problem is, he literally sits on the other side of the classroom from me. So that makes it harder for me to go talk to him. If he sat like beside me or in front of me then I could talk to him, but now I don't even get the chance to! So what can I do??? Any ideas on how I can go about talking to him??? Thanx in advance! (link)
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You could try talking to him while he's getting his books and/or in the hall, before class. Or you could even try sitting with him at lunch, or talking to him after school. The link below might help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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Well I'm 15 now and I first got my period when I was 12. So I don't know when the period starts to become regular??? but mine isn't and I don't know if that's normal or if I'm just over reacting...
Oh and here's my hight and weight if needed:
Hight: 5'5"
Weight: 106lbs (link)
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It's totally normal, I'm 15 too and have had mine since I was 11 and my period still isn't regular. Sometimes you're never regulated, or you'll get regulated and have irregular periods every now and then. It's different with other people, but it's normal either way. =)
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How do u create a web site and get people to look at it? (link)
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I personally, recommend Freewebs, especially for the first time making a website. Everything is super easy to make and the instructions are layed right out, for you. So I suggest you start there, they have tools on there to help promote your website. You can always tell your friends and family too, anything helps.
www.freewebs.com
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14/f
There is something wrong with my breast.
But I dont know what it is.
My right breast started hurting really bad on Thanksgiving day,but I didnt really think anything of it.
Well Friday and until today it was hurting really really bad.like barely poke it and i wanted to cry.
I was looking at it today and on the inner side (the side furtherest from my right arm pit of my breast.) is pinkish. and really hardish. it doesnt feel like it my left breast which feels perfectly fine.
What could it be?
Should I tell my and get her to make me a doctors appointment?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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None of us, or at least most of us, are not doctors - but we can tell that something is wrong. I think the best thing you can do is tell your mother what's happening, and have her make you a doctor's appointment.
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my sister really needs to find a new hairstyle, but i dont know what to suggest, she has long dark brown hair, like to her butt long, its naturally straight, and shes got this cute heart shaped face, does anyone have any suggestions?!? (link)
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Hello, please take a look at #3. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=519359
P.S. I recommend getting it cut to shoulder-length or a little past the shoulder, with sideswept bangs.
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where can i get a pair of sunglasses like these?
http://b6.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01092/65/97/1092417956_l.jpg
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I have a pair just like those, and I bought them at American Eagle. They were $20 and I love them!
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okayy..so i was reading something about like making your teeth whiter..&& one of the things said lemon juice && baking soda..but i was wondering if lime juice would work just as well?? (link)
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First off, I know that baking soda works well with whitening teeth. I have toothpaste with basking soda included, and it keeps my teeth good and white.
Now, with the lemon and lime juice - I've heard mixed opinions. So unfortunately, I cannot determine whether it would work or not. I personally, wouldn't chance it, but that's just me. I'm afraid to put anything on my teeth that I don't know will work, I don't want to ruin them. But of course, the decision is totally up to you.
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has anyone dyed their hair with kool-aid before? did it work? if you have any suggestions with how not to screw up on the process please tell me. thank you.
p.s. i currently sport black hair. so i may need to bleach it? i dunno. (link)
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Hi, I haven't personally done this, so I looked up a link for you. =)
http://www.ehow.com/how_2040621_dye-hair-kool-aid.html
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what do you call the kind of neckline on this shirt:
http://community.livejournal.com/madradhair/30073799.html#cutid1 (link)
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I'm not quite sure which picture you're talking about, but if you're meaning the first picture - it's called a, "V-Neck."
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Is there a way to see when a person on facebook that you ARENT friends with is online? (link)
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Unfortunately, no, you cannot see if a person is online if you are not their friend. Unless as the previous columnist stated - they have their privacy settings set that way.
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Yes, I know Christmas is far away, but will be here soon well, what do you think I should get for my boyfriend? I was hoping to make him something..maybe?
What would you get for your boyfriend, when you've had a good past together.
Thanks! (link)
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Hi, here are some ideas. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
P.S. I think getting a picture frame, putting a picture of the two of you in it and decorating the frame would be cute. Or even making a scrapbook of your pictures together would be great!
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i go to beauty school and i was getting a pedicure one night and another student was sitting next to me chatting to meand the girl doing it and he looked at me and said it looked like i had fallen arches. What does it mean to have fallen arches? how can it be corrected? and is it a big problem? (link)
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Hi, it means you have flat feet. Most people don't have problems with their feet, but in some cases they do. Here's more information - I'm sure you have nothing to worry about though. =)
http://seniorhealth.about.com/od/footconditions/a/flat_feet.htm
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