|
I like him and its killing me..
Ever since I was 12 years old, I had a crush on this guy (same age). We're now both almost 16 and he still doesn't know. He's been in most of my classes from the 6th grade to the 10th grade. We don't really talk. But we sometimes sit next to eachother (either from a seating chart or somewhere else) but we still never talk. Now, believe me...the crush is HUGE. I have ALWAYS tried EVERYTHING possible to get his attention lol.
Me and this guy speak the same language. The problem is that..I think I intimidate him ??...Like, I'm one of the smartest people in my class and I think that's a big turn-off because you'll always hear the teacher calling my name as the highest score or something. I also always used to cry in the 7th/8th grade because of any bad grades, and that mightve creeped him out. (He told one of my guy friends that I annoyed him when I cried)
I REALLY like him. And I don't know what to do. I've changed since the 6th grade (I used to be fat/acne/etc) And now I think of myself as much prettier/worthier. I can't tell if he's worth it or not (seeing as how he talked "shit" about me to my guy friend)
What can I do? What would you do?
I'm too shy to flirt with him :| he doesn't even talk to me!
almost 16/f.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Try and talk to him when you sit next to him in lesson, Say hi or smile when you pass him in the halls. Become friends with him first, dont flirt with him just talk to him and see if you have anything in common. talk about what music you like and see if he likes the same things as you, if he does thats great because it gives you something to talk about.
If you think he likes you as more than a friend ask him if he wants to hang out at the weekend or try and ask one of his friends if he likes you.
Hope this helped
=]
Good luck hun
]
Hello, I think this link will help you out. =)
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
]
Seeing your position, I cant really just tell you to quit liking him... Because i know what its like being next to the one person you like alot and not uttering a word to him...But let me tell you guys dont generally think "shit" about a girl without a reason...Have you done something that creeped him???(Excluding the crying part?) The answer is probably a no. And the person who told you that the guys been talking crap about you? Is he reliable? He could be lying, you know... The best way is to talk to him...You cannot expect things to happen on its own...Start with a simple Hi (with a smile)...Later,Move on to studies (and tell him how your people force you to study so he doesn't think youre a nerd)...And Finally, move on to your life gradually... It is simple...Guy dont like girls who are shy, they like girls who speak their minds and be themselves. And about the deserving bit- I think you are the judge of that. Look at the other girls he talks to. Are they as pretty as you? If no, then he probably doesn't deserve a pretty girl like you and if yes, then YOU deserve him...
BEST OF LUCK Hun...
]
More Questions: |