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How do you know if he really isnt in love with you anymore (link)
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It really depends on the guy. Each man is different.
In most cases, they'll stop wanting to spend time with you. That's a pretty big sign. Other than that, you should probably just talk to him about it if you are having doubts.
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I'm at a lost for words.. I met a beautiful girl when I came back home from my deployment she was perfect for me when been together for 2 years till she wanted a break, it hurted me but I support her because I just want her to be happy hopefully I was the one for her. I got a ring and was ready because she wasn't over me, she came to my place and we made love all night told her I loved her she said it too. The next day she told me she was talking to someone eles. She moved in with him and already engaged with him. Our relationship was so perfect now I don't know if I'll find love again. (link)
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You didn't really ask a question..but this would be my advice for you. Let her go, forget about her, and move on.
Love hurts. She clearly did not know what love is. She jumps from you to another guy, you don't do that when you're in love.
Anyways, you need to do what's best for you. Don't contact her at all. Live your life, keep yourself occupied and you'll meet someone else.
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7years I have liked this guy, we met up, and spoke for those entire 7 years. everything was going great until 2 weeks ago. My sister slept with him in my bed! whilst my cousin was asleep in there!!. I am heartbroken and so confused. It started when I txt him, he was feeling down so I thought what the hell me, my sister and my mates were going for drinks so he could join us for a cheer up. So my sister knew how I felt I mean all I have done for those 7years is talked to him. She slept with him that night, and today they have gone out on a date behind my back instead of telling me the truth. Tears prick in my eyes every time I mention it. when I confronted her about that night she laughed and smirked at me as tears ran down my face. I have to live with her which makes it worse! I just need to know what to do?? because it is taking every ounce of me not to hit her. and what is confusing me is that I am not mad at him but I should be right?? help me please... (link)
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Why were you guys only talking for 7 years? Why haven't you guys dated? Did he just not know you liked him or something?
I'm just saying because 7 years is a long time to just like someone without taking it to the next level. It sounds like someone who is in middle school and has liked that person for 4 years but can't do anything about it.
Anyways, it's fine to be mad at her. It wasn't right of her to sleep with the guy you like. Of course, he also choose to sleep with her. He wanted it just as much as she did and didn't take your feelings into consideration. So he doesn't see you the way you see him.
He doesn't seem like he was ever serious about your relationship. I mean for the obvious reason that he slept with your sister, but besides that, he hasn't committed to you. You didn't mention what the reasons for that was.
So my advice is to move on. Don't continue talking to this guy. You're gonna have to forgive your sister eventually or at least get on better terms.
Give yourself some time to move on. Don't go yelling or doing anything at all to your sister or the guy. That would be the childish thing to do. So stop talking to him, don't act mean to your sister, don't sit around and cry in front of them. Do that by yourself, then pick yourself up and get back out there.
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How do you break up or, tell a guy you dont want to be thier gf without hurting them?? (link)
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No matter you do, it'll hurt him. Break ups hurt no matter how you handle it.
Of course there are better ways to handle it than others though.
You need to be honest and kind. Don't break up with him through a text or a note. Talk to him face to face when no one else is around. Spare him the embarrassment.
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Ever since I started Highschool I've been kept on being bullied, sweared at, almost raped, and when I tell me teachers, they say "Say no!" This boy in year 11 keeps on raping me and saying "Let's have sex in the bathroom" and I scream and run. In primary school, there was a bunch of lez who kept trying to kiss me, and then the teachers in primary school was saying "they just trying to be your friend, playing around" but they once tried to pull my trouses down and I've been so nervous everyday that my attendance is like 10% please someone help me! D; I wanna learn, and have a good time, P.S I am a girl 14 years old (link)
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You need to talk to people who will listen to you.
Make sure you tell your parents. Your parents can also go to the school and talk to the principal.
You also should talk to the school counselor.
You obviously should say no, but you shouldn't have to fear for your safety and it's wrong of teachers to not take a stand and help you.
So talk to your parents, the principal and the school counselor.
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15/f I'm a sophomore in high school and ever since last year guys have always taken notice of me. I knew I would get some attention from guys but I did not think I would get as much attention as I did. A lot of times, if I wasn't so laid back, I could reported it as sexual harassment or something because I didn't know many of them. But now I am friends with mostly all of them and they are all really great guys. anyway I hear things that guys say about as far as my looks and everything how I'm attractive and like I take it as a compliment but it bothers me that guys are so intimated by me. Guys that are older than me are hesitant to talk to me even though I know they want to talk to me and make conversation. I know it's normal for guys to get nervous around girls but guys are straight up like scared of me. I don't take shit from anyone, I'm confident, and I'm attractive to guys so I guess it does make sense to why guys are afraid because for example if I don't want to do something with a guy that I don't want to do I will tell them straight up no and I think they are just afraid of rejection but I'm not gonna change that part of me. But mostly they think I'm really cold but I'm not you just have to get to know me. I have trust issues with guys so I'm not the most outgoing flirtatious girl around guys I'm a little more reserved around guys and then one I get to know them I'll open up. But even a guy I hooked up(made out)with two weeks ago I saw him and he didn't say hi even though I knew he would've he's just afraid and I don't even know why. It's like I always have to make the first move and I'm kind of tired of it. How do I make guys feel not so intimated around me?? (link)
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Guys who are in high school and even barely out of high school are intimated by girls they find attractive. Even some of the most confident guys are afraid of rejection.
I went to college and a 21 year old guy talked to many people I knew and let them know he was interested in me but could not approach me. He's one of the most outgoing guys I know now.
Don't change who you are. In the end, if a guy really wants to get to know you, he will.
Also, instead of waiting for them to try to talk to you or come up to you and you already know they're interested, just go talk to them. They'll know next time that they can approach you and it shows them that you are interested too.
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I am a 14 year old female. I've asked previous questions regarding my grandmothers passing and anything family related. I brought that up because I feel that my question today may have something to do with it. Today it has been 3 months that my grandmother has passed away. Ever since my parents have had a tad bit of money issues. Well today I went to a local ice cream shop with my sister. We had already ordered what we wanted so we were just waiting for them to hand us the ice cream. The shop was completely alone. I turned around and a teenage guy I would say looked about 17 or 18 years old was talking to the cashier. I hadn't seen him walk in or heard the door open. He was talking to the cashier for a bit then another worker handed my ice cream. I was sitting down at one of the tables and I stood up to go get it at the counter. Nothing was on the floor, counter. Everything was clear. Then when I was walking back I noticed the guy had bent down to pick something up, he walked towards me and handed me a $10 bill. I was confused and he had said I dropped it. I received and thanked him thinking my sister may have dropped the bill. I asked and she had the bills already in her wallet. When I turned around to see if the guy was still there he was gone. We left right after and he was no where to be seen in the distance. I was confused and panicked. I'm thinking that maybe it was my grandmother letting me know that me and my family will get through this and that we'll soon regain the money we need to be able to carry on as we usually did. (link)
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In my opinion, it's a sign of encouragement, especially in your situation. If you feel like it's your grandmother letting you know that you'll get through this, that's fine.
As for logical, the logical explanation would be that it was an awesome coincidence and that man was simply mistaken.
Although he was mistaken, you can definitely take it as a sign of encouragement from your grandmother.
You're allowed to look at it however you would like. The logical way or the spiritual way. Either way is fine.
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hey, 2 weeks ago me 18 years old and my gf 15 years old were having sex, and by mistake we didnt use a condom but i split my sperms outside her vagina in her tummy . My question what are her chances of getting pregnant even if i split my sperms outside? and how can i find wether she is pregnant or not? (link)
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Yes, it's possible for her to get pregnant. Always wear a condom. Even if you didn't get sperm inside her, you sure did get precum inside of her. Precum contains sperm and that alone can get her pregnant.
The way she can find out if she's pregnant is if she purchases a pregnancy test and follows the directions on how to use it.
If it says she's positive, then she needs to see a doctor to confirm it and start looking at option.
Next time, use a condom and make sure she is on birth control.
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I always read about girls getting crushes on their male teachers but I wonder if the same thing happened with boys and female teachers (link)
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Yeah it happens quite often.
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i used to love the classic Disney Cartoons as a kid they did great in the 20s 30s 40s 50s 60s 70s 80s 90s and early 20000s back when i really loved disney i used enjoy toon disney becuase it had wonderful cartoons but whats popular with Disney now is shows that i really cant stand such as Ant Farm Austin and Ally Shake it Up Good Luck Charlie and i regret the days when Hannah Montana Wizards of Waverly Place and Jonas were popular im real sick of it why did that all happen (link)
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I'd have to agree that the classic Disney cartoons were great but the reason why they stopped making shows like that is because of modern times.
As we get older, everything changes. Most of the generation growing up likes shows like that.
It's with everything. A long time ago there were flip phones, now we have the iPhone. A long time ago we had classic video games, now we have more updated types of video games.
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My boyfriend and I are in high school and we've been dating for three weeks. I usually walk him to his classes and ask him questions but apparently, I'm doing something wrong. He told me Friday night, he wants me to talk to him more, instead of asking questions all the time but honestly that's all I know to say to him! I think I'm too worried about what to say to him than just talking to him...I really don't want our relationship to end soon or ever for that matter. He has a really sweet heart in him and I don't want to disappoint him. Any ideas? Help is much appreciated..thanks in advance!(: (link)
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I agree with Rahzie. Asking questions is the obvious thing to do. It's how you learn more about each other. Other than that, maybe just talk to him about your day. Talk to him about the class you were in and things that happened..if anything interesting happened. Maybe something that recently happened with your family.
It's pretty much the same way you'd talk to a friend.
Asking questions is talking so idk. It'd be good for him to ask questions too because it'll give you guys more to talk about.
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I have to baby sit my niece and nephew tomorrow after they get home from school and the little girl is 12 and my nephew is 10 but all I did with them today was watch a movies which was monsters university and mad pop corn after I helped them with their homework and they got bored quickly and I don't have any more ideas so we just basically watched movies when they got home any ideas would be appreciated and please remember I don't have transportation and I am on a tight money budget so any tips would be greatly appreciated thanks . (link)
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Here are some ideas...
Maybe take out some coloring books and you all can color.
Kids love crafts like fingerpainting or playdo or something.
You all can read. Maybe like make a tent out of blankets and put some pillows in there, pop some popcorn and read, you guys can even watch movies in there.
Baking. Maybe make some simple cookies or brownies together.
Sing and dance.
Games. If they have any board or card games, play some of those. There are also video games, Simon says, Hide and seek, ect.
I know you said you don't have transportation, but if they live in a nice neighborhood, you guys can go for a walk to the park or walk the dogs or ride bikes.
I don't what they have but I hope this helped.
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Why are people in college so shallow? Why is every girl obsessed with having a boyfriend instead of being good at something or being intelligent. I am deeply invested in my school studies because I love what I am studying and predict it will be a life-long passion. I just feel so left out. (link)
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People in general are shallow. You'll find them everywhere.
I know plenty of girls obsessed with getting a boyfriend but I also know lots of girls who would rather invest their time into other things they love. You're not the only one, so don't feel left out.
Just continue focusing on what you love.
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2 weeks ago me 18 years old and my gf 15 years old were having sex. By mistake we didnt use a condom but i split my sperms outside her vagina im her tummy . My question what are the chances of her getting pregnant even after i split my sperms outside. And what should i do next?
plz i need urgent answers (link)
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Yes there is a chance of pregnancy. You didn't use a condom so precum alone can get a girl pregnant. That's why you sometimes hear stories of girls getting pregnant when they only had sex for like 3 seconds. It's definitely possible.
You guys shouldn't be having sex if you can't remember to use a condom and just expect it to be ok and have her not come out pregnant.
If you guys continue to have sex, make sure she gets on birth control and you always use condoms.
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Is it wrong for a 16 year old and a nearly 24 year old to like eachother more than just friends? (link)
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It's illegal.
It's not that the age difference is necessarily a bad thing, it's because the 16 year old is a minor. Even if the 16 year old was involved with a 19 or 20 year old, it'd still be illegal and would still be wrong.
So before the 24 year old gets in trouble, they should stop seeing each other.
Even if nothing is going on sexually, in the law it's just assumed. So don't get involved in any way at all.
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My mom saw my self-harm scars and told my dad.. Well he called me an attention-seeker. He doesn't know what I go through and why I do it and I don't want to tell him. What do I do?
P.S. Please don't tell me to get professional help or anything like that. Thanks (link)
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But you NEED professional help. Seriously, it's not good to cut for whatever reasons you have.
You don't need to make your dad understand. He probably won't, my dad never did either. Lots of parents don't understand no matter what the reasons may be.
You need to stop hurting yourself. You can't stop on your own. You need to get real, serious help. Talk to your mom.
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This girl I like...Okay this is complicated, please stick with me!
I'm in love with this girl, she's my best friend, and I swear to God sometimes I think she feels the same way. But, then again, I get confused because I know she finds these types of situations uncomfortable. I will ask my question in a second, just stand by:
She once date this guy, and I was so depressed, that I guess it was obvious because she broke up with him, because she saw what it did to me.
But then, when we were at prom, I saw her watching them (him and his girlfriend) dance and the look on her face was heartbreaking, and I could tell she was angry. I feel so terrible, so completely terrible...I love her more than anything and I feel like I'm the reason she can't be happy. But, I won't allow myself to date either because of this, because if she can't have happiness, neither can I. I just want to kiss her, to love her, to show her how much she means to me. But I don't want to ruin what we already have. I guess I'm kind of pathetic, huh?
I'm a girl, so that makes things even more complicated huh? (link)
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I'm assuming she's straight?
If so, then you really need to move on. Not just for your sake, but for hers. You already know what you're doing is selfish. Love is selfish and it sucks when the other person doesn't feel the same way.
If you want, you can tell her how you feel. If that will help you at all, I don't know. You said you don't want to ruin what you guys have, but until you actually decide to move on, this will ruin what you guys have. Mostly because you can't be friends with someone you have feelings for. Being friends with someone means that you need to be their friend even when they're interested in other people. It also means accepting the fact that they will be with other people.
So if you can't accept that, then you need space. You need to get over her.
Until you do, don't spend a lot of time around her, don't text, message, or call her. Stop praying that she won't get a boyfriend, if she's really your friend, you need to support her and be happy for her. You can't sit and wish something will happen when you won't tell her how you feel. You either need to tell her how you feel or move on.
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I'm M/18, freshman in college. I'm currently going to college, majoring in engineering. I hate it. I really do. I don't want to go anymore. What I really want to do is have a successful band. I didn't really have a choice. High school and family basically forced me to go. I honestly feel that I'm wasting time sitting in my 3 hour classes. I feel like I could actually be doing something. My whole life it's been "you have to do this/you have to do that." I'm tired of it. I want to do what I want for a change. You might say I should keep college as a backup, but I disagree. What's holding me back with music is time and money. If I could get a job and save and invest, I can get the equipment I need. I understand that being in a band does NOT guarantee success at all. But the way I see it, is that it's similar to a business. If you don't put time and investment into it, you'll get nowhere. So I should at least try. I'm not a big spender, I have no expensive addictions (I don't smoke, I don't buy lotto, I don't buy sneakers etc.) I just want to get this thing rolling. I don't want to be like everyone else. Everyone is going to college now. Everyone is getting into debt. College doesn't guarantee success either. My parents went, my sister went, etc. My sister is an NYU graduate, yet she lives down the block from me in the same "ghetto." I don't want to just have a stable job. I want to enjoy my life, I want to be my own boss. I'm willing to work and save for it. But my parents would get so pissed if I stopped going to school. I'm not on Earth to satisfy my parents though. So if I think I have a chance at success against the odds, why not try? See, we all have dreams, images, pictures of what we want. Each one is different, might be very similar, but each is unique. The thing about us is that, no matter how far fetched that dream or idea is, to an extent, we can bring it to reality if we truly want it. I really don't want to tell my parents about this, but I also don't want to waste their money and go against my dreams. (link)
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I also don't see a question. It just sounds like you're trying to convince yourself to drop out of college.
Everybody has different dreams. If you want to drop out of college and get a job and focus on your band, then do that.
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Okay so I'm 18.
I have a boyfriend and we've been together for 1 month but my parents don't know.
His know about me and I've even met them. I have had a boyfriend before that my parents knew about.
But we don't have that 'friend' relationship-like they see me as their baby still even though I don't live with them!
So how shall I tell them about this guy? (link)
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If you want to tell them you have a boyfriend, go ahead. It's always nice for the guy to meet the parents anyways if you're serious about him.
If you don't want to, and your boyfriend doesn't have a problem with it, then you don't need to. Or if the relationship isn't serious yet, then you can wait.
As to how to tell them. Just tell them you met a guy you really liked and started talking, now you guys are dating.
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I have a friend named Sarah we've been friends for about a year now. She has a guy named John she's never been boyfriend with but has liked for a year now too. John and her both hook up with other people and not just eachother. Last week she heard from someone me and John had hooked up before drunkenly we made out. I do not remember this at all. Also it happened 10 months ago when she was actually still kind of seeing her ex boyfriend. She also hooked up with a guy I dated and lied to me about it but she's somehow trying to turn ppl against me. She did the same thing to me and everyone's mad at me right now because her and John have been good lately. Did I do anything wrong? (link)
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It just sounds like they are in a friends with benefits relationship. He clearly isn't very serious about her anyways if he hooked up with you.
Usually you won't hook up with someone your friend is hooking up with unless that friend doesn't care.
You didn't do anything wrong, but it's not like it was right either if you know what I mean.
If you feel like you should apologize, go ahead.
Even if she did the same thing to you, it doesn't mean that it makes it ok to do the same thing. It just sounds like unnecessary drama.
But she doesn't sound like a good friend in the first place. If she's mad at you and trying to turn everyone against you, that's high school drama and you don't need friends like that. So just let it go and eventually it'll all blow over.
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