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hi, my friend really needs a babysitting job. we live in walpole, ma. any suggestions? i need advice asap. thx guys!
xo_always-Kerri (link)
Well, this is really no problem @ all! There are tons of things you could do to advertise your services to people. You could print up some flyers and put them on different poles in and around town. Also, you could go and put some in local neighbors mailboxes. You could go and put some on peoples doors..or if you neighborhood has a local monthly magazine most of the time they have a place where you can put your name, age, job, and nuber in it..and it's free! If you need any more ideas let me know!! Hope I helped!! :)


ok, i dont have a yeast infection, but my discharge smells kinda bad. its not clumpy, and im not itchy. i dont see a gynochologist yet either. (im 13) (link)
Okay, well there are some factors to consider here: Is there any burning down there? If so, then you could have any of the following or perhaps something else: yeast infection, vaginal infection, urinary tract infection..etc. It is very normal to have this discharge, but there really isn't suppose to be a smell accomadated with it..but before you get all scared...think about: the foods you have been eating lately? Also, maybe you are tinklin' in your panties a bit..this could give it a slight urinated odor...Think about those things..but like I said, it's not suppose to smell and if there is any discoloration you MUST see a doctor. If oyu aren't totally confortable with seeing a docotr, just tell your mom and there are lots of over hte counter remedies that help with the above mentioned...she should know all about them, if not you can always ask me! I hope i helped..and if things don't improve..then you really need to go to a doctor..most of the time they don't even look down there, they just make you pee in a cup!! Good luck! :)


cool. thx. i'm like, phobic 2 razors, lol. that's y i might start using it in the first place. so like, do u use it? i was just wondering, does it hurt at all? like, can u make it go up and down on your bikini area and nothing will happen? thx. muah!
~*~erin~*~ (link)
Well, its a little different than an actual razor, like I previously said, it's not nearly as sharp and it has these like grooves (kind of resembles a comb with a lil motorish vibrationish)And yes, I have used it. It does not hurt at all, yes you can go perfectly up and down your bikini area with no hastle, but just keep in mind, that because this product differs from a razor and is not as sharb you don't realize how much you take off so fast...like my one friend has the "Finishing Touch" which is the same thing but not totally targetted for your bikini area, and she did her eyebrows and she couldnt feel herself removing the hair that she completey got rid of em!! So just be careful, but it should work for ya!! :)


I am a level 2 moderator and I accidentally deleted a question. It was a very good question and I did not want to delete it (I was trying to hit view). Is there any way I can fix this? (link)
I'm not totally sure because I am only a level 1 moderator, but I don't think you can...but to be 100% sure of what is the best solution click on the "Contact Us" option on the left hand side panel..they will definately be able to give you the correct answer..they focus mainly on tech and site problems!! Also, you may want to try the "Help" option located just a little lower. Hope I helped!! :)


does bikini touch really work like it does on TV? (link)
Well, yes and no. I mean it does work just as it appears; however often times with info-mercial products they leave out some minute details. In this case, what the company fails to inform you about hte product is the fact that the product like "The Finishing Touch" wand is really almost exactly like a razor it just is not nearly as sharp, but it's only cutting the hair like a raiser would,(Thus the hair comes back just as fast) not getting it fron the root. So that is a flaw, but in short...yes it does work and work well. I hope I helped!! I would say get it though, because you have to try everything once, and it's not too expensive..so make a splurge and go for it! :)


ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
Aww, hun! You should love that you are feeling this way!! Love can definately be a scary thing if you let it get the best of you..but you just have to remember all the good stuff and all the good feelings. Don't doubt it. You can't doubt first in a relationship. Don't end things with your boyfriend because you think you may get hurt and/or you are falling to fast..you'll regret it..because you will always have to ask yourself..WHAT IF? You don't want to live your life in questions of WHAT IF! Just be happy with what you have in front of you..enjoy all the lovey dovey moments. And as for the being open thing, I know it's really hard..but just be open! Go balls out (haha). You really only live once and you never know what may happen tomorrow! No regrets girlie!! Just tell your boyfriend how you are feeling..speak from the heart ..but don't be so open like OMG I WANT YOUR BABIES!! You might scare him this soon! But definately tellhim exactly how you are feeling..sweaty palms, scared of being hurt and all! Chances are, he's feeling just the same..but you'll never know unless you take the risk..Love is all about what comes from the heart..and letting your heart make the decisions.....so go with your heart!! :)


What are some good bareeque foods for the 4th of July??? (link)
There are tons of things you could so for the 4th of July @ a barbeque. Here are some ideas for you: potatoe salad, cole slaw, chips, dip, corn on the cob, fruit salads, a cake decorated with red white and blue icing like a flag!!, cookies with that same theme, salad, punch, cokes, water, and if you don't want to do just the usual grilling of hotdogs, steaks, and hamburgers you could make the guest have to cook their own grilled pizzas!! like have all the toppings out and everyone can create their own!! make sure to have some music or some games so itll be a great time! you could also do something if little kids are gunna be there make these really interesting chicken strips...get some boneless skinless chicken strips and put a light coating of mayo (i know sounds weird but u cant aste it at all and it keeps the chicken moist and delicious!!) and then covered them in italian seasoned bread crumbs and then bake them on a cookie sheet at about 300 for about 20 minutes!! and you could put lil tooth pics in them that have flags @ the top! just be creative! I hope I helped! have a nice 4th! :)


Hi, this is the first time I've ever written you. My name is Jeanne I'm 15 and I live in Colorado. Ok here's the problem. I kind of have a "thing" with this guy. What I mean by thing is we hang out all the time and everynight he walks me to my door and kisses me goodnight. I know he likes me because he has told me before. The problem is I want him to commit to me. I mean I want him to be my boyfriend! I'm just too afraid to ask him out because I don't know for sure if he will say yes. The other problem is next year he's going to be a senior so I don't think that the relationship will last very long but you never know. I just really want him to ask me out.. what should I do?? (link)
Hmm, well I think I can help you out with this problem because one of my best friends was just recently in the exact same position. First of all, having a "thing" with a guy is a lot different than having a relationship. And, it's good that you want him to commit to you. Now, I'm not saying it's wrong to kiss someone you aren't going out with because everyone has a different opinion on that, but I would definately say not to do anything more with him just yet. The reason for this being, because you really at this point don't know his true intentions and you don't know his feelings and if you were to do more (sexual) things with him he might get the wrong idea about you and it'll just be a friends with bennifts kind of thing..and you'll get hurt in the end. So what you need to do, is next time y'all kiss when he walks you to the door..you should make a subtle comment like "You know, I usually never kiss guys that aren't my boyfriend." This way he'll get a lil' idea of what you are trying to hint at. Also, say something along the lines of "I kiss you every night because I really like you and I'd like to think you like me to and someday soon we can be more than just a "thing"." This way, you aren't totally asking him out but you are for sure getting the point across to him and he knows you're not just some girl he can kiss without anything attached! If he trys to do more with you than just kissing then you know that his intentions are not sincere and he's not as great as you had hoped and he's not looking to commit..if he responds well to this..well then he'll definately know you like him and want to be with him and he will most likely ask you out! Sometimes boys just need a lil' push, so this way he'll get the hint and respect you! The fact that he's going to be a senior..I know it seems like a big deal now, but at the moment it's really soon to say that you don't want to pursue things..my bfs gunna be a senior next year too..but I know how I feel about him and I know how he feels about me..that's all that should matter to you for now..just play it by ear and have fun with what's in front of you! Don't stress things like that..if y'all are meant to last you'll be able to endure anything! Worry about the hardships after you have the fun! And always remember, everything happens for a reason and things that are meant to be will happen how they are suppose to! I hope that I helped..if you have anything else to ask, feel free! :)


does anyone kno if the loreal self tanner stuff works? i wanna try it out but i need 2 kno if it works or not. thx. (link)
Store bought tanners aren't really the best way to get a "real" looky tan, but they are safer than going to a tanning bed or laying out in the hot sun. Usually with tanners from people like nutrogena and Loreal it dependso n the persons skin pigment how well their skin adats to te new color. It very well could make you look fake and orange! So be careful..There is however one self tanner that does a great job with no streaking no orange no mess..it's called Tonis Tan Perfect or maybe its Toma..but it's sold @ drugstores and places like Target..I always see it at Walgreens..It's about 15 bux and very well worth it. She start from the HSN and now is at local stores. I suggest you try that if anything..Good luck! :)


Well by the time i get the present to him it will be about two and a half months i think. And i cant cook so that wouldnt work. What do you think about having him over my house doing whatever he wants to do and then taking him to see a movie of his choice and a small gift like a basketball (cause he plays) with a note like you said. (link)
Okay!! Well, having him over to your house is a great idea! You can totally spoil him rotten!! And y'all can just have fun together!! Like you can play a board game or something fun like that! And y'all can pigg out on his favorite candy and snacks and y'all can get him a basketball and write something really sweet on it!! Just make sure you make him feel great cause it's his day!! And if you wanted you could go to the grocery store and buy him his favorite kind of cake..no cooking involved there!! Just make sure whatever you do comes from the heart to show him you care..I'm sure he'll have a great bday as long as he spends it with you. :) Good luck, if you need anymore help feel free to ask!! OOO or you could clean his room!! and he'll be totally surprised...haha!!


i really like this boy!
Hi my name is Jessica Im 12 yrs old and i really like this boy. We dated for about 8 and a half months then we broke up. But I went out with another boy about 3 weeks after we broke up but i realized when i was going out with my new b/f that i missed my ex so much so i dumped him now i want my ex back and now hes saying he doesnt know if he still likes me and maybe he might go back out wth me. What should i do (link)
Well, first of all, 8 and a half months at 12 years old is kinda a long time! I use to be in your same postion, and first and foremost you need to know that what's really meant to be is just going to happen! You can't force things like that! You are so young and I know right now it may seem like your ex is the only guy that's ever going to give you those butterflies in your tummy but you really never know until you give some other guys a chance! It's okay to still like your ex..and still want to be with him..boys aren't always as sure as we are..so what I think you need to do is just kinda tell your ex.." You know I really care about you, and I really like you and you make me happy and I want us to work..and I know that you're not so sure so I'll just kinda back off for a week or so and you can tell me what you want and what makes you happy then" Say that to him..and if he tells you within the week then you know he cares about you and you'll get an answer..don't bug him about him though..just let him come to you..don't be too pushy with him Just give it a lil' time..and if it turns out that he doesn't want to be with you..well that's okay there's lots of other fishes in the sea..and it'll be his loss..and who knows if y'all are really meant to be maybe one day you will be back together!! :) Good luck and have fun!!


okay, my boyfriend is away with his family for pretty much most of the summer and his birthday is in 2 weeks and he will be away and i want to get him something nice for a present for when he gets back. Do you have any good ideas? (link)
Well, that's sweet you want to get him something..I think I have some ideas for you! There are a couple factors to consider when deciding this! First, how long have y'all been together? Cause you don't want to do something completely over the top cause he'll be like "UMMMMMMM OKAY!!" So, if he like sports stuff you could so something sports related..if money isn't an issue you could get him tickets to some kind of sporting event..or you could get him like a football or something but like write him a note telling him you love him or something creative like that! You could get him clothes! Or if he's the biggest dork in the world (like my bf) you could get him a talking stuffed animal!! Or some cds he may like! Or you could od a combination of all those things..Or what would be really romantic and sweet is if you cook him dinner and like say if oyu were gunna give him that football as a present when he walks into your house have lil' footballs (like paper ones) as a trail all the way up to his present! If theres a certain band he likes you could use that as the theme and like get him a shirt, concert tickets, cd, dvd stuff like that! Or you could buy a copy of the first movie yall ever saw to gether and then also add on to a movie and make a video tape telling him how you feel about him..my befriend doesn't know it but i have liek 3 suprises for him..I got him a talking sponge bob but i got it specially made so that sponge bob says " hi im sponge bob and i think so and so isa pimp!!" and he says some other stuff and i also made a binder of ever internet conversation we've ever had and its got pictures of me and him on ever page kinda like a scrap book! and its got some poems i wrote about him and i got him a pink shirt!! ((only cuz i think he'll look sexi in pink!!))..whatever you get him make sure its meaningful! it doesn't have to be really expensive..but if you want to splurge you could get him a watch or something!! I would say just make sure your gift is heartfelt..I think the cooking for him would be really sweet and like a paper trail of whatever he loves (if its guitars or something other than sports that would work too) leading up to his present..and make sure to give him lots of huggs and kisses!! :) Hope I helped..if you need more help let me know!


how do i delete any obscene websites i might have gone to in the past parents come home in 20 minutes quickly reply!!!! (link)
Well, first you need to go to the file called "cookies" it is in the c drive. any website you go to will be stored on there. also you need to go into internet explorer and clear the history..to do this go to tools then internet options and you'll see something that say "clear history" and also there will be a "delete cookies" you want to do the cookies both times...so you make sure you get everything..also make sure to empty ur recyclin bin! another thing..you can go to the find option once you click on start and search within the last couple of times you went online and delete inappropriate convos too! good luck!


Can you close your account if you have to @ all?I really want to close it all! (link)
Well, I'm not totally sure but you could go to the "contact us" section on the left hand panel and ask them or go to the "help" panel ((these both appear when you are logged on)) sorry i couldnt be more specific in my help! good luck! :)


hey, can anyone help me out? its like 1:48 a.m. and i can't get to sleep. i was wondering if anyone knows any good sites? i'd really appreciate anything! thank you so much!

~bored (link)
Haha! I have to same problem often! Some sites that always keep me entertained BORED.COM!!! I love the mystic ball link! It's kinda fun to me to go on Ebay.com too and see the different things people sell!! If you want to look just at cars you can go to autotrador.com! Hmm what else, you could go ina chat room..Mtv.Com Cmt.com!!

If you're still bored and need more ideas let me know!! :)


hmmmm do you think i am fat????????

-tarbear- (link)
Well, this really isn't a great question to ask. You really haven't provided me or the other columnists with enough information to asses this. But also, what we think isn't what's important..the question is...DO YOU think YOU are FAT? That's the only opinion you should truly value. You need to be comfortable with how you look and who you are. Those go hand in hand. If you really are concerned about your weight and aren't sure if you are overweight you may want to go to the doctors..he can properly asses this question..he may suggest you go on a diet or watch what you eat..either way..be happy with how God made ya! :)


hey, i was thinking about getting some posters for my room that are of tv shows i like & movies that i like... does anyone know where i could get them where they aren't too expensive.. (link)
Hey there! Okay, well you can always go on google and look up some cheap poster selling websites they are everywhere! And of course there's always walmart!! Or if that's too expensivce for you, you could look on ebay or at garage sales! Good luck!! :)


I would have to say people these days are very IMMATURE. (link)
In some ways, to the person that posted this comment, I would agree with you. But I don't really think that's entirely the peoples whom are immature fault..because really it's a whole society perception thing. Like so many people hear bits and peices of things and want to know about it and etc but that's just because they want to fit in and be accepted or get the kind of attention they see on MTV. What people often fail to realize is that it's the wrong kind of attention causing them to seem so immature to people like you and me..but then again that's just our opinion people could think we are the immature ones for even commenting on this! Haha. :)


this slimy clear (sometimes milky) stuff is comming out of my vigina and i think its cum but i dont know. is it? and how do i make this stuff stop comming!!!????PLEASE HELP! SOMETIMES SO MUCH COMES OUT THAT MY PANTS GET WET SO IT LOOKS LIKE I PEED IN MY PANTS! :( (link)
This is not the third question I have answered that is basically the same! But your in need of some answers..so here ya go..like some of the other adivce columnists have been saying..relax! it's just a vaginal discharge! Almost all girls get it in their undies! No worries! Some girls even have more than others..it simply means that you are a healthy maturing young lady..the fact that it is clear/milky is good..if it begins to change colors then you know you have a vaginal problem. If the amount coming out can't be controlled by wearing a panty liner then go to the doctor..but nothing is wrong with you!! A pantyliner or even thin pad should keep your undies/pants dry..don't worry! :)


ok im not sure how to use tampons iv only used pads so can someone give me instrustions (link)
Hey hun! Don't worry..a few years ago I was just like you! It really is no big deal at all. First of all you need to get the right kind of tampon. I would suggest Playtex Gentle Glide (platic applicator) (unscented) SLIM FITS..You don't wanna hurt your you know! the first time so slim fit will suffice...but if you flow is heavier then you may want to wear a pad with it or change them move frequently and then slowly work your way up to the absorbancy that good for you..what you wanna do it take the applicator (with tampon in it) and kind of at a slant slide it up your hole..if your flow is pretty flowy it'll slide right up there with no problem go as far up as you can like usually to wear the rim is and push in the other part..then pull the applicator out and throw it away. to take out the tampon (make sure it is full otherwise it hurts!!) and gently tug on the string it'll pull right out..you CAN flush tha down the toilet but its not really good for home toilets..just relax!!! and if you still need help feel free to ask..once you get the hang of it though, it'll be a peice of cake! good luck!! :)




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