HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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what can i say to my boyfrind if he being a real bitch to me (link)
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ok ...easy..at THAT moment(when your face to face with him) let all your love and feelings towards him turn to anger and just EXPLODE.Be a bitch to him since he started it,dont be scared.Tell him everything thats been annoying you about him YELL it out if you have to.
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There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???
signed,
LeeAnna Sears, 13, Girl (link)
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i dont see a problem with the age difference but in my opinion i think hes a player.C'mon he slept with half the girls in your jr/senior high school!And if you ever DO get to be with him then seriously forget about unprotected sex cuz he SO 100% has STD's...think of it he slep with a girl in high school...shes slept with another guy before...hes slept with another girl and the guy you like is carrying all of THAT.I think you should try to keep away from him cuz youll be really devastated when he brakes up with you one day and you find out you have std's.try to stay "freinds"
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why did i bleed having sex with my bf even though its not my 1st time? (link)
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mabey the first time you did it your hymen didnt break,some ppl's hymens dont break the first time cuz theyre elastic.he probably just broke your hymen fully this time.
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i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom? (link)
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ok LOOK,the pills may keep you from getting pregnant BUT they wont keep you from getting herpes or other STD's.Why risk getting the diseases when you can make him wear a condom AND take the pill?
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can anyone give me any advice on how to properly tweeze my eyebrows because I currently had them waxed about 4 days ago and small eyebrow hairs are starting to appear. (link)
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you take the tweezer and first remove the hair in the middle that can connect both of your eyebrows.then you remove the small extra hairs on the bottom of each eyebrow.make sure they both turn out the same size and NEVER do your eyebrows from the very top,cuz theyll look awful
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ok well i sorta just got out of a bad reltionship like a month or two ago nd im finally starting to like other ppl...well theres this guy i like nd he knows i like him nd he said he likes me to but im not sure nd i realized that hes one of those playboy guys who has a lot of girls around him nd stays in reletionships for like a month but he seems different and i dont know im confused...i just sorta got away from a guy like that nd i dont want to get hurt again but i dont just wanna mess around for a month too...what do u think i should do? (link)
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Even though you like him,tell him your not interested,it maight be painful to say thatat the moment,BUT its better than the pain youll feel when he leaves you in a month for another girl.Youve just gotten out of a relationship cuz the guy was like your NEW crush,so learn from bad experiences and dont make the same mistakes TWICE.
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Ive been told that you can still be preg. even if you get your period.. Im kinda scared because ive been feelin sick for a week now and i get dizzy and the only think i can think of is that i may be prego because on the 1st i had unprotected sex. but i got my period so is it possible to get your period n still be pregnant (link)
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you cant get your period when your PREGNANT.if you do it means you probably just lost your child.dont worry its probably the reaction of you having sex for the first time,its normal to feel dizzy after your first time.
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I have been friends with this guy since i was 12 im now 17 in the past year n a half we became really close to the point where he will stay at my house and stuff... he went to college but every weekend he would come home and stay here... I used to like him and i told him and he told me that he didn't wanna ruin the friendship and that he didn't feel the same way... One day we were layin in my bed watchin tv and we started messin around and ended up havin sex. It only happen the one time but now he like comes over more and we are always together and everyone thinks we are a couple but were not. All my close friends tells me that he likes me he just won't admit it and i don't kno what to do or think Help
sorry its soo long (link)
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i think you should ask him how he feels towards you so you can know for sure.Ask him and if he says NO, then stop having sex with him cuz hes obviously taking advantage of the fact that you used to like him so,he thinks that if he has sex with you,you wont say no.if it turns out he dont like you dont have sex with him and tell him that you are only freinds.
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i need help on thinking of a science fair project.
school starts in about 2 weeks for our school,
and science fair projects doesn't start for several months after that,
but i just want to make sure i'm ready for it,
and not procrastinate like i used to.
so i need science fair ideas.
and if you can find a site to back up your idea,
that will be awesome!
thank you! (link)
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theres this project you can do to define what density is. The ingerdiants you will need are....
1)2 big jars(each big enough for a pepsi can to be in)
2)one ordinary pepsi
3)one DIET pepsi
you will put the cans of pepsi in the jars and fill the jars with water....you will realize that the diet pepsi floats while the ordinary one sinks....that is because DIET pepsi is less dense than ordianry pepsi
anywayz and you can also check out this website called http://www.all-science-fair-projects.com/category0.html
or theres http://school.discovery.com/sciencefaircentral/scifairstudio/ideas.html
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Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is causing me to be depressed I'll give you some examples.on my 17th birthday she told me that nobody loved me and that I was stupid becouse I was in special ed classes at school.my granny also told me that Iam to fat for my own good and she told me that my mom killed my dad becouse she divorced him when I was 3 and said it broke his heart and that's why he died,but I think she had a pretty good reason for divorcing him when I was 3 becouse he molested me.I took an extra adderal and bloodpressure pill today hoping I would lose weight becouse my granny keeps telling me that iam fat and ugly and I was kind of hoping it would kill me from overdose.my cousin is the only person I can go to with this problem becouse I can trust her to keep it a secreat.I've talked to my cousin about my suicide attempts and she just kept an eye on me and didn't tell my mom about it becouse she knows how my mom is.what should I do? please help me urgent. (link)
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alright listen,nomatter how awful your past is its past and never coming back.you have to forget about it and remember that you still have a future ahead of you and in order to make sure your future will be bright,you must forget the past.ok your dad molested you when you were three(14 years ago)forget it its past and over with so you shouldnt think about it anymore.Theres no reason crying over spilled milk .and about your grandma,i think you need to tell her to stop and if she doenst,tell your mom to make her stop!and anywayz you need to be a lil more confident,if she wants to call you fat and ugly she can go ahead!!it shouldnt bring you down!cuz im sure your pretty and what you lack is confidence and wow suicide?!? no way,i think you should totally forget about that...think about the consenquences,your going to end your life just like that?!!?and do you know you can go to hell for doing that(nomatter what religion)so this way you will lose your life and afterlife!you need to layoff the pills to cuz they arent going to put your problems to an end.go face your grandma even if it does lead you guys to a fight,tell her how you feel and that she needs to stop and if she makes fun of you while your telling her this,tell her "you know what?you can say whatever you want and i know im gorgeous you dont have to be so jealous of me just because im younger" yes...i know its a little harsh to say but this is getting too far.build your future from now by being in good health(not by taking pills), having more confidence ok even if you are a lil chubby,lose some weight and look your best!be good in your studys in order to go to college and have a real job and when that comes youll be confident,rich,healty and succesful and whatever your grandma will say then will not matter to you!because when you are ill confident you give other people the key to bringing you down.
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ok soo im going to a wedding tomorrow and im going to a hair salon to get it done. any ideas? my hair is medium length w/ long layers. (link)
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yeah go to www.beautifulhairstyles.com
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My boyfriend cheated on me one week after we got together. Now I have taken him back (about 2 weeks after he cheated on me). All of my friends thinks it's a misstake but I believe in second chaces and I like this guy...All advicenators out there do you believe in the term- "once a cheater, always a cheater"??
Was it a big misstake to take him back, should I dump him for what he did to me? (link)
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i definetly believe in that term.."once a cheater always a cheater" your lucky you didnt get to be with him for long,dump him while you still can before he takes advantage of you and your feelings.its no mistake what he did,hes not ready for a relationship but save yourself before you fall in love with him and leave him.youll meet pleanty of guys that deserve it and dont EvEr TaKe HiM back cuz everything he says is and will be a lie,if he loved you or respected you he wouldnt have cheated on you.He just likes attention and likes a lot of girls around him so he can brag to his freinds.
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my best friend has bein with her boyfriend for 5 months rite they have had sex about 17 times...
He doesnt believe in using a condom,and they havent once. 4 times shes put me under pressure saying shes pregnet and i have bein with her through it no matter what. She lost the baby the last time and the last 3 times was jus a miss hab. But now you see its happeing again she she hasnt come on here periods 4 2 months and can feel movement in her womb what shall i do?? Shes only 14 and her mom will kill her but i think she wants to keep it Please help me!! (link)
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look,you adviced your freind not to do this didnt you?and she STILL didnt listen,so she has to face the reaction to her actions.you warned her and she didnt listen so its her choice,well she is going to fall into a problem when her mom finds out cuz she will find out if not now then next 5 months when her stomache is bigger.But hopefully this will help her learn from her mistakes.In my opinion i think you should tell her to tell her mom that shes pregnent although its going to get her in trouble(duh!) its better for her mom to find out now so she can help her during pregnancy than for her mom to find out later.And if she still doesnt listen to you then i think you should keep away from her a lil cuz shes going to cause you a lot of stress and you wont be able to study and think about anything but your freind here.
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Heres the deal im 14 and i have bein with my boyfriend for three days whos 18 next month. When we have bein snogging he has bein rubbing his penis against my vagina and i think its a massive turn on and makes me breathe heavily. He understands i want to take things slow but when i get home i find this white sticky stuff in my pants sort of like discharge but its really thick. I have started my periods and everything and i have had sex in the past with my ex but what is this sticky stuff and whats the course...can it damage my vagina? Please help me im really depressed and worried! (link)
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well dont get offended by what im about to say cuz im only trying to help,but,before you have sex i think you should KNOW a little bit more about it.the white sticky stuff my dear is sperm and if he puts his "thingy" in you, then that white sticky stuff can get you pregnant so take care
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Im getting Dizzy all the time and I dont know why Im not pregnant cause Ive not had sex but I am bout to die cause Im getting dizzy so much (link)
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there are many reasons to why you might be dizzy alot...mabey its because your lying down all day because you have nothing to do and when you get up all of a sudden you feel dizzy,thats normal.or mabey its because you might have anemia.anemia is a sickness that comes when you eat food that lack vitamins so THAT also causes you to feel dizzy,i think you should see a doctor and take vitamin tablets or something
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Is there any possible way to get your period sooner? (link)
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no,and if anyone tells you about any medicines that make your period come earlier know that its bad for your health and might affect your future health.girls get their periods from ages 9-17 or 18 so dont worry
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Okay, so I really really like this boy James. But he hates me. For no reason! Omg. Hes so sweet/cute/fine and I really like him. People try to convince me he likes me but I just know he doesn't. I know this sounds dumb and all but I started cutting myself just because I think my life was horrible [in my opinion] and now this to make it worse! I cant stand It but i like him so much. I want to stop cutting SO bad because its really not the right thing! Please help me with suggestions to stop! I really dont wanna ruin my life by a stupid mistake I made.
Sincerely,
Bloody Wrists. (link)
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wow!screw james! i cant beilive youre doing this over some guy that doesnt even know or care about how you feel!you have to get over it he DOESNT like you what are you going to do about it?what if one day a guy likes you to death and you dont care about him,is he gonna force you to like him?i dont THINK so!cutting yourself is going to cause you to bruise yourself and its going to not just leave a bruise on your skin but in your heart too,because when you grow older and look at it you will feel terrible.hes not the last guy on earth,youll find a guy that loves you and youll love him back one day i mean,WAIT your only 13!!im 15 and i never fel in love and I LIKED a guy that didnt like me and i didnt give a shit cuz i knew it wasnt gointg to get me anywhere and that i was only 13 at that moment.your still going to go to grades 8,9,10,11,12,COLLEGE,WORK so do you THINK a guy you met at the begining of your life time is worth cutting yourself for?!?!everything changes and one day you will forget all about this and say wow i remember what caramella said and nothing really IS worth cutting myself.
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i've noticed that in movies/pictures from like 100 years ago, women had extremely small waists (like 20 inch waists). i was wondering if they were just wearing corsets that made them extra skinny, or if they were just naturally that skinny? because i'm 15/f, 5'3", and my waist is like 28 inches, and my friends are the same. have women evolved that much? (link)
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they were skinny AND wore corsets which made them even skinnier,so,no woman havent evolved much
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i woke up this morning and my wrists hurt and i dont know why. they arent cut or anything they just really hurt .. and its like near the vains. its not like i pulled it or anything. and i dont cut or do lacross or anything to make it hurt. its just realyl random and i was wondering if anyone knew what it was. (link)
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probably when you were asleep you were sleeping ON your wrist.when you woke up after a couple of hours of sleeping on it its pretty normal for your wrist to hurt.Dont worry though,the pain will go away.
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all of my friends drink and ive never even tried or got drunk. they all want me too and everything but im afaird and i dont know if i should.. and if it really is that bad..i know soooooo many people who have drank and they seem alright. but just scared and i need advice ! (link)
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in my opinion i think youre too young to get drunk and even for adults its not good.tell your freinds to respect your opinion that you dont want to get drunk just like you respect the fact that THEY get drunk. these drinks consist mainly of alcohol wich can cause brain damage and really scary flashbacks and you might even think you see someone and noones actually there...trust me i took it in science this year.Dont ler them force you into doing something you will regret later on,honestly.....if they jumped off a bridge would YOU do it??
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