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depression
Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is causing me to be depressed I'll give you some examples.on my 17th birthday she told me that nobody loved me and that I was stupid becouse I was in special ed classes at school.my granny also told me that Iam to fat for my own good and she told me that my mom killed my dad becouse she divorced him when I was 3 and said it broke his heart and that's why he died,but I think she had a pretty good reason for divorcing him when I was 3 becouse he molested me.I took an extra adderal and bloodpressure pill today hoping I would lose weight becouse my granny keeps telling me that iam fat and ugly and I was kind of hoping it would kill me from overdose.my cousin is the only person I can go to with this problem becouse I can trust her to keep it a secreat.I've talked to my cousin about my suicide attempts and she just kept an eye on me and didn't tell my mom about it becouse she knows how my mom is.what should I do? please help me urgent.
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Get your self some Niacin you can get it at any GNC or vitamin shop.
It is why suicidal patients get better. Look it up.
Its your only option Most people will be totally cured from depression im a matter of weeks.
I have tried every thing there is and this is the only thing that works.
Dont stop taking it. With out Niacin it is impossible to get better.
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First of all, dont take any extra pills. Secondly, try to stay away from you grandmother. She has issues that you dont even need to try to understand. Most importantly, since you are obviously under a doctors care, talk to him / her, tell him / her everything you just told us and see if you can get more help there.
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Is this the same Rachel whose question I answered before? About your mom and how you wanted to move in with your cousin? I'm just asking beacuse I see a lot of similarities between this question and the other one.
There is no excuse for what your Granny is saying to you. I think you know deep down that what she is saying to you is most ceratinly not true. I can't understand why she would tell you that your mom killed your dad, or why she tells you you're fat and ugly. Just know that words can't hurt you, and keep relying on your cousin.
If you wanna talk to someone about it, my AOL name is Supergurl5254. I'll be ahppy to talk to you.
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people that say bad things about others have low selfasteem, perhaps your grandma feel bad about her self , so she takes it out on you, don't let no one put you down , i don't care who it is, if this continue you need to talk to a older adult you can trust so you can get help
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I think that maybe you should confront your granny on a 1 on 1 basis. You should tell her that she is being mean to you and that you love her dearly. Tell her that although she is your granny, that you don't care what she says because you are beautiful no matter what anyone says. You shouldn't let her bring you down because hell, she's really old and her eyes may be playing tricks on her =) As for losing weight, just eat less more frequently and go running or even walking once in a while. If you have a dog then it makes it easier but if not just take your cd player or ipod and walk around the block for 30 minutes to an hour everyday or at night and you'll be on your way to losing weight. =) Don't be sad, life is too short to be sad.
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Rachel your grandmother is being very unwise; just by all the mean things she say to you makes her unwise; it sounds like she has unresolve issues and guilt from what happen in your parents history unfortunately when this occurs they usually take it out on those closes to them who perhaps had nothing at all to do with what happen however I advice you to still respect her as your grandmother; but I also encourage you to never give anyone that kind of power to make you feel like harming yourself ; just because it's someone you love such as family they do not get the right's to drive you to not want to live, look in the mirror and say to yourself " I am not a Mistake " God does't make mistakes , and say to others I was born because God wanted me, he has a purpose for my life.
If you need to lose some weight you can work toward it to stay healthy however needing to loose weight does not make you unworthy of love or an unprofitable contribution to society ! in fact the exact opposite is true you are loved .
Sometimes when people closes to us do not model the love we need inside God sends others in our life; so look around honey and know you are loved and you do have something or many things to contribute to society this is why you're still in the land of the living because God want you to live and not die .
I advice you to discover your gifts and talents and show everyone around you that inspite of your special ed needs, inpite of being in a disfunctinal family you're turning your weakness into strengths to fulfil your God given destiny
I declare you to live
God Bless You ~
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alright listen,nomatter how awful your past is its past and never coming back.you have to forget about it and remember that you still have a future ahead of you and in order to make sure your future will be bright,you must forget the past.ok your dad molested you when you were three(14 years ago)forget it its past and over with so you shouldnt think about it anymore.Theres no reason crying over spilled milk .and about your grandma,i think you need to tell her to stop and if she doenst,tell your mom to make her stop!and anywayz you need to be a lil more confident,if she wants to call you fat and ugly she can go ahead!!it shouldnt bring you down!cuz im sure your pretty and what you lack is confidence and wow suicide?!? no way,i think you should totally forget about that...think about the consenquences,your going to end your life just like that?!!?and do you know you can go to hell for doing that(nomatter what religion)so this way you will lose your life and afterlife!you need to layoff the pills to cuz they arent going to put your problems to an end.go face your grandma even if it does lead you guys to a fight,tell her how you feel and that she needs to stop and if she makes fun of you while your telling her this,tell her "you know what?you can say whatever you want and i know im gorgeous you dont have to be so jealous of me just because im younger" yes...i know its a little harsh to say but this is getting too far.build your future from now by being in good health(not by taking pills), having more confidence ok even if you are a lil chubby,lose some weight and look your best!be good in your studys in order to go to college and have a real job and when that comes youll be confident,rich,healty and succesful and whatever your grandma will say then will not matter to you!because when you are ill confident you give other people the key to bringing you down.
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Ignore what your grandma is saying. She's just trying to make you the way you are. ( depressed ) she wants that. The devil is in her or atleast it was. Most old people are mean , just tell her to shut up. i see it as shes mad cause shes getting old. Dont take extra pills to get skinnier. thats stupid. be happy with your body, shes not anyone to worry about. Go see a couselor or something. did you tell your mom about your granny? Just ignore her and try not to be around her. Dont kill yourself, that deff. wont solve anything. your 17 and still going on with your life. dont let a stupid old person stop you.
hope i helped.
and if you want to lost weight do it because YOU want to not b/c your granny wants you too. its called exercising and eating right. :]
&heart's; kayla
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well i understand thats you granny but its not what people call you its wat you answer to . and god put you on this earth for a reason. and just b urself and dont EVER change for nobody. when you wake up in the morning and you look in the mirror that second you know god is pleased with ur life, and this is how you know god is pleased, everything you touch is blessed. and if god wasnt pleased with ur life you probably wouldnt be here right now. so yeah dont ever change for nobody . and just keep ya head up high.
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