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Age: 14
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14/f

Hi, I was wondering if anyone knows of any stores that have clothes for people with bigger bodies, sort of like plus size clothes and stuff, but nice clothes. I know aeropostale has good clothes, but their shirts are short and I don't like them very much. All I'm really looking for are casual clothes stuff that goes good with jeans and shorts. Thanks guys = ] (link)
Theres stores you can search online. And if you have any magazines , go to like a fashion page or something , or usually they have like these models that be posing for like designer stuff (advertising) and they should have like website links in small print somewhere on the page.


He cheated on me, right. And we've only been within talking distance once since, and that was because we kind of had to be. That was yesterday. But he IMed me once since he told me he cheated on me [but he didn't tell me the entire truth, and even lied while telling me the 'truth']. I found out 3 weeks ago.

When I think of what he did, I get angry and upset, but I only really think about it when I'm just home and not really doing anything. So I'd be all angry, but he wouldn't know. But when I'm around him, I don't know what to do; be angry, ignore him, act like we're friends, be rude to him, or what? Even when I try to be mad whenever I'm around him, I can't be. He'll make me laugh and then I'll laugh & smile, and then I have to tell myself stop smiling, remember what he did to you.

I don't know how to act. It's like if I act like nothing happened and everything was fine, then he'll think he's off the hook and he won't feel bad about doing what he did, and like I can just tolerate this shit from him. But if I act rude/ignore him/act angry then we might never be friends, and honestly I miss that -- how things were even before he was my boyfriend. Even if I wanted to, though, I can't really be angry when I'm around him. Even when I did give him a kinda rude comment, I felt bad afterwards, though he deserved it. Then again, even though I want to be friends with him, maybe it's just best not to be, I don't know.

I was having a talk with one of my friends who is also friends with him & was there when he cheated on me, and he was telling me how him and a friend were actually talking about it the other day. He said they were saying how it was dumb because "she [his ex gf who he cheated on me with] is a slut," and I'm "cool and stuff and good looking." Made me feeling better that his friends said that, wonder if they've told him that, but not like he cares because he has even told me she is a slut, but he did that anyways, so he doesn't care.

So what do I do? (link)
Well just tell him how you feel. Maybe he'll understand. And after your done telling him and talking to him about it , when you think about it, it wont be bad anymore. you'll feel relieved actually. If he felt the same way you do and wants to be friends with you , he wont get mad or anything like that. But what i dont understand is how he calls her a slut but still goes out with her. (wow). But whatever you do just do the right thing and talk to him about it and you wont feel bad no more.


Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my granny is causing me to be depressed I'll give you some examples.on my 17th birthday she told me that nobody loved me and that I was stupid becouse I was in special ed classes at school.my granny also told me that Iam to fat for my own good and she told me that my mom killed my dad becouse she divorced him when I was 3 and said it broke his heart and that's why he died,but I think she had a pretty good reason for divorcing him when I was 3 becouse he molested me.I took an extra adderal and bloodpressure pill today hoping I would lose weight becouse my granny keeps telling me that iam fat and ugly and I was kind of hoping it would kill me from overdose.my cousin is the only person I can go to with this problem becouse I can trust her to keep it a secreat.I've talked to my cousin about my suicide attempts and she just kept an eye on me and didn't tell my mom about it becouse she knows how my mom is.what should I do? please help me urgent. (link)
well i understand thats you granny but its not what people call you its wat you answer to . and god put you on this earth for a reason. and just b urself and dont EVER change for nobody. when you wake up in the morning and you look in the mirror that second you know god is pleased with ur life, and this is how you know god is pleased, everything you touch is blessed. and if god wasnt pleased with ur life you probably wouldnt be here right now. so yeah dont ever change for nobody . and just keep ya head up high.


i absolutely can't speak to my mother about this because all she does is try to use reverse phsycology on me or just tells me that i'm talking stupididies and i'm not! i really do feel this way and it's bugging me so much and there's nothing i can do to make myself stop feeling like this. i've tried! maybe this information will help a little:

i've always been very mature for my age. i was 9 when i got my period. so, i feel like i've grown up to fast and now is when it is just catching up to me. when i was like 9, i guess the best way to explain it is that i was like a 12 year old stuck in at 9 years old. i don't know how to explain it. it's jut kind of weird. so, i don't really know what kids do at 9. but, when i was 9, i would spend friday night's watching television while doing my hair and nails!

when i turned 12, the same thing happned. i was like 14 or 15 stuck at 12. i wanted to go out every weekend and party. so, not because i had to or anything, just because i didn't have anything better to do, i was asleep pretty early and i would lie there in my bed super mad because i wished that i was at party. i started going to parties like later being 12, like when i started jr. high but this was before the dances

then when the dances did start, i loved them. i would get so exited about every party i went to. and when i turned like 13, i would go to parties whenever i had the chance. i loved to get ready for parties and do my hair/makeup. i would just get so exited about it

now, i'm 15/f. and for some reason, i feel like i've grown up too fast. i'm not even interested in parties anymore. i dismiss invitatioins when they come in the mail but i still go because my mom makes me go. but, i don't want to be there yet! i want to be interested in parites. i want to get exited about it. i want to do my make-up and feel interested in it and all that stuff. but, i can't control it

for those of you that read this i thank you and i hope that you can give me some advice on what to do about this situation! ty again!!!!

:) (link)
well your mom doesnt have to take you. catch a cab or something and go to a phsycologists urself. well my advice to you is jus to b confident in yourself . believe ! thats the best thing you can do. take time out and say " wat makes me not interested in parties no more? " most teenagers ur age love parties and once you get older , thats probably all you want to do anyways.


is there anyway to download an .mp3 url and save it onto your computer? (link)
yes . well if its like a video or whatever just right click it and click save target. or if its just a regular song just go to myspace.com nd then go to music and upload it on there. then click save target as.


i was watvhing the infomercial for sheer cover last night,lol and i thought it looked like it worked good. so anyone who's tried does it work good and is it worth the money?
thanks (link)
no i haven't tried it but, u should search the internet for it and then see the feedbacks for it.


I'm a writer on quizilla.com, and I was wondering how I could boost how many people read my stories. I know some of you haven't been to quizilla before, but it's a site where you can take or create quizzes for other people to take or you can read or write series on there. Also, would it be against the rules if I asked people on here to read my stories? It'd be much appreciated. :] (link)
A good writer always speak their heart and say whats their mind and then write it down. just speak ur mind and get creative with it. and people will get interested in your stories. yeah i go on quizilla.com all the time and the thing that gets me interested in reading other people's stories' is that they get creative with their writing and along with that, they always speak their mind. no i dont think its against the rules to post ur stories on here. and i'm willing to read your stories even if nobody else reads them on here ! :]


I would really like to brush and floss my teeth two/three times a day, wash my face twice a day, exercising.. etc and normally I am only doing it once daily.

Is there any way I can get myself to stick with this? Such as doing it to look my best for a guy I like or something like that. I have troubles sticking to it 'just because' I want to look/feel better.

Thanks, any advice is appreciated. :) (link)
just stay conffident. that always works. if u care a lot about looking that way, you wouldnt give up on it.

good luck with the guy


How do you get your hair like aubreys when she uste to have it like in loose curls? Thanks in advance (link)
well i never had my hair like that before and i think it looks nice. try searching for her on the computer and asking her yourself.


ok well ive had limewire for like 9 months and i love it. but the thing is one day it just turned to this weird ass language like its so weird none of the letters are from the alphabet. but its not chinese or japanese and ive deleted limewire and redownloaded it and it didnt work does anyone no how to fix this? please help (link)
i have limewire too. it's just your computer . try setting your language package again.


16/f

okay i don't know what is happening. for the past week or 2 weeks i have been tired all the time. i can never feel awake for some reason and im always yawning. i sleep for about 10-11 hours each night and it doesnt help at all so maybe i'm oversleeping or something im not sure. i dont even usually do much during the day. any ideas for why im so tired all the time? (link)
try eating something that will make you hyper.(candy possibly :]) and also think about stuff like parties or whatever and try putting music on. :]


ok well everytime i get in the shower like 30 of my hairs fall out and its so disgusting i dont no what its from
please help (link)
well maybe your not eating healthy and drinking enough water


I have been wanting a perm for sooooooo long. I want a body wave perm. I picked out this supppperrrr cute hairstyle. But, i am doing the locks of love thing. Is it ok if i get a perm and still do the locks of love thing? I know they don't allow color treated hair,,, but what about perms...i want one sooooo bad. thanks in advance and i will rate your advice. (link)
A perm will take your hair out if u get locks of love thing. a perm is very strong and i will make your hair fall out quickly, but you can still do the locks of love thing but its either that or the perm.




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