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i still have feelings for my ex!
i want to have sex with my ex-boyfriend.I'm 14 and a girl. he's really shy and so am i and i still have feelings for him. we never really broke up. i moved and we stoped talkin becuz school got in the way and friends and we just never got around to it so we started dating other people or atleast i did. and now that I'm single i know that i still have feelings for him and i want to lose my virginity to him but i dont know what he'll want or how to tell him or anything! please help!
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You may not like what I have to say, but first and foremost, SLOW DOWN. 14 and not dating. Losing your virginity is supposed to be something special. You only get one first time. SO many girls and GUYS take sex for granted. It's not a casual thing. And because y'all aren't even dating anymore, suggesting to have sex, will most likely throw him WAY off gaurd, especially since you said he is shy. Having sex with someone can and usually will completely alter the entire jist of a relationship. You need to make sure that both you and your partner are 150% ready with no doubts. I know it may seem like you really care about him and he's the perfect guy for the "job", but you are going to meet SO many other guys. I don't mean to preach to you, but the whole situation raises concerns to me. Why are you so intent on having sex with him? Merely for the fact that you have feelings for him? Do you think that will make him like you more or want to get back together? If so, he's totally not the right guy for you. Be with a guy that's going to respect you and want to just simply be around you. Don't rush into anything. Ultimately, only you are able to decide if you are going to go through with it, but make sure you are aware of everything that comes with it: Possible pregnancies, STDS, emotional and physical pains, parents finding out, a ruined reputation, a sex dependent relationship and so much more. Just think about it. :)
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