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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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I would like to know what the difference is between using a tampon and using a pad for girls when they have their periods.
Pads are good if you're just hanging out around the house. I don't think they're good for going out and about with friends and such. You're always worried about if you leaked or not and it feels like you're wearing a diaper. They're very uncomfortable and I prefer tampons over pads.
Tampons go inside your vagina, so there's really no mess with blood and what not. You're able to do everything you want to do; even go swimming. They're also great for when you go to sleep at night, you won't have to worry about leaking everywhere.
EDIT: Actually, I haven't put tampons in, in the past. I've just started wearing tampons. Before, I was scared to have a tampon in me. Now, I realize how comfortable they are, that's why I switch. Plus, the mess is gone, which is great! ♥
are there any websites like tinypic that let you just upload pictures without registering for an account or something?
http://www.imageshack.us is a good site to upload pictures on. ♥
Hi,
I recently bought some clothes from the Hollister at my mall. I am a 17 year old boy and think the clothes are nice.
When I got home and showed my 13 year old brother the clothes I got (a polo and a sweatshirt) he started screaming at me and said that only posers and gays were Hollister.
I know quite a few people don't like Hollister and quite a few people do.
I am wondering what people think of boys who wear Hollister?
Of course your brother is going to make fun of you because you're wearing Hollister clothes. He is your brother, that is what they do. They're always on your case for something. Just ignore him and he will probably stop saying that.
People will have their opinions on what you wear and there's nothing you can do to prevent that. Different people like different things. You can't please everyone. The only one you can please is yourself. If YOU like Hollister, then go ahead and wear it. Don't wear it because everyone else does, wear it because you like it and it makes you who you are. ♥
Hi my boyfriend and I are having some problems. Well first of all he is mad at me for getting a myspace and he wont leave me alone he's threatning to break up with me for it, its retarded he needs to just leave me alone. What should I do?
There's like 100 billion people on that website and a lot of people on MySpace do have boyfriends. Their boyfriends aren't always on their backs to delete it, because they respect what they like. Some people like having a MySpace page to keep in contact with their friends, or even come in contact with new friends over the world. If there is something wrong with your MySpace page and there's always random guys stalking you, then your boyfriend should be worried. Since you're doing nothing wrong, he shouldn't be worried in the least bit.
I think you should explain to your boyfriend that you aren't on that site to try to get another boyfriend. You just want to chat with friends and other people you may have on your list. Tell him it's nothing to worry about and if he trust you, everything should be alright. Just give him a talking to and maybe everything will get fixed up. ♥
Will having my wisdom teeth out..affect my singing?
Better airflow or something?
I don't think your wisdom teeth will effect your singing, if you get them pulled. I mean, if you've been singing for a long period of time, since you were small, it's not going to effect you. You didn't even have your wisdom teeth when you were small and I'm sure you still sang well. It's not going to make a difference with them, or without them in. ♥
wht are some good music songs?
Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
The Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.
Mary J Blige - Be Without You.
Nick Connon - Are You A Dime Piece.
Ashley Parker Angel - Let You Go.
50 Cent - Best Friend.
Bif Naked - I Love Myself Today.
New Ridaz - Special Girl.
Damian Marley - Beautiful.
Panic! At The Disco - It's Time To Dance.
Bif Naked - Let Down.
Teddy Geiger - For You I Will.
Angels And Airwaves - The Adventure.
Mobile - Out Of My Head.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Dani Californa.
Panic! At The Disco - I Write Sins Not Tragedies.
The All American Rejects - Move Along.
Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Gold Lian.
Incubus, The Perfect Circle & Finger 11 - Falling Behind.
The Dandy Warhols - Sleep.
The Wallflowers & Counting Crows - Heartache.
The Spill Canvas - All Hail The Heartbreak.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
A Perfect Circle - Thinking Of You.
Aqualung - Strange And Beautiful.
3 Doors Down - Landing In London.
Seether - The Gift.
Breaking Benjamin - So Cold.
Default - All She Wrote.
Fort Minor - Where'd You Go.
Rancid - Fall Back Down.
Wallflowers - One Headlight.
Stone Sour - Through The Glass.
Rise Against - Ready To Fall.
Hopefully this helps you out some. ♥
Everytime I shave my crotch area, I get little red bumps. What are they and how can I stop them from happening?
When you're shaving 'down there', make sure everytime you do shave, you use a new razor. Make sure you shave with a lot of soap and water and/or shaving jell. You should always shave towards your hairs, (or the way they're growing.)
Once you're done shaving, be sure to put on some cream. (It'll help out with any redness you may have.) ♥
about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?
f/13
This doctor is only giving you an estimate and even though he may not even be close, you cannot sue him for it. Some doctors told people that they'd only live 3 more months. Turns out, they're still living and have been for 10 years. Just TRY to keep in a happy state and DO NOT give up on this. If you're strong enough and you have a lot of family and friends that are there to suppose you, you could defiantly pull through this. I wish you all the luck in the world, hunny. Get better soon! ♥
im 14 years old and a few months ago (maybe like 2) i got my period and i dont have boobs. I thought that you get them before your period? im only like a 32 A and i feel werid wearing certain shits .. when do you think ill get bigger?
Everyone is different, so every girl's body is going to grow and change differently from other girls. Some girls breasts grow before they get their period, while some only grow after they have their period. It's different for every girl. But don't worry sweetie. You're only 14 so you have awhile to go yet. Your body only stops growing and changing when you're 18. ♥
SO i got this huge bug bite on the back of my leg and I have no idea what its from, or if it even is a bug bite. Its hard, and the size of like 4 quarters. Does anyone have any idea what it could be, and how I can make it go away? Thanks
When a bug bites me, I usually get like that too. That's only because I'm allergic to bug bites though, so they swell up. I suggest putting some after-bite on it. If it doesn't go away in a couple of days or so, I would go to the doctors just to get it checked up on. ♥
I heard a song with the title being close to something about "The day the world died" or "The day the world ended" or something along those lines. And the band that sang it had the word about rockets or rocketships or spaceships. The song is electronica. Yeah, I was just wondering if anyone knew who the band was. Sorry for being so vague.
I THINK the song you're talking about is called 'The Day The Whole World Died' and it's by The Age Of Rockets. ♥
is it possible to be born without a hymen because i've never had sex of any kind and i dont have any sort of covering over my vagina
Your Hymen is inside of your vagina, it isn't on the outside or something you'd be able to see. It's about 1-3 inches inside of you. It is possible to be born without one, but MOST girls do have a Hymen. Not all Hymens are broken by having sexual intercourse. You can also break your Hymen by bike riding, horseback riding, exercising, etc. ♥
Hi, I'm 17/f and I'm worried. How can you tell if your wisdom teeth are going to grow in properly, and does anyone know the amount of space you will need for them to grow? Not precise, but about how much? thanks.
You aren't able to tell if your wisdom teeth are going to grow in properly. The only way you can find out, if you were to go to the dentist and get her/him to check your wisdom teeth by doing an x-ray.
You don't need TOO much space. Just enough room for a tooth to come through. Some people have enough space, so you might be one of the lucky ones. If not, it doesn't hurt that much when you get them out.
I got my wisdom teeth out about 2 years ago. You can either be put asleep or they'll just freeze your mouth. I had a choice so I picked to have my mouth froozen; it doesn't hurt one bit. I didn't feel a thing while they were putting my wisdom teeth out. After they are done they give you some pills that you have to take to keep the pain and swelling down. Then, they'll explain to you what you must do before you go to bed (rinse your mouth) and how you must eat -- they'll give you all the information you need. Mind you, for awhile, you'll only be eating chicken noodle soup and milkshakes. What a life, eh?
You'll be able to get back into your normal life in awhile. Some people are up and ready to go the sameday they get them pulled. Some it may take alittle awhile, depending on the person. For myself, I was out for school for 2 weeks! Just take time to feel better, don't rush it. When you feel better, you'll know. ♥
okay, so I'm in love with Leguna Beach, but I'm from Canada, and I heard that they show like seasons earlier in the states. Like, apparently people in america, are watching the third season right now? Is this true? and if so, I'm soo jealous :p. Thanks for letting me know:).
Yes, seasons are shown earlier in the States. Sucks for us Canadians, doesn't it?
However, Season 3 premieres September 6th in Canada. Awhile to go yet, but it's just around the corner. ♥
You know on Xanga, how you can make a blog private? Can you do that on Myspace?
I have a blog on Myspace with thousands on posts. My problem is, how do I make them all private, where only I can read them, without deleting them?
Is there a way to them all at one time? Instead of one by one?
Thanks! :D
You can make your MySpace blogs private, but you have to do them one by one. I don't think there's a way to do them all at the same time.
However, you can set your whole profile to private and only your friends and the people you have added will be able to read your blog.
EDIT: When you go to write a blog, there will be a section that will say 'Privacy.' It's where current mood, comments and such are. It has four things you can check off; Public, Diary, Friends, and Preferred List. If you want ONLY your friends on your list to be able to view it click on 'Friends.' ♥
i want to know how to put eye liner on good . anytips? and how thick
Before you begin applying the eyeliner, there are a few things you should do; firstly, apply any other eye makeup you want to use before adding eye liner and mascara. It may also be helpful if you remove dangly bracelets and watches as they can often get in the way or just become irritating distractions. Make sure you have a good mirror and lighting so that you can properly see what you are doing when using the eyeliner.
-- If you're using the pencil eye linner:
The eyeliner pencil should be able to draw a thin, unbroken line along your skin - test it on your hand or arm first. Either sharpen it until the line is thin enough, or if it is too thin, draw a line on a tissue, which will make the tip blunter.
You should hold the eyeliner pencil as you would hold a pencil or pen to write with, usually with your dominant hand. Use your other hand to stretch the eye you are going to line from the outer corner. You can rest your hand holding the pencil against the hand pulling your lid taut.
Don't try to focus on your whole eye lid at one time - just look at the part you are drawing on. The line should be just above your eye lashes on the top lid and just below on the bottom, and should extend just to the outer corner of your eye.
Be wary if your eyeliner pencil tip is quite dry, as this may pull at delicate eye tissue. Draw the line with care if this is the case.
-- If you're using the liquid eyeliner:
Liquid eyeliner comes in a bottle rather like ink, and you must use a separate brush to apply. The best result will come from a point liner brush.
It is natural to close your eye as you draw the line, but if you keep it open, it will actually make it easier to follow the curve of your lid and thus have a straighter line.
You do not need to try and paint a continuous line with liquid eyeliner. It is actually easier to pain a few small dashes onto the lash line, eg. Inner corner, middle and outer corner, then go back and connect them.
If you want a thicker line than this initial thin one, build it up gradually. Start at the middle of the lash line and draw towards the outer corner. You can extend the line slightly past the outer corner of your eyelid if you wish. ♥
ok i am 15 1/2 and my bf is 16 1/2 can my mom turn him for rape if we have sex? i live in california
No, she cannot. He is not 18, so she wouldn't be able to press charges do to rape. Now, if you were 17 and he was 18, then she'd be able to press charges. ♥
How can i get more people as friends for myspace? like a whore train or something that actually works?
Anyone ?
thanks
-- http://www.myspaceadder.com
-- http://www.autoadder.com
-- http://www.myspacefs.com
-- http://www.friendstorm.net
There's some great sites that you can sign up for and get a bunch of friends from. ♥
What are some websites that are like myspace? Like myetalk etc..
(Not facebook or xanga!)
Thanks!
http://www.hi5.com is a lot like MySpace. ♥
Me and my boyfriend were fighting a few days ago. We were swearing and stuff, and he goes "shut up you cooctie eyed bitc*. I don't really know what cooctie means and I tried looking it up but maybe he spelled it wrong so if anyone could help me figure out what he meant, that would be great. And I can't ask him because he's not talking to me anymore. Thank you.
I don't even think cooctie is a word. Maybe he just made it up and you should ask him about it? Or, he could have made a typo and really meant to say, cock-eyed. ♥