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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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ok.. is there any way to totally delete the history page on your bar thing. Do you know what i mean? Its the thing where people can see the websites you`ve been to(i have no problem with that) and they can click on it. It bothers me cuz my dad can go onto this website and it shows im logged in..then he can invade my privacy(this reeally bothers me)..which i think he did! Somehow the responses to a question i asked got rated! I didnt do this..! is there ne way to get rid of the history page so this never happens again? thanks

yeah go to settings... go to too bar settings... and put a check mark in the box that says clear history trail after each time i sign off or awitch screen names.

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I am 14 and i havent started my period. I have been have this white stuff come out for about a year now and sometimes very heavily. Is there something wrong with me? I thought I would of started my period by now..

Well, its normal for you to have that white stuff, its just discharge. And as for your period. It doesnt matter if you're 14 and still dont have it. Age has nothing to do with it. You will get when your body is ready. I had a friend who didnt have it until she was 16, and some dont get it until they are 18. Don't stress about it though. Stress makes it take longer to come. And enjoy the time you have left not having it becuase that shit is a pain in the ass.

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Today when i went to the bathroom i noticed that i had ALOT of discharge in my underwear what could it be? should i do anything about it?

Its probably nothing. You probably just had alot today. But if this persist, maybe you should see a doctor and see if you may have a yeast infection.

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ive been really really close with my friend emily from 4th grade....i've also been friends wit another gurl chelsey since 1st....emily hated chelsey...then one day this year i invited both of then ova hopin they'd become friends...they did...now they hang out moa than i've hung out wit both of them....i cant tell emily a secret wit out her tellin chelsey and vise versa...sadly i think im jelous(:-(....i dont want to lose them!..what do i do!

Well I guess what you have to do is tell them, that you are beginning to feel left out. Maybe you should remind them that they used ot hate eachother and if it weren't for you being the middle man and helping them to become friends they probably still would. SO, it is wrong for them to exclude you like that. As for you not being able to just tell one of them a secret... there are 2 ways you can handle this... you can just from now on tell both of them your secret... or if you just tell one of them, make it clear that you do not wany ANYONE to know, not even the other one. Good Luck!:)

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my BEST friend knows that i like this guy even though ik he probably doesnt like me and that he is a grade younger than me, but to me that doesnt matter. just a couple of days ago the guy i like i think is starting to liek my BEST friend and i think she likes him too and she knows that i like him alot! and he said that he wants to go out with her and she wants to go out with him, what should i do or tell her?

- Sad N Confused

It is kinda messed up that your friend would do that to, and know that you like him so much. Maybe you should talk to her and let her know that bothers you. But if she still gets with him, don't ruin your friendship over a guy. Just put it besides yourself and try to be happy for her. After all that guy is not the only guy in the world.

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Omfg I was just outside, and its raining really hard. I was just sitting out in the rain. Is there somthing wrong with that?????? Please tell me if there is a problem with liking rain..bcuz when somone saw me they fucking went crazyyyy. They were yelling get the fuck inside, and acting like i was going to kill myself!!!!!! I am sooo mad!! It was my fucking brother too. TEll Me the truth. IS it wrong to like the rain and go outside when its raining??? I mean this is the first time iv done it but everyone in my family acts like its sooo damn horrible!! plz help. They make mee feel so fucking stupid. like im crazy or somthing for doing that. My bro thoguth i was trying to get struck by lightning!!! AHHHHH is wut i did sooo wrong????

yo no offense... but your brother is fuckin stupid. why didnt he just ask you why you were in the rain? and you're family they need to trust that you are not gonna go outside in the damn rain and try to kill yourself. there is nothing wrong with you liking the rain, but calm down though, you know you're not crazy.

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Hey, I was just ouside sitting in the rain and my brother saw me. He was yelling, "Get the fuck inside Jenny," and getting really mad at me. He thought I was going to kill my self and told everyone to lock the doors so I dont go back out. I feel VERY hurt because my family makes me feel like something is wrong with me. Do you think it is bad to go outside, and just sit in the rain??? Please somone awnser my question. My family makes me feel like I'm crazy, and I'm not sure if I'm not any more.

No there is nothing wrong with sitting in the rain. what is wrong with your people? how are you gonna kill yourself by sitting in the rain? tell them to chill out, you aint stupid.

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I live in a small town in Illinois. You know, where the corn and stuff is. Anyway, the only places we have to "hangout" is the movie theatre, ice rink, and a local pool. Other than that, we have nothing. Going to the same three places gets very boring, any hangout ideas for small towns?

yeah sneak out at night and go teepee some houses...that should be fun

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im horney.. no guys here, what should i do?!

stick a cucumber in there.

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Hey my boyfriend recently got drunk and while he was drunk he said a lot of sweet things he has never said to me before. He told me he wanted to marry me and start a life with me. I was wondering if that really could be true. Because he was drunk. Do drunk people say whats on their mind or make up bullshit?

well sometimes people speak the truth when they are drunk and sometimes they talk shit. ask him if he remebers what he said and if he was for real.

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I am going to this Volleyball day camp for 4 days and I really really like it but I'm terrible at it cuz I'm new and like everyone else can spike n stuff. I probly won't make the team next year but i really like the sport. Wut can i do?

Practice makes perfect! and be confident.

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I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 a lil over 9 and a half months, but lately he has been acting a lil weird. Online and on the phone he has stopped saying, "I love you," and he seems 2 b more concerned w/ playing computer games than talking 2 me. When ever I see him though, he is his sweet, nice self. Does any1 know wit might b goin on? Or am I just making a big deal outta nuttin?

maybe he feels like when he is on the comp playing his games he is having some time to hiself. dont take it personally, hes still being sweet to you when he sees you. a little space is always good. you dont have to be telling eachother i love you all the time, you know the loves there.

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My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy

tell her to stop acting like a nut. and if she doesnt then give her some space for a while.

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I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!

PLEASE help!

SHE NEEDS TO TELL SOMEONE! what those kids did to her is fucked up and they dont deserve to get away with it.

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Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx

mary kate! damn thats fucked up. why should try to gain weight just cuz they are talkin shit? if you want to gain weight thats cool but do it for yourself, not because of some assholes who keep calling you names. tell them to shut up. and forget them you know you are not anorexic.

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Hi,I'm Charm & am 14. I have been with my boyfriend, Gregg for 5 years. We are only 14, but we are in love, it was truly love at first site! Anyway,When we both met, we promised eachother to stay virgins, until we got married, we know we will!Gregg is so romantic, he is always leaving cards in my lockers saying I love you and always hugs me and one time on our 2 anniversary, he gave me a fake rose, before i asked him y a fake one, he sed it was because fake one's last forever, like our love! I love him so much, but we kissed before ,but never made out, u no. we wud kiss on the lips, like a peck or something, but never actually moving our heads or something and we really want to make out, but how will I no wat to do? Help, I need to no how to kiss him.

just kidd him. the more you do it the more nautural it will become. and the better it will get. you just cant think about what you are doing. you just have to do it.

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is there camreas in the moive theateres?

thats a good question.... i would think so

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Whats Emo music? What does the e.m.o stand for?

they are faggots

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Does anybody have any great fruit smoothie recipes that are healthy or will make you lose weight? I love smoothies but I cant find any good recipes so please answer this question!

Thanks

1 can dole tropical fuit, your favorite flavor yougurt, and a bananna... blend it in the blender

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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something?

well if you dont like girls in a sexual way, then you are not bi. there are plenty of girls who like to dress in guys clothes. its pretty comfortable.

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