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skinnier twin

Question Posted Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:09 am

Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx

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eloleo answered Friday August 13 2004, 6:13 pm:
i agree with nameless just tell them kiss my ass and screw yourself

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Lena answered Thursday August 12 2004, 1:25 am:
tell them to get the stick out of there ass and to go back to screwing there mom/dad <3

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trueswimmer88 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:19 am:
my friend is going through the same thing. i think u should tell your parent(s) that u need help or u should take it slow and eat a little more than usally. take it slow!!!! if u rush it u can get really sick. so dont rush it.
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nameless0500 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 9:43 pm:
flip them all off

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cheerchic2009 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:44 pm:
its not ur fault ur skinny. most ppl are just self consious so they make fun of other people.

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SammyPie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:58 am:
Don't gain wait to satisfy other people, do it for yourself. If you are unhappy with yourself and how you look, then go for it an try to gain weight. But if I am correct, you BOTH are a little underweight for your height category. (I know this because I weight 100 lbs and thats still underweight for 5'2.) Well, good luck in your endeavor. Hang in there and keep your head held high. Stay proud of yourself.

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BaBii_Dancer answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 3:13 am:
You shouldn't just gain weight to make some people happy. You should do it to make you happy. Do it for yourself. But I'm not saying to gain weight. I'm just saying that if you do, do it for you. I think that you should just deal with the people that are harrassing you. It is not your fault that you are skinnier than your twin. Maybe you have a problem gaining weight or maybe you just have a faster metabolism. I don't think that you are anerexic either. They might be jealous that you are 5'4 and only weigh 94 pounds. I know I would be (but I wouldn't make fun of you). But remember, it doesn't matter on how much you weigh as long as you are healthy. Hope I helped.


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TheKnightOwl answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:53 am:
I wouldn't try to gain weight. I mean its only a ten pound difference, hardly anorexic. I would just accept who you are.

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kHsBaBiDoLl answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:31 am:
tell those ppl u recreate the colubine shottin if they dont leave u de fuck alone

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BewareOfCat2 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:19 am:
I wouldn't change yourself just because some morons are teasing you. If you feel like you want to add a little more weight I'd say just do what feels right to you. YOu might also want to talk to your parents about it, they will have some good advice and will make you feel better.

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kevin1986 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:04 am:
You may need to gain a little bit,but you're not severely underweight and you're not anorexic.

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LEFTalone answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:55 am:
well if u think ur fine tell them to shut up... but if u really want them to stop i guess it couldnt hurt to gain a few pounds that is if it really is bothering u that much. tell me how it works out.
much <3.

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sportscutie13 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:50 am:
Just tell ur frends to get a grip! There's nothin' wrong wit u! They r probly just jelous cuz most gurls wish they were skinny! Good luck!

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LilMia811 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:45 am:
mary kate! damn thats fucked up. why should try to gain weight just cuz they are talkin shit? if you want to gain weight thats cool but do it for yourself, not because of some assholes who keep calling you names. tell them to shut up. and forget them you know you are not anorexic.

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blond_qt6908 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:45 am:
I think that if it's bothering you then you should try to gain a LITTLE bit of weight but 94lbs is NOT anerexic try being in the 8th grade 5*1 and 65lbs THAT'S anerexic (a friend of mine not me). Just tell people that your NOT anerexic and that there's a difference in being anerexic and not being anerexic. Here let me show you. Anerexic is where you have an eating disorder where when you look in the mirror or at yourself you see a really fat person so you work your butt off to lose it and it makes you look really bad and you get really skinny and won't eat or nething. But when you can eat normally and exercise regularly then your just a normal person like everyone else. So if I were you I would just deal with it and anyway being anerexic isn't such a bad thing(besides the seeing yourself fat and working your butt of part). I'm 5*2 and i'm 135lbs and I don't care what people think of me. So just deal with it and if it doesn't help then I guess you could try to gain a FEW lbs but don't try to make yourself fat cuz then they'll be calling you a whale or something. lol *sorry I had to say it* So if you have anymore problems just drop 'em off at my inbox and i'll help ya out!

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xChainMeUp13x answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:40 am:
tell them to fuck off lol!

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Karen answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:35 am:
People are just jealous of you because they just want to look like you. If you really think you should gain a little more weight, than go right ahead. But weighin 94 pounds at 5'4 isn't that bad! Hope I helped! If you have any other questions, just drop one in my inbox or IM me on AIM at fAbOlOuZ x kAy 8.

<3 Karen

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xShAdYzBaBi3x answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:27 am:
HeY!! im srry thats happenin 2 u!! =( Well if it really bothers you that much you can try t0 gain a little weight.. But 94 lbs for bein 5'4 isnt bad! Dont worry about it! Keep ur head up!!<3 x0x

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Lexi71174 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:27 am:
you know all depends on the happiness with yourself...if you feel as though you need to gian alittle weight go right ahead...but if not just tell people how muchit bugs you!

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LTkaterinaSC answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:25 am:
if u feel good and u eat then dont dry to gain weight for other people!! thats so silly! thats just the wway you are, tell everyone to stop telling you that and say u dont even care cause U know the truth and thats all that matters! who cares, if U know what u are! but dont gain weight for other people! hope i helped!

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Mz_Bitch answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:24 am:
who cares wut they think? your fine the way you are if it bugs you that much then yea..but honestly..your you and if they have a prob wit that they can shove it up there sorry you gotta deal wit that tell me how it goes~


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*tasha* answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 12:24 am:
WHO CARES WHAT THEY SAY!There probaly just jealous anywayz. And plus i think it'd be a compliment to be called mary-kate!I think you should try to deal..Tell them they can go to..ya kno what i mean.I hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!!


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