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I'm a very outgoing person I love to give advice sometimes around here my friend's will ask me for it and I always keep it confidential. You can ask me anything about anything and I will tell YOU what I think! Whether it's about love, friends, guys, girls, anything I will do my best to help you. Just ask and i'll answer!

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Blondie

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Do u have to give someone a hikey on their neck or can u give them one on their arm?

You can give a hickey anywhere. But be sure that if you don't want there parents to find out place it somewhere discret.

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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something?

No your not Bisexual. Your just in your tomboy phase don't worry you'll get over it. Trust me I was into that stuff all the time I wore the baggy pants the baggy shirts and everything I stole my brothers clothes I was so into it. Then I hit Jr. High and I was a girly girl type i'm still kinda half tom-boy half girly but it works out.

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I hate basketball. well i don't hate it i just dont like it very much. Everyonr says I should play even our school's coach but i don't know. im 5'7 so they say ill be a good rebounder or defender??? but i cant shot! i miss everything! should i play?

Pass the ball. and practice. In Basketball you don't always have to shoot and being 5*7 really helps most of the time when you do play the taller people don't get defended as much cuz they might knock the smaller person down or something. But it's a good game and it grows on you after awhile. Ask to be a point guard there the ones that stand by the goal and try to keep the other team from getting points being 5*7 really helps cuz your tall!

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i'm 13 yrs old, 5ft 7in and 140lbs. i wanna lose weight but not to much. during the skul year i don't way as much because of the sprts and conditioning I do. i don't wanna way that much when skul starts. any ideas how to lose a couple pounds in a few weeks? thanx

Try running around your block or walking the track at the nearest YMCA or something around that.

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why do guys find thongs so sexy?

Not all guys like thongs. My brother doesn't actually he likes bikini styles better. He says that most of the time it's *USUALLY* a whore or somewhere along that line or someone who is way too into themselves that wears thongs. But that's what he says. and he's like 23 so Idk about him. (He's married too so...) I'm a girl and I only wear thongs in like tight jeans or in dance clothes cuz other types show lines.

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How can you tell if a girl is pretty?

Don't worry about her looks. Try her personality. and her attitude. Looks are not everything!

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What is the best cd made from:

Black Sabbath?
KISS?
ACDC?
Jimi Hendrix?

I say AC/DC- Back In Black but hey that's just me i'm was raised to classic rock and ACDC's the best in my opinion!

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ok..well i have some fat on my stomach..its bothering me becuz i cant get rid of it. It like sticks out and stuff..and ive been doing crunches and stuff to try to get it toned and stuff but its not working..any other ideas to get it toned??

Crunches don't normally work try twisting from side to side back and forth. Here let me explain:

1. Sit on the floor feet spread like a toe touch.
2. Raise your arms to shoulder height.
3. Twist your body from side to side. You know like make a circle with your arms each arm makes half the circle.
4. Do this about 20 reps and you'll really feel it when your done. But make sure to keep those abs tight while you do this.

This really works trust me! I used this and I lost my entire stomach!

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My boyfriend is always giving me hickeys and I really want to give him one. I've never gave one before, so how do I actually do it? Alls I know is you have to suck on the neck, but exactly how do you give someone a hickey?

You kinda answered you own question but it's not just all sucking on the skin kinda nibble a little bit. There are certain places that a hickey will show up really well and other places you have to suck awhile before it shows. Don't like attack his neck just kiss him and nibble a little bit tease him before you try or even ask him how he does it. I had to ask one of my guy friends and then he left like one on each arm.( and the ur a whore comment that was made ignore it.)

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ok this is totally imbarising but when i pee i pee red and i no its not my period cause it always goes on please help im scared and i will NOT go to a doctor cause when i was younger one mollested me :(

Honey you have to go to a doctor for that kind of stuff. Even if you don't like them try to go to a gynacologist( there really gentle and your parents stay with you) and sometimes you can get a girl and then you can really trust them. But the problem you have might just be after your period or even before it starts a little early and after it's just releasing the extra blood that doesn't release from your system. But I may be wrong but you still NEED to go to a doctor about it. Tell your mom or whoever that you have that problem.

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how do i flirt without seeming desparate? im too afraid to play hard-to-get because then it might make them uninterested. and i want a way to flirt without putting myself on the line(just in case he doesn't like me)

Smile ALOT!!! flirt and just be yourself. I flirt with guys by telling them that there hott or something like also telling them they have a really nice ass( if they do) and normally it's gets them to like me for who I am, But then again i'm a really outgoing person. If your a shy person Smile alot and laugh at everything no matter how stupid or corny but don't laugh where it sounds like a hyena but just a giggle. It always works!! If ya need more help just write to muh inbox i'll help ya out in that catagory!

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hey does anyone have a FreeWebs website?? if you do, can u send me the link to it so i can check it out and get some ideas for mine?? thanks!!

try going to www.expage.com it really works you can add really cool things to it too!

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does ne 1 you have any good tips for makeup that isnt far out nd wont give you a name but stuff thats different than the rest of everybody. lol.. sry if its a bit confusin.. but ill rate you!

xoxoox

I just use eye make-up I don't know why but eyeliner(exspecially black) really brings out anyone's eyes. I use a black eyeliner and mascara, along with just a light purple or white eyeshadow. I don't like to wear like base or powder it makes my face feel funky and sweats off too easily. Just try what I said eyeliner, black mascara, and a light color eyeshawdow (perferably one that will look good with the outfit your wearing, but nothing too ragious). Like say your wearing a lime green shirt and blue jeans... Try the black eyeliner and mascara with a light maybe white or a light shade of green with it. But if your use to base and powder go ahead it won't hurt. I just don't like it.

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Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx

I think that if it's bothering you then you should try to gain a LITTLE bit of weight but 94lbs is NOT anerexic try being in the 8th grade 5*1 and 65lbs THAT'S anerexic (a friend of mine not me). Just tell people that your NOT anerexic and that there's a difference in being anerexic and not being anerexic. Here let me show you. Anerexic is where you have an eating disorder where when you look in the mirror or at yourself you see a really fat person so you work your butt off to lose it and it makes you look really bad and you get really skinny and won't eat or nething. But when you can eat normally and exercise regularly then your just a normal person like everyone else. So if I were you I would just deal with it and anyway being anerexic isn't such a bad thing(besides the seeing yourself fat and working your butt of part). I'm 5*2 and i'm 135lbs and I don't care what people think of me. So just deal with it and if it doesn't help then I guess you could try to gain a FEW lbs but don't try to make yourself fat cuz then they'll be calling you a whale or something. lol *sorry I had to say it* So if you have anymore problems just drop 'em off at my inbox and i'll help ya out!

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ok well like a week ago we had camp for cheerleading..and at the last day we had tryouts to go to the perade (ima cheerleader all ready but this means ur really good) and well..i honestly did perfect in my tryouts..everyone said i did AWESOME and i was gonna make it for sure..well when she told us who made it..all my friends made it and i didn't..even a girl the cheerleader teacher liked made it and she SUCKED i thought i got robbed..and at the end everyone said shes a jealous cheerleader bitch..cuz i shoulda made it..and i know i shoulda cuz it was PERFECT..and i just feel so cheated and hurt cuz i practiced so hard..

I hate to tell you this but she prolly had like connections into it so. That's happens alot people get cheated and it's not very fun. I tried it and the girls here some of them only got onto the squad because there moms helped out, there moms were teachers, or there sisters were on it before. So yes you were cheated and I know how you feel about it. I'm sorry but I don't know what else to tell you.

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i want more boyz as friends how do i do this im semi-popular in middle skool and i want to just have that like really good friend at skool but...all the boys are mean to me how can i get more boys as friends

Honey middle school boys are mean anyways. Just wait until Jr. High and High school then you'll find out that when they mature more(which is highly unlikely) some guys will be friends with anyone. I had that problem too and now almost all of my friends are guys. SO they'll get over it.

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A question to any number of the male members of this site:

I know that hair isn't quite as important, to men, as other parts of the body are.

But.

What kind of hair is attractive, on a woman? (Long hair, short hair, dark hair, light hair, etcetera.)

I know this isn't quite as important as the body and the personality but I find myself quite a bit more self-concious of my hair than anything else and I -know- that most guys like girls with perfect bodies and great personalities. I'm completely clueless about the hair, though.

:P Thanks in advance.

The style of hair a woman has depends on the personality of the woman. I'm a very outgoing person and I have medium blonde hair. I think it fits me very well. And it mostly depends on what you think looks good on you. Don't worry about what others think about yourself just be you!

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if ur on a like salad andvegie fruit diet and if u ate a lil btit of cereal like at 12 can u gain a lil bit of weight...im trying to eat every 4 hours

Here let me help you. You can't just lose weight by eating a salad every 4 hours you have to try. Try to workout like walk around the block a few times maybe go to the gym. I was haveing that problem to and diets weren't working for me then my aunt and grandma showed me to this really cool place called Curves ask your mom about it. It's really working for me and after awhile you can really tell it's working.
P.S diets don't really work unless you exercise with them, and Curves makes exercising fun!

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i just moved from new york to virginia. im going into 9th grade and into a new high school. ive been with my friends in new york ever since pre-k and now im scared to make new ones.. what should i do?

Try to find people that remind you of your old friends. They might become friends with you. Be yourself if you don't make any friends it's okay school work is pretty good too. I'm sure that you'll find some people that are just like you and your old friends.

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Ok well my boyfriend thinks that I dont have enough time to spend with him because I play so many sports. I am on a softball traveling team. Varsity cheerleading. Varsity vollyball. Dance. Gymnastics. Basketball. Swim team and tennis. I dont want to give any of them up with it being my senior year but i am always at practice and i do come see him in between practices and when im not doing anything. I pretty much see him when i need to be sleeping. and he told me today that he thinks that we might break up if i dont give up something. I dont think that is right...We have been together for 6 years...since the seventh grade. And now we are seniors. What should I do???

Thanks...Hotblonde123

Well since it's your senior year and you have been dating for 6 years do you think he can wait one more year? Ask him about it. Ask him to come to your games or something. Then you two can have time before and after games and if your coach will let you even during practice. He may be able to help you improve your game (not saying that it's bad) but he can help you if you have problems. Or you can explain to him that you like doing sports and that if he loves you that he should learn to love them too!

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